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Suppressed, Distracted, or Asexual?

NewBeeWinner

Cro-Magnon Man
Cro-Magnon Man
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Hey guys,

Met a girl out running and had a pretty good talk with her following my lead on where to go and moving her around getting compliance.

Anyways, got her number and we went out 2 days later to this tea place. She paid, good convo, I had her follow me in my car to this park I like, more good convo.

I ramped up touch and deep dived some more with lighter moments of laughing and jokes. She seemed pretty comfortable with my touch, at points me lightly massaging her body with both hands. Found out she was a bit nervous to join me out that day.

Went to move her to join me in my car as it was getting dark for some music, water, and to continue our convo. She looked a bit uncomfortable and brought up the "Im tired and its getting late" excuse so I suggested we sit on the curb and talk there so shed be more comfortable. She agreed and we continued to talk until the date ended with me ending it.

In the midst of this talk, found out shes 20, a virgin, not really into sex, never kissed a guy, etc. She actively disqualified herself from sex telling me if I was looking for anything like that she isnt the one. I know shes a woman so its not like she doesnt have a sex drive. But I also wasnt going to push it although I considered being playful about it.

I bet this all sounds a bit standard and couldve been her just testing me. But the vibe was a serious block to moving things forward past that point physically.

Shes also not the only girl Ive encountered like this - Ive known 4 other girls Ive taken out who were this way.

Do you think these women are asexual, distracted, suppressed, or just playing hard to get? Any thoughts? Any suggestions for moving things forward with these girls?

Thanks!

NBW
 

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Space Monkey
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I would say suppressed. I mean, how would she even know how into sex she is if she hasn't even kissed a guy before?
 
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Rakehell

Cro-Magnon Man
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Sounds kind of testy to me. Maybe she eluded getting her cherry popped earlier on and is too nervous to have sex now.

Screening for someone experienced who she’ll be in good hands with.

Maybe frame yourself as a very sexually experienced person with these types.

Asexual people aren’t usually virgins.
 
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