Foreplay Sweat-y BeastTurnoff?

[Chad Tyrone]

Been getting questioned about my sweat lately during escalation...And I'm doubting myself at most times I see them as tests tho I ain't sure.
Had this one beautiful lady on my bed the other day ,while I was escalating on her,my usual sweat starts to roll downshe then tells me sweat is one of her turnoffs.I continue escalating unfazed and tell her "guess it rolls over when the beast is unleashed"in the most sexiest of voices .Don't know if that was an ace to such a test.‍. Maybe I aced it cause she was still kissing me grabbing my huge schlong and took it all in.
Another one, having escalated for hours on end.Discovered she wants to lock me down cause I'm the best in my uni.Aint bragging ... Anyway next day after a night of setting sexual frames,non judgemental frames and adventurous frames and escalating on her while employing pattern interrupts cause she did not want me touching her erogenous parts I used my mouth to undress her can u imagine that yet lovely thought if she put out Mr Smooth as she called me will vanish after still having told her that I love women and hate guys who just fuck and dump em cause I believe there's more to women than just sex.She asks me why I was wet herein sweaty last night and I tell her the same line I came up with on the other girl she laughs and I tell her she doesn't know the real beast who growls and gruntsshe laughs again.Maybe she's naive she doesn't wanna play along or she thinks imma call her out if she says something bullshitty.
Anyway,is sweat a problem really or are there guys who don't sweat cause I can't fathom it being a turn off cause I believe in moments of passion closeness and stuff brings it about always

 

[Zoro]

Don’t sweat it.

If you don’t make it a big deal, she won’t. I use the beastly man frame too in similar situations.

If excessive, then maybe that could be an issue if she’s getting a lot of your sweat on her.

Could be solved by improving your diet if it’s not great. Also know a supplement that is supposed to help, but diet is the first step.

 

[Chad Tyrone]

Forrreal was one of those unfamiliar situations I daresay but I didn't lose my shit.Glad I learned staying unfazed and thanks to my intuition I got myself a great gal.Worst case scenario if I took it biggie-ly and she smelt it on me .. could have losed her...so I guess pretty everyone out there sweats and maybe my lady was new to the scene told me she broke her virginity a few days ago with her boyfriend he'll never know it ...poor loser.Maybe her man was Mr non-sweaty dunno

 

[Fuck This]

IF a woman is attracted to you, your sweat will turn her on...

https://www.reuters.com/article/us-...the-smell-of-mens-sweat-idUSN0744269320070208

The Smell Report - Sexual Attraction.

Women Can Smell a Man's Intentions

At least subconsciously, a woman can also tell a man's in the mood by the scent of his sweat.

www.livescience.com

If the exertion has boosted your endorphins, and you are sweaty, just your attitude can make that attractive....More than 3 times in my life after a good run, women have approached me romantically as I am dripping sweat. I've also been eye facked countless times in outdoor work clothes as opposed to dressed nicely.

 

[Chad Tyrone]

the exertion has boosted your endorphins, and you are sweaty, just your attitude can make that attractive....More than 3 times in my life after a good run, women have approached me romantically as I am dripping sweat. I've also been eye facked countless times in outdoor work

Thanks gee for the link was worried more on the turned on sweat

 

[Skills]

jesus christ! with the answers..... facepalm!

Sweat based on what you wrote is not a shit test, she is telling you the truth!

You can look the best, you can have the best game in the world, if your hygiene is not there it will be a problem....

I lost so many girls into me cause as sweat stains (dance floor), when i realized this i went out with dark color shits, and that solved the problem.... What is the reason you are sweating is it nervousness, or are you dancing, or are you overweight?

there is also a genetic disease were people have sweaty hands (this can be solved with surgery)


^ sweating = part of hygiene, if this is an issue game over...

 

[Chad Tyrone]

jesus christ! with the answers..... facepalm!

Sweat based on what you wrote is not a shit test, she is telling you the truth!

You can look the best, you can have the best game in the world, if your hygiene is not there it will be a problem....

