Super Seducer

[OldGuy]

For 1: Go for it. Only danger is she might be good marriage material.
"I have a boyfriend" on initial approach, but gives phone number. means either: Keep it between ourselves until I get to know you better or I'm saying it is his child even if it is yours.

 

[S.S Can]

31 DAYS CHALLENGE
Still going strong, but really just anticipating the fruits of my efforts. I think I'm ejecting out of sets too soon instead of really staying in them and setting hooks. All in all, I'm closing lots and doing better. I should start having some dates by next week and then things will feel more real. The beginning of the process always feels like doing the impossible, and then looking back in retrospect you see that you were putting in work. I think my style right now is only a little bit better than neo-direct, so I'll try to adjust tomorrow and stay in the pocket longer.

1
At a thrift store, and this girl wanders near me with an amazing outfit and a tight body, and I open with a comment about her trendy haircut. I joke about how all of her clothes are a similar vibe to the stuff that she's wearing, and that she's really got a one-track mind. My brother wanders over and interrupts twice, and she takes a call and I let her go because upon opening her there was something off about the way she looked.

2
Another girl at the same thrift store, who I approach directly commenting on her pants, and asked her if she went to school in the area. She had just moved, and was staying with her mother and sister, and was into dance. I flirted a little, asking if she was hip because of her style of dance before attempting to number close. She said she didn't give her number out, so I texted on IG.

-hey again

Not anticipating a response.

3
Third girl, I was coming out of a Scientology building and this girl was really excited to see me, coming from a Scientology class. I stop her in the street and tell her that she is stunning, and she was really happy to see me. Banter a little bit, before I ask her if she likes coffee. She says yes, and I tell her we should get some this week. She says yes. Number close.

Texting looks like this -

hey -, hopefully that class wasn't too boring, what are you up to for the rest of the day? - S.S Can

4
Opened this girl who was pretty obviously uninterested but stunning in a cafe, and got into conversation about her dissertation. I was trying hard to make it playful, but was getting bogged down in the facts. I got up to shake her hand, sat down and gave a tease that didn't land, and she told me that she had to get back to work.

YOU DON'T

Takeaways!
Honestly, same issue as last time I just need to create more high points and make the conversation last longer. I'm getting better at closing though so it's all in due time. Something I didn't do enough of was generate compliance, which I'll try to make a goal alongside flirtation.

Also, for senior members I'd love help texting because I have no clue what I'm doing on that front.


10/31 COMPLETE

47 GIRLS APPROACHED

6 number closes (6/7)
1 IG close.

 

[S.S Can]

Rocket magic.

what's this mean bro?

 

[S.S Can]

6
Two absolutely stunning girls from South Africa that I really didn't want to approach ended up being the best interaction. We spoke for around 10-15 minutes and I had them laughing the entire time and ended up getting their numbers. I'm leaving tomorrow, but the hotter one told me that when she was in my city she would text me.

This girl texted me asking when she should come to my city. @Skills should I use the sexual texting you have on your blog or just set up the meet.

 

[Skills]

This girl texted me asking when she should come to my city. @Skills should I use the sexual texting you have on your blog or just set up the meet.

Set up meeting

 

[S.S Can]

31 DAYS CHALLENGE
This is a big one for you gentlemen living through me vicariously, I did God's work today. Hit an outdoor mall and went ridiculous. I'm gonna have to run through the day to figure out how many approaches I did but the A.A didn't exist today.

1
First approach of the day, I went to the gym alone and see this girl with a perfect body and pigtails wearing fitness clothes that accent her body and just imagine doggystyle. I think she wouldn't go for me, but whatever I'll go make the play anyway. She's on the treadmill, and I sidle up next to her and push the button, so I'd be walking at the same time that we had the conversation, but I opened her direct.

-Hey
(takes her headphones off_
-Hi!
-I was on my way out of here, I turned and saw you and you stopped me in my TRACKS.
She pauses the treadmill, (I'm glad the feeling's mutual) and says something like thank you
-She's from a rural part of my state and just moved over here, and was super excited to be talking to me. Basic conversation where I leaned into the frame of do I like her and she qualified. At some point I lean back and look at her and tell her that we should hang out some time

She replies
-well I'm always around here
-What?!?!
-well i'm always around here!
-tell you what do you like coffee?
-yes
-we'll get coffee.

she texted back and all is good.

2
2nd dime I see playing pickleball, level 9000 doonie demon and her power level was too high. I just walked up to her and told her she was gorgeous, engaged in some low-level conversation until she told me she had to go and that her uber was coming.

3
Third girl that my brothers were telling me was stunning and I should approach, but I didn't like the look of her.
She said she liked reading, I went into some hyper-specific detail about a series she liked and she just kind of stared off to space. This one's a dud but I got the number and she texted back.

4
High off the last approach, I open a girl from the side who's got some trendy workout clothes and tell her she looks put together. She looks like a deer in headlights and keeps moving towards Aritizia. I ask her wait, can you come back? I feel like a pansy but it works. She tells me that she'll keep talking to me but that she should let me know she's got a boyfriend. I ask another question and then I'm not feeling it, she looks badder from behind so I eject.

