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FU (day, warm approach)
I see this cute girl on the train. Great body, pretty face. She looks at me a couple times from afar, every time looking down afterwards. She looks really young, but I set myself up to give it a shot if the chance presents itself.
And the chance does indeed present itself. We're off the train and walking, and she passes me on the side. I open informational, then we chat a couple minutes. She's very friendly, low-energy and sweet. She asks questions and clearly contributes to the convo.
At some point we have to split ways and I decide to go for the hail mary, but it doesn't turn out as I imagined it:
hey btw how old are you?
20
you're super cute
thanks
(at this point strong self-awareness and "you dirty old dog" thoughts rush in in pretty quick succession, and I lose grip on the convo) you said you're studying, right? (my immediate thought here is that i just creeped her out)
yes
..... (silence on both sides, she increases the distance between us)
(her) i have to go this way...
ok see you
Super glad that I took this chance, although there's clearly space for improvements.
Initially I thought I creeped her out, but then I thought a bit about it and it was probably just awkwardness. Should have continued the convo and closed the usual way: "hey, you seem cool. should grab a drink sometime".
Also not sure if there's a better way to approach such a young girl, maybe should have stayed indirect. Clearly I need to approach more girls that age.