I lost so many girls into me cause as sweat stains (dance floor), when i realized this i went out with dark color shits, and that solved the problem.... What is the reason you are sweating is it nervousness, or are you dancing, or are you overweight?

there is also a genetic disease wear people have sweaty hands (this can be solved with surgery)


^ sweating = part of hygiene

Haha bud u took everything literally I had taken a bath that morning myself don't think I have nervous ness issues I tell bitches I'm nervous around pretty gals and they slap me on the chest playfully saying that's clichey.lol.i don't think I have sweaty hands anyway I went withhttps://www.livescience.com/3202-women-smell-man-intentions.html...
Really resonates with what I was worried about check it out...mine is more of turned on sweat
Anyway thanks for the insight I may help guys with issues u are talking of.i sweat only during escalation /foreplay only other times I'm good.i think there was a misunderstanding most of my sweating scenarios are during foreplay not any other time .
Really reminds me when I couldn't get it up at times when I had lowered my standards and I'm thankful for that I could have regretted every moment of it shagging a 5 ...yikes.i won't find that arousing NEVER in a million years.never ever .That was another lifetime ago I worked my way around it by settling for nothing less than a 9 .Since then I'm ever a raaaging bull

 

[Chad Tyrone]

Haha bud u took everything literally I had taken a bath that morning myself don't think I have nervous ness issues I tell bitches I'm nervous around pretty gals and they slap me on the chest playfully saying that's clichey.lol.i don't think I have sweaty hands anyway I went withhttps://www.livescience.com/3202-women-smell-man-intentions.html...
Really resonates with what I was worried about check it out...mine is more of turned on sweat
Anyway thanks for the insight I may help guys with issues u are talking of.i sweat only during escalation /foreplay only other times I'm good.i think there was a misunderstanding most of my sweating scenarios are during foreplay not any other time .
Really reminds me when I couldn't get it up at times when I had lowered my standards and I'm thankful for that I could have regretted every moment of it shagging a 5 ...yikes.i won't find that arousing NEVER in a million years.never ever .That was another lifetime ago I worked my way around it by settling for nothing less than a 9 .Since then I'm ever a raaaging bull

Anyway they were good for the practice I'm far better seeking highly worth lands ever since .The greenest of pastures ...

 

[Skills]

Haha bud u took everything literally I had taken a bath that morning myself don't think I have nervous ness issues I tell bitches I'm nervous around pretty gals and they slap me on the chest playfully saying that's clichey.lol.i don't think I have sweaty hands anyway I went withhttps://www.livescience.com/3202-women-smell-man-intentions.html...
Really resonates with what I was worried about check it out...mine is more of turned on sweat
Anyway thanks for the insight I may help guys with issues u are talking of.i sweat only during escalation /foreplay only other times I'm good.i think there was a misunderstanding most of my sweating scenarios are during foreplay not any other time .
Really reminds me when I couldn't get it up at times when I had lowered my standards and I'm thankful for that I could have regretted every moment of it shagging a 5 ...yikes.i won't find that arousing NEVER in a million years.never ever .That was another lifetime ago I worked my way around it by settling for nothing less than a 9 .Since then I'm ever a raaaging bull

brah there is not turn on sweat in your scenario, she is actually turn off, if she is getting turn on in sweat she will not bring it up a problem with your sweating, again she is actually getting turn off...

 

[Chad Tyrone]

actually turn off, if she is getting turn on in sweat she will not bring it up a problem with your sweating, again she is actually getting turn off

Seems this is getting out of hand I'll provide more details feel like I'm leaving something behind

In most of my foreplays and during sex I sweat and only two women ever brought it up.One said it in passing then the other said it was a turn off in a "throw it out there " way and we were drunk at the time.Having deeply introspected I got worried if bedroom sweat (not sports sweat or anything non-sex related)is a turnoff cause I have never heard of it before cause most of the times my lays were also sweating just like I was.I guess too much body contact and breathing causes it.kinda if u breathe warm air on a surface say glass it gets moist.

And I kept questioning myself if any man could pull off three rounds with too much body contact in between too much breathing too much passionate sex without sweating cause sex is more of an energy activity.i asked some friends of mine and they related but I didn't want to assume that it's 100 % true that's why I asked it here.

The same girl who was saying it was a turn off kept grabbing me kissing me closer and took my dick out of my pants while I was sweating cause of reasons I have talked about above .That's why I thought she was testing me cause why could she not leave my place if it was a turn off and her panties were already drenched with cum .And that was only one of other bunch of tests .cause she brought another and another if my memory serves me right She said she even didn't love me haha I told her I wanna be the guy who doesn't count .