5
Girl with a model walk, I open and talk to her and who I assume is her sister, and I tell her as much. She kind of smiles and says she's visiting from a rural part of texas and is here for the weekend, but she might also be underage. I grab the number, this one doesn't text back.

6
Next I stop a stunner in workout clothes walking into lululemon and engage her in conversation. She was down to be seduced, but I went for the number too quick and she told me that she had a boyfriend, although I was good at talking.

7
Hey to a hispanic girl. Blowout.

She was chopped anyway.

8
Walk up on a passing milf who isn't that attractive, say excuse me and hey, and she just tells me look, I'm trying to shop and I'm married.

Okay and I'm trying to get some reps in. Be nice.

9
STUNNING 10/10 with some acne and an absolute body walks out of this healthy food place and past the Starbucks I'm sitting, and I RUN out to keep pace.

She's happy to see me.

She opens with the fact that she has a boyfriend, but she's compliant and I move her around some. At one point we're walking towards her car and I tell her I have to head back, so she starts to walk off and I learn from number 4. I tell her come back! she comes to daddy.

I tell her we should hang out.
-You me and my boyfriend?
-He can come...
(flip the phone)
-I really can't.
I just sigh exaggeratedly and wave her away.

10
One last approach where I cross the street and talk to this thick girl in trendy clothing, it's an instant I have a boyfriend.



Takeaways!
A lot of these approaches were borderline neo-direct. When I'm in the mode of mass approaching it's like my genuine curiosity about a girl is lost and I'm just in the mode of getting in the space. Although a lot of these approaches were kind of similar, I was changing delivery and practicing tonality. All in all not bad, 2 leads and the South African hottie from a couple of days ago is heavily invested. Our conversation looks like this.

-Hey! sorry for the late response. It was so busy with my sis here. She's on her way back home, I dropped her off at the airport earlier tonight. How are you?
Yes I'll definitely come to your city sometime this year. When is the best time?

- Hey -, i'm doing fantastic. Lots of family over and we've just been going all around town checking out hot spots and hitting the gym. How'd your time with your sister go?
Come see me in December, the weather is much better and lots of things to do. I might be coming to New York in October, would you show me around?

-I'm happy to hear that! Oh that sounds very nice. Family time is always good! Where are they from... how long will they be visiting?? ohh, so you're a gym guy?
My time with my sis was sooo nice, I was crying so much yesterday when I had to say goodbye to her.
Sounds perfect, it's cold and snowing here then. So would be nice to go somewhere where the weather is better! I hate the cold and snow.
That's cool.. is your brother coming with you too? and yes of couse I'll show you around!

-They're from - and they'll be here until Tuesday. It's my little cousin so I'm showing him the ropes. (As you gentlemen can see) Yeah you could say that, I do more running than lifting since I like to stay toned. How about you?

Sad to hear about your sister, hopefully not too long until you see her.
And no, I'm going alone since I've got something to do over there. I'm glad I'll have a tour guide!

Also, shoot me a picture of yourself

response 2 minutes later

-Oh okay.. that's nice. So you still have a few days with them. Ohh I see! How old is he? Okay... and yes you're definitely toned. (I'm not). I don't gym, I'm quite self conscious haha. So I like to do workouts at home! I also like running, but haven't done that in quite a while. But I like to stay active.

Only seeing her next year again.
Oh okay I see. yes definitely! I'm a pro now haha.

Like a random picture or what?

-He's 17, but he's pretty mature for his age. Wise beyond his years.

I love a girl that stays active, that's super important. I could also tell when we met, so that makes sense.
Next year's a long time! Hopefully you've got a lot of stories to tell her by then.

A sexy picture is better.

I'm glad you texted by the way, you really left an impression on me

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20 days left. Right in time for Uni, I'll be appropriately warmed up.


11/31 COMPLETE

57 GIRLS APPROACHED

9 number closes (9/11)
1 IG close. (1/0)

 

[S.S Can]

31 DAYS CHALLENGE
Yesterday's work, I slept late and didn't feel like writing it. Weird since I usually like sharing these. All the approaches were kind of nondescript, sometimes it's more about the girl that you meet than the actual approach.

1
First girl, completely my type that I saw in the gym with an EVIL body. Had to go walk up to her and she was a sweetheart, kind of girl that you can tell off the jump is very nice. I opened direct -

-I saw you from over there and I was just falling in love, so I had to come say hi.
-aww thank you! I have a boyfriend.

This wasn't even a closeout response, I could've kept talking to her but I didn't.

2
Really awkward one, thick ass girl that I had to approach sitting on the yoga mats. Opens weird and I sit down next to her, we talk for a little bit before she tells me she's got a boyfriend. my fault

3
Two girls sitting out on the deck, I approach and they're bartenders. I banter a little bit and try to tease, and she responds pretty calmly. By the end I try to close, she tells me she's got a boyfriend.

4
Cafe later, make a passing comment to this pretty attractive indian girl with a man, she's receptive but doesn't engage.

