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So I've been getting into online game a bit, just dipping my toes in to supplement my (ir)regular approaching. Mostly figure I'll increase the luck surface area and increase my chances of getting lucky, which could jump start good momentum.
I matched with a girl I considered pretty cute. We chat a bit, and I try to follow @Skills texting guide to get her out. It works pretty well, and we meet up at a venue I select. I didn't have logistics on that night, so I decided ahead of time that I would opt for a two date model. What that meant to me was a fun night, with some good sexual vibe, deep diving, and kissing at the end before she leaves.
We meet at a venue which is a pretty LGBT friendly spot, and that I like for its very liberated atmosphere. I get us a round of drinks, and we sit somewhere while an open mic night is going on. It's pretty standard conversation, some light sex talk, and deep diving. I move us after the open mic ends, and we sit on some comfy couches. This ups the vibe a bit, and once we finish the first drinks, I suggest another round, then we go sit on the outside terrace.
A bit more talking, with a bit of verbal escalation by starting to talk about more saucy topics. I dial up non-judgemental and discretion subjects. It's going pretty well, so I suggest a second venue. It's a fancy rooftop, and as we're walking, I spy a spot that looks even more interesting, but that has a reputation for having a tough entry.
I tell the girl we should sneak in instead. She seems more excited about this, and I hold my hand out, and we link arms to go inside. Inside the bar, I easily hold her hand and lead her around the club. I want to say that it was this moment that really increased the vibe between the two of us. We get another round of drinks, which I have her pay for. More talking, touching, and sexual vibe increasing.
After a bit, we head out to leave, and I walk her to the station. I make out with her for a few seconds before saying bye.
She's not actually free the next week, so I hit her up again and we have a date scheduled for two weeks after date 1. She actually flakes on this, but suggests meeting on a Friday night. Given the increased investment of such a move, I'm happy to agree, since I have a good feeling about converting a Friday night date into a lay.
The main complexity of a Friday night date for me is deciding on venues. I live in a very happening area, so it's difficult to find a spot with good logistics, where I don't have to worry about random guys entering our space. I do finally find what is a great spot, with a great vibe.
We meet around 10:30PM. The conversation flows, and we talk, and I introduce some other liberated topics, and get buy in from her. I try to focus on the passion of being free-spirited and breaking away from the chains people try to put on us, and I qualify her when she agrees with what I say. I also tease her a bit more, while doing a good amount of push-pull.
As we're finishing the drink, I suggest we grab another round at a cheap dive bar, and then come to my place for a glass of wine. She's down, so we go off to the second venue, with the already agreement to come back to mine afterwards.
The second venue is much louder than I expected, but we're able to talk fine. The conversation at this bar is mostly fluff, without much substance, but it seems to fit the atmosphere. Honestly, I probably could have skipped the second venue, given that both of us seemed to be trying to finish our drinks pretty fast. Ah well.
We get back to mine, and I pour some drinks (which of course end up barely touched). From there pretty straightforward, no LMR, fairly okay sex. Nothing exceptional, though I do cum, which felt nice since I usually have a hard time with that.
No idea if I'll see her again, which I'm fine with. I'm in a bit more of a vulnerable place right now, and I think it would be very easy to satisfice and settle with someone not up to my standards, so it's good to avoid that issue entirely. She's out of town for 4 weeks now, so that makes it much easier for me.
Overall, a pretty textbook 2 date lay. I've never had a successful 2 date lay before, so that was cool. Also my first online success. Haven't been with a girl of this type in a while, so that also felt good.
I matched with a girl I considered pretty cute. We chat a bit, and I try to follow @Skills texting guide to get her out. It works pretty well, and we meet up at a venue I select. I didn't have logistics on that night, so I decided ahead of time that I would opt for a two date model. What that meant to me was a fun night, with some good sexual vibe, deep diving, and kissing at the end before she leaves.
We meet at a venue which is a pretty LGBT friendly spot, and that I like for its very liberated atmosphere. I get us a round of drinks, and we sit somewhere while an open mic night is going on. It's pretty standard conversation, some light sex talk, and deep diving. I move us after the open mic ends, and we sit on some comfy couches. This ups the vibe a bit, and once we finish the first drinks, I suggest another round, then we go sit on the outside terrace.
A bit more talking, with a bit of verbal escalation by starting to talk about more saucy topics. I dial up non-judgemental and discretion subjects. It's going pretty well, so I suggest a second venue. It's a fancy rooftop, and as we're walking, I spy a spot that looks even more interesting, but that has a reputation for having a tough entry.
I tell the girl we should sneak in instead. She seems more excited about this, and I hold my hand out, and we link arms to go inside. Inside the bar, I easily hold her hand and lead her around the club. I want to say that it was this moment that really increased the vibe between the two of us. We get another round of drinks, which I have her pay for. More talking, touching, and sexual vibe increasing.
After a bit, we head out to leave, and I walk her to the station. I make out with her for a few seconds before saying bye.
She's not actually free the next week, so I hit her up again and we have a date scheduled for two weeks after date 1. She actually flakes on this, but suggests meeting on a Friday night. Given the increased investment of such a move, I'm happy to agree, since I have a good feeling about converting a Friday night date into a lay.
The main complexity of a Friday night date for me is deciding on venues. I live in a very happening area, so it's difficult to find a spot with good logistics, where I don't have to worry about random guys entering our space. I do finally find what is a great spot, with a great vibe.
We meet around 10:30PM. The conversation flows, and we talk, and I introduce some other liberated topics, and get buy in from her. I try to focus on the passion of being free-spirited and breaking away from the chains people try to put on us, and I qualify her when she agrees with what I say. I also tease her a bit more, while doing a good amount of push-pull.
As we're finishing the drink, I suggest we grab another round at a cheap dive bar, and then come to my place for a glass of wine. She's down, so we go off to the second venue, with the already agreement to come back to mine afterwards.
The second venue is much louder than I expected, but we're able to talk fine. The conversation at this bar is mostly fluff, without much substance, but it seems to fit the atmosphere. Honestly, I probably could have skipped the second venue, given that both of us seemed to be trying to finish our drinks pretty fast. Ah well.
We get back to mine, and I pour some drinks (which of course end up barely touched). From there pretty straightforward, no LMR, fairly okay sex. Nothing exceptional, though I do cum, which felt nice since I usually have a hard time with that.
No idea if I'll see her again, which I'm fine with. I'm in a bit more of a vulnerable place right now, and I think it would be very easy to satisfice and settle with someone not up to my standards, so it's good to avoid that issue entirely. She's out of town for 4 weeks now, so that makes it much easier for me.
Overall, a pretty textbook 2 date lay. I've never had a successful 2 date lay before, so that was cool. Also my first online success. Haven't been with a girl of this type in a while, so that also felt good.