She then said she doesn't like to cheat and I said that it was gonna be our little secret.She then asked me if I hadn't fucked before and I put on a bored look . Figured it was her way of saying I undress her cause I had escalated way slower than she wanted and had kept her anticipating.

Actually I had done that unwittingly partly because I was drunk than she was and I wasn't much in control at the time and partly because I was too fucking focused on sucking her amazing boobs.Anyway I closed things out before she could go into autorejection.

I discovered the escalating-slower article months later and I'm kinda glad I didn't lose it cause any inexperienced guy who might have such tests thrown his way may have bailed out.

Anyway my question is now more of with too much body contact and too much heavy breathing ain't sweat rolling over?
I guess that makes it more clear@Skills

 

[Chase]

Anyway,is sweat a problem really or are there guys who don't sweat cause I can't fathom it being a turn off cause I believe in moments of passion closeness and stuff brings it about always

Are we talking about like rivers running down your flesh here?

Sweat is highly variable between humans. I know guys personally who as soon as it gets a little warm their hair is just drenched. I once had a martial arts class with this guy who was the sweatiest I'd ever known... from the first punch he threw this guy just erupted in a slick coat of sweat. They'd make us do wrist grabs and other drills and it was just impossible to hold this guy, your hands slid right off him. It was like his own natural self-defense mechanism against holds and grabs.

Anyway, it seems like you handled it fine with the first girl. The second girl sounds like she had other reasons for resisting.

I probably wouldn't worry about this too much... except to maybe get some air conditioning going in your place when you know you've got a girl coming over.

Other than that, I'd say don't sweat it

In most of my foreplays and during sex I sweat and only two women ever brought it up.One said it in passing then the other said it was a turn off in a "throw it out there " way and we were drunk at the time.Having deeply introspected I got worried if bedroom sweat (not sports sweat or anything non-sex related)is a turnoff cause I have never heard of it before cause most of the times my lays were also sweating just like I was.I guess too much body contact and breathing causes it.kinda if u breathe warm air on a surface say glass it gets moist.

I mean, sweating during sex is normal if it's hot and you go for a prolonged stretch of time.

Right now it's summer and the air conditioning is broken in my bedroom. By about 10 minutes into sex, a woman's body is slick with my sweat from whatever part of her I'm on, usually also with a few shed body hairs. If it's doggy, her ass and thighs is dripping wet with my sweat. If it's missionary, her tits, chest, stomach, pelvis, etc., have sweat all over them.

I am not really a sweaty guy. But when it's hot and there's no AC and you're doing a lot of hard work, the body's going to do what it does to try to cool itself off.

I have had girls complain about it occasionally... "you're all sweaty. Don't you want to take a shower?" Etc.

You just tell them, "Yeah, later I will," and keep doing what you're doing.

Never really paid much attention to it otherwise.

Hasn't happened to me during foreplay that I've ever noticed, but maybe your foreplay is a lot more energetic than mine. Almost sounds like you're throwing these girls around or something, to be breaking a sweat at that point!

IF a woman is attracted to you, your sweat will turn her on...

One thing to add here... I have had the same women tell me they loved my scent but also that I stunk at different times.

It seems to be based on how much you've sweat / how much odor you've produced / how long since last shower.

That said, I have definitely had women comment that I stunk during sex, who at other times said they enjoyed my manly musk... I always just figure, "Well, she must not be turned on enough. Gotta plow her harder!" The complaints go away once she's moaning and cumming.

Chase

 

[Chad Tyrone]

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Sweat is highly variable between humans. I know guys personally who as soon as it gets a little warm their hair is just drenched. I once had a martial arts class with this guy who was the sweatiest I'd ever known... from the first punch he threw this guy just erupted in a slick coat of sweat. They'd make us do wrist grabs and other drills and it was just impossible to hold this guy, your hands slid right off him. It was like his own natural self-defense mechanism against holds and grabs.

Anyway, it seems like you handled it fine with the first girl. The second girl sounds like she had other reasons for resisting.