5
Direct approach on this girl in a dress, I tell her that it was captivating and she tells me that it's her friend's. She's visiting from a different city and was only here for the day, leaving tomorrow morning and I was with family.

Takeaways!
Three biggest sticking points are being too direct, not asking for enough compliance, and leaving conversations too early. The last two are probably directly correlated, and the first one is a function of a lack of creativity.


12/31 COMPLETE

62 GIRLS APPROACHED

9 number closes (9/11)
1 IG close. (1/0)

 

[Prodigy]

You'll conquer them sticking points my dawg.i trust in you

 

[S.S Can]

31 DAYS CHALLENGE
Once again yesterday's work, I've been more automatic about gaming but maybe because it's now so integral to my day the urge to write about it has reduced. It's just so regular to a guy like me. Anyway, I see now that what makes the 30 day challenge difficult to complete isn't actually motivating yourself to go 30 days, it's forgetting why it's important. Once you start to see results you wonder if you really need to make approaches, or if things are fine as they are.

1
Went to a watering hole, sat down with a girl that was just absolutely stunning. Talked for a while and had a good vibe, got her number and agreed to hangout but no response to the text.

2
On the way out, validation stamps to get back in are required. I joked around with my friends and got a girl laughing who heard us third hand, and then I transitioned into some conversation. She wasn't attractive.

3
Smoothie place, saw this girl standing in line. I opened by asking what she got, and she responded with a smile and closed off her body language so I disengaged. After that, I saw her sit down outside alone so I went and approached.

I asked her if she was from my city, and she said that she was from a town 60 miles away. Asked why she was here and she said to watch a movie with her boyfriend.

After that I joked around about her taste in movies and actually got her laughing and we had a really good vibe. I ejected because of the boyfriend thing, but honestly she didn't seem too concerned. This is one of the instances where a close may have worked but it's out of my reality. I've only slept with girls with boyfriends through social circle.

4
In a restaurant. This approach was borderline autistic but I guess it goes to show how powered up I'm feeling. GIrl sitting alone who I come, tell her she's stunning and sit down across from her. We engage in cordial conversation, but she's something like 10 years older than me and tells me she has a fiance when I close.

Takeaways!
Always be closing. It's absolutely insane how different you can feel about your capability to game one day to another. If I was writing this yesterday I'd be feeling terrible, now I'm seeing that this is just like sales. Fill up the pipeline, keep the funnel wide and improve every element of the process and girls WILL come.


13/31 COMPLETE

66 GIRLS APPROACHED

10 number closes (10/12)
1 IG close. (1/0)

 

[S.S Can]

31 DAYS CHALLENGE
Went to a vintage clothing pop-up, to stupendous effect. There were so many girls that I could have been talking to, sometimes you get analysis paralysis and just decide not to make a move.

1
First approach was the best, beautiful girl carrying a bag with patches. She's also got a grocery store bag. I open her saying that I love the patches on her bag and ask her where she got it. She tells me that it's just a bag from a grocery store. I say the other one!

I get her locked in very quickly, and she moves closer to me. I can tell that she's super into the conversation, she tells me that she just moved here and so on and so forth, would have been an easy instant date if I was alone, but I wasn't. I had to end the interaction even though she clearly wanted to keep going after we agreed to hang out and decided to explore the city together.

who needs a warm-up approach

This for some reason also got me into a super social mood and I was in social-god mode light, people started coming up and talking to me randomly.
2
After this, I open a shy-looking girl with a nice body and a nice outfit, and she responds with just a smile and looking away. I leave it, but a little later she hovers by me and I think that she wants me to re-open, but I'm already busy with the next girl.

3
Brunette with some shades on her heads says excuse me to get past me when she doesn't need to, so I ask her if a shirt I'm holding up is too girly before messing around with her a bit and telling her to show me her haul. We flirt a little before her friend comes and takes her attention, and I move on without trying to close.

4
Playing soccer at a park, I try to open one of the girls we're playing with and get some banter. Her boyfriend's there, doesn't really lead anywhere.

5
At a cafe, I open a girl on what book she's reading and she opens instantly. This is the best interaction I've had over the course of the journal, with playful witty banter and us having a load of fun. Come to find out she's 17. God isn't good.

6
Night time open on a girl walking in university area next to my friend's. She's skeptical, I go for number and get Instagram after some banter.

Takeaways!
Fun day.


14/31 COMPLETE

72 GIRLS APPROACHED

10 number closes (10/13)
2 IG closes 2

 

[S.S Can]

31 DAYS CHALLENGE - FAILED!
Whoops. Didn't manage to get all four approaches out as a result of hanging with family. Not stressed about it since I'm just going to start again today.

1
Walking out of cafe, worker on break comes out at the same time and I compliment her boots.
-Where'd you get those?
-Buffalo exchange

She says she's got a while on break, but she wasn't super attractive so I disengaged.

2
Bowling alley, a girl in the lane is eyeing me down so I walk into her booth and start asking to borrow a ball since I can't. She's immediately receptive, but I'm 50/50 on whether she looks good. She stares me down while we play but someone who I think is her boyfriend comes out a little later.


74 girls approached

10 Number Closes (10/13)

2 IG Closes