31 DAYS CHALLENGE
Still going strong, but really just anticipating the fruits of my efforts. I think I'm ejecting out of sets too soon instead of really staying in them and setting hooks. All in all, I'm closing lots and doing better. I should start having some dates by next week and then things will feel more real. The beginning of the process always feels like doing the impossible, and then looking back in retrospect you see that you were putting in work. I think my style right now is only a little bit better than neo-direct, so I'll try to adjust tomorrow and stay in the pocket longer.
1
At a thrift store, and this girl wanders near me with an amazing outfit and a tight body, and I open with a comment about her trendy haircut. I joke about how all of her clothes are a similar vibe to the stuff that she's wearing, and that she's really got a one-track mind. My brother wanders over and interrupts twice, and she takes a call and I let her go because upon opening her there was something off about the way she looked.
2
Another girl at the same thrift store, who I approach directly commenting on her pants, and asked her if she went to school in the area. She had just moved, and was staying with her mother and sister, and was into dance. I flirted a little, asking if she was hip because of her style of dance before attempting to number close. She said she didn't give her number out, so I texted on IG.
-hey again
Not anticipating a response.
3
Third girl, I was coming out of a Scientology building and this girl was really excited to see me, coming from a Scientology class. I stop her in the street and tell her that she is stunning, and she was really happy to see me. Banter a little bit, before I ask her if she likes coffee. She says yes, and I tell her we should get some this week. She says yes. Number close.
Texting looks like this -
hey -, hopefully that class wasn't too boring, what are you up to for the rest of the day? - S.S Can
4
Opened this girl who was pretty obviously uninterested but stunning in a cafe, and got into conversation about her dissertation. I was trying hard to make it playful, but was getting bogged down in the facts. I got up to shake her hand, sat down and gave a tease that didn't land, and she told me that she had to get back to work.
YOU DON'T
Takeaways!
Honestly, same issue as last time I just need to create more high points and make the conversation last longer. I'm getting better at closing though so it's all in due time. Something I didn't do enough of was generate compliance, which I'll try to make a goal alongside flirtation.
Also, for senior members I'd love help texting because I have no clue what I'm doing on that front.
10/31 COMPLETE
47 GIRLS APPROACHED
6 number closes (6/7)
1 IG close.