I probably wouldn't worry about this too much... except to maybe get some air

Id say it's rivers when it gets more hotter more passionate.I think if I ever hear it again I may take ac into account though I feel it's kinda a turn off u know a "breeze" hitting u both while u are deeply enjoying each other and immersed I wanna lose us both in a different world where there is no any conscious thoughts around us say the breeze haha

The second girl haha it could have been a same day lay.She happened to be joining my course program and I" jumped on her " before anyone could have her .She had also thrown approach invitations my way after she saw me with another chick.Dunno what was up cause I escalated for hours into the night had to use my mouth to undress her infact haha.I had set adventurous frames and she related with them set lover frames basically any frames of importance to get a girl disqualified myself as boyfriend material

After a while I never kept in touch and she kept calling me telling me I should always be greeting her cause I kept ignoring her over text and in person wanna keep my things discreet so I think yeah maybe she wanted me as bf material

 

[Chad Tyrone]

Hasn't happened to me during foreplay that I've ever noticed, but maybe your foreplay is a lot more energetic than mine. Almost sounds like you're throwing these girls around or something, to

Haha I'm carrying them up usually pelvic position,I'm moving her in different directions in the bed,I try not to slump on them while kissing them I was thinking I could change that by letting her be on top of me kinda like u are in the locked in position and she's the one chasing you so it seems...It also gives her a way out cause she's the one on top she's the one in control compared to when u are on top of her which calls for much energy and "frames" it as you are the one "chasing" in relation to locked in positions.Also if she's more stimulated she can take the dick all in herself compared to situations u have to put it in her during adapted I traditional missionary positions.

Anyway that's me haha pple should go with what works for them OR hehe

 

[Chad Tyrone]

thing to add here... I have had the same women tell me they loved my scent but also that I stunk at different times.

It seems to be based on how much you've sweat / how much odor you've produced / how long since last shower.

That said, I have definitely had women comment that I stunk during sex, who at other times said they enjoyed my manly musk... I always just figure, "Well, she must not be turned on enough. Gotta plow her

Exactly what I was also trying to get at that I saw it as a test and never took it at face value

Do you think it's usually a test or something entirely different ?whatever it may be.i refuse to take most objections at face value of "putting me on the spot" kind of statements

 

[Chase]

Yeah, that second girl definitely sounds like she had other things going on, I don't think "he's so sweaty" is the reason you did not secure the lay. You needed to bring out her "but I don't want to go too fast / I don't want this to be over" objections and handle them to make it happen.

Exactly what I was also trying to get at that I saw it as a test and never took it at face value

Do you think it's usually a test or something entirely different ?whatever it may be.i refuse to take most objections at face value of "putting me on the spot" kind of statements

I think it's just a woman stating a factual impression in the moment.

"You're all sweaty, it's kind of gross" / "Your armpits smell" / etc. is just her actual impression there in the moment. She is a little put off that you are sweaty, or that your musk is overpowering, or whatnot.

Personally I've had girls raise all sorts of things like this in the bedroom:

• "You're so sweaty; don't you want to take a shower?"
• "Your armpits stink. When's the last time you took a shower?"
• "You're so hairy. Do you ever think about shaving?"
• "What's wrong with your shoulders?" (I have keloid scars on my shoulders)
• "What's that on your leg?" (there's a birthmark on my calf)

Etc. etc.

I have never not shagged a girl after she said one of these things to me.

I don't know what other guys are doing... if they're all hairless, powdered men with perfect skin who smell like roses or what... I really have no idea. Never cared enough to ask.

All I know personally is that a girl might be a little put off by something like this, but she is still taking my cock anyway. And by the end of it, she is not going to care that I got her all sweaty and shed some body hair on her and got my musk all over her. She is just going to be smiling and quite possibly thanking me for a good time. I have had girls joke around about paying me after, etc.

I will also say it is not like you always condition women to like this stuff either. I have had girls I've been seeing for a while who are totally addicted to sex with me and in-love with me still complain about armpit stink or me shedding hairs on them or what have you. They have that research showing women who have orgasms with you come to love your scent, but apparently that doesn't extend all the way to your stinkiest stank.

I have had times where at the start of sex the girl has said, "Your armpits really stink," and pushed my arm down so she wasn't smelling my armpit, then after sex she was cuddled up on my chest and said, "I love your scent."

