Super conservative girl

[Raqimus]

Hey guys, yesterday went on this date with this girl and I could get nothing from her not even a kiss hahaha. I remember reading on the site that theres sometimes those girls that you'll run into, no matter what you do ie disqualify yourself as a boyfriend that's all she'll see you as. The girl is very conservative and the way she worded things sounded like her last boyfriend had to wait two years to fuck her. I'm not doing that.

This girl is chasing me pretty hard and she views me higher than she views herself, now I like this girl, she is what I'm looking for in a girlfriend it's just at this period in time I don't want a girlfriend I want to continue meeting new women and improving my game. I'm considering moving things towards an open relationship and I know already planning a relationship when I haven't even kissed her is stupid, I will probably have to go on another date with her to kiss her, I don't even know if sex is on the table because it doesn't seem like it.

I don't want to lie and bullshit saying I want a relationship and shit but I'd also love to see if I can lay this girl, any advice?

 

[ray_zorse]

Read the article on date compression and just continue gaming her as normal, the girl I'm currently in the process of breaking up with, started off like this but surprisingly eventually came to the party after I told her honestly that I was continuing to date and was telling her this because I did not want to trick her into bed or do anything on false pretences. Be honest and stick to your frame and see what happens. In my case there were problems down the track but that was somewhat due to my boyfriend-like behaviour and somewhat due to her natural inclination to push for commitment as the "new lover" honeymoon period expires.
Ray

 

[Raqimus]

Read the article on date compression and just continue gaming her as normal, the girl I'm currently in the process of breaking up with, started off like this but surprisingly eventually came to the party after I told her honestly that I was continuing to date and was telling her this because I did not want to trick her into bed or do anything on false pretences. Be honest and stick to your frame and see what happens. In my case there were problems down the track but that was somewhat due to my boyfriend-like behaviour and somewhat due to her natural inclination to push for commitment as the "new lover" honeymoon period expires.
Ray

Okay I'll read the article but I'm unsure about honestly telling her I'm continuing to date. I mean I havent implied exclusivity and she knows who I am, I've set my frame as a lover and constantly disqualify myself as a boyfriend. Even with that she has said "I want to kiss you, but I dont becaues if I do I know i'll just keep imaginging a future together and etc" I realized she was scared and as for the dating stuff It's like why bring it up unless she asks you know what I mean? I don't want to lie to her but I don't get why I'd bring up something like that when she knows I'm not pushing for exclusivity.

*Edit just read the article and it sounds good, I just don't think I can follow through with all that considering I still live at home. I'm going on a second date with her tomorrow and I'm a bit unsure about what to do, maybe Panera then go for a stroll. It's similar to the last date so i feel like it may seem like I'm stalling since the first date was starbucks then a stroll. Maybe make this one more romantic...hmmm and we can't do drinks(shes straight edge) I'd have to try to get back to her place for a movie or something so well see, thanks ray.

 

[ray_zorse]

Yeah, that's ok man, btw I saw your FR with hot Spanish girl, top stuff brother. As to my above msg I wasn't saying you should tell her beforehand that only casual r/ship is on the table, when I did this it turned out to be a mistake (sounded defensive -> sounded like fighting the conservative frame -> sounded like accepting the conservative frame), but I just mentioned it to demonstrate that even conservative girls can come on board with it, provided you have a strong frame and/or are super honest and direct about it, they probably just haven't seriously considered a casual relationship before or the advantages it might bring (and people are surprisingly flexible if it's a question of getting something they want or need, in this case your cock). Keep us posted.
Ray

 

[Raqimus]

Okay Ray, I understand I'll keep everything you said in mind, and thanks for reading!