Humay,
Moving fast is the trait of a sexy, dominant man. If every guy in your city was gay, why would you want to move slow? It would be in your best interest to move even faster because there would be more women that would want you to please them. If you moved slow, they would wonder why you were doing this and probably come to the conclusion that you were not interested.
I noticed you posted a
similar topic that Franco already replied to (Similar in regards to a guy moving slower with women). Are you having doubts about moving fast?
-John