Having a Male Scent That Fills Women with Lust

In the comments on "Your Mental Model is Flawed," M asked the following question about cologne: “Speaking of expensive cologne...is it worth the investment? Right now my only scent is my deodorant, lol.” I gave a quick response, but I've been wanting to do a piece on male scent for a while now...

www.girlschase.com

It is not like all of you smells all the same... maybe your chest smells nice but your pits are overpowering, etc.

Maybe a little sweat is sexy but too much is a bit too much.

Anyway, I don't think there's much use caring about it.

Try to keep yourself clean and not be overly smelly or sweaty.

But girls will still shag you if you are. Anecdotally, they seem to be somewhat more likely to shag you when you have some real musk going on and are a bit scruffy... not sure about sweaty, probably not drenched, but there's a reason mussed-up hair is considered sexiest. Women like that slightly-disheveled look and feel.

I personally just get a little bit of a kick out of it.

She is complaining about this dirty, sweaty, stinky, hairy man... well, this is one savage who is still going to ravish her anyway, in spite of her genteel reservations. Those reservations normally drop quick once she gets into it enough.

Chase

 

[Chad Tyrone]

don't know what other guys are doing... if they're all hairless, powdered men with perfect skin who smell like roses or what... I

Really got me thinking if her boyfriend doesn't sweat.i mean the way he talks of him she says he's nice and stuff and usually doesn't take her the way I had my way with her.Actually during foreplay I was lightly chocking her and nibbling her lips while occasionally biting them she then started saying I was treating her like a hoe and telling me that I was a gentleman all aimed to break me and my bedroom game.So I calibrated by toning down my dominance... really still can't believe how I pulled that off cause I was drinking General Meakins 50% alcoholic concentration without chasing it.Yet high percentage drinks may make u lose concontrol

Anyway what do you think of women trying to demasculize you in the bedroom by saying stuff like dominance is treating her hoe-ishly?I just said that my previous lovers loved it that way and she accepted the frame all by her actions.*shrug*

It's kinda odd that I stumbled upon the "don't treat her rough on the first day"article later on and "tone down your drinking" also.Guess I'm fucking pedantic have to put a light on the most subtle-iest of details haha I decided if I'll always be drinking booze with low concentrations and be a little smooth on most of my interactions on the first date to maximize consistency and quality of my interactions.
Not that I use drinks as a crutch but I usually ask if they are down for booze or juice

 

[Beck Bass]

I have never not shagged a girl after she said one of these things to me.

Lmao I myself sometimes find I forgot to put on deodorant and feel the smell of my own armpit, and I tell my girl "damn my armpits really are smelly lol", and she just look at me like "why do you care anyway?" and we keep on having sex as usual...

@Chad Tyrone Don't sweat it man, girls are not thaaaat sensitive as some want us to believe (it's nice to have the higiene you can, but a man is an animal, and sex is a very wild act)

 

[Chad Tyrone]

You needed to bring out her "but I don't want to go too fast / I don't want this to be over" objections and handle them to make

As counterintuitive as that sounds I bet it works never knew if a guy could bring up objections himself and yet still address them.I like how game is nuanced you really have to go deeper fuck superficiality want to cover all corners of game that are deep .
Sometimes you win sometimes you learn and that's life.i moved on I'm not big on the chasing her down thing if she resisted on the first date.
I will keep that in my arsenal for future encounters
Huh .Raise objections where appropriate and deal with them then and there

 

[Chad Tyrone]

sweat it man, girls are not thaaaat sensitive as some want us to believe (it's nice to have the higiene you can, but a man is an animal, and sex is a very wild act)

Yeah that's great but I didn't want to get logical during the escalation or afterwards cause if I said we are animals and we sweat it could have seemed that I was qualifying to her shit I mean kinda negotiating for coochie u feel me.i wanna have mutual desire based on attraction not negotiating same deal if I told her that everyone sweats during sex or moments before it that require high energy.so I bypassed all that by giving her the "it rolls over when the beast is unchained" line.i will go by Chase's thought by merely taking such as a factual statement at any given moment

 

[Beck Bass]

kinda negotiating for coochie u feel me

Well, we always are kinda doing that, game is just streamlining the process to get the best deals from the best distributors in the shortest amount of time lol