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So was doing daygame approaches today, and was on the last one of the day, and I look over and it's a cute dark haired girl. I opened her by telling her I thought she looked amazing (my current opener that's been working really well on hooking). She said thank you and I talked a little bit, and found out she was from Switzerland and had been here for a few days, and was here for the rest of the month. I told her that we should grab a coffee, and she said "sure, why not". I walked over to a nearby truck, and she ordered water lol. I got one too, since there were no hot drinks available. We went and sat down at a park for a bit, and I started deep diving. Still a little rusty, and not as good leading conversationally. In terms of talking it was like 50-50 me and her. That needs to improve.
So we talked for a bit, and I made some chase frames about how she wanted to watch me to Tai Chi to check me out. She laughed and was enjoying it. I was also doing some touch to her legs, since we were seated across from each other. I do the deep dive and compare life here and life in Zurich. I mention how being here grants privacy and people don't have to know each other's business (communicating discretion). It's a fun, not too heavy conversation, and about halfway through the bottle of water I suggest we grab drinks nearby at a bar I know.
We walk there, and get two drinks, I pay for this and tell her she can cover the next one, to which she agrees. We sit and drink for a bit, sitting side by side, and I try to increase the incidental touch of our legs touching, and touch her arms and stuff. After some more talking, I suggest we play some shuffleboard. I'm much more physical here, giving high fives and holding her hand, though I can tell she's not as comfortable with holding hands. I also grab her around the waist, with no hesitation, and she doesn't seem to mind. We play some more, and I can feel the sexual tension in my dick getting hard (surprisingly good metric for sexual tension). We finish the game and she wins, and I suggest we grab a drink elsewhere.
I ask if she's down to view the river and grab some wine, and she's not down, then I remember that there's a bar very near my place (which is going to be my go to second venue from now on). We go and we talk. She uses the bathroom and comes with the intention of sitting across from me, but I pat the seat next to me and tell her to sit next to me, since it feels too much like an interview. She does so, but she leaves a large gap between us. I pretend not to notice and talk with her some more. I mention my dogs and she shows me hers, which I use as an excuse to get closer. I show her mine next. I'm touching her upper back, lower neck, and leaving my hand there, and she's still smiling. Her pupils are larger than normal too. I can tell she likes me, and she has asked me multiple times about where I live and what time I go to bed at, so I feel like she's ready to pull.
Instead of suggesting going straight home, I tell her that we should go down closer to mine (another block away and a minute from my apartment). I point down the street and tell her it's right there. We go down, and we hang there for a bit. She's still not coming to close to me, but she's not standing as far. At this point, I had been holding in my pee so that I'd have an excuse to go up, and I tell her I need to pee, and that we can call her an uber right after. She's not down, and I have to call her a car. I tell her we can wait in the lobby, and we do that until the car comes. We hug, and I give her a peck on the cheek (blegh).
I text her once the uber reaches her place.
Will try to get her out again in the next couple of days, and hopefully will be able to segue that into a pull.
Things I should have done to improve:
1. Use a yes ladder at the end to persuade her to come up for a bit
2. Use more deep diving and building intrigue about myself
3. Touch more calibrated and get her to touch me
So we talked for a bit, and I made some chase frames about how she wanted to watch me to Tai Chi to check me out. She laughed and was enjoying it. I was also doing some touch to her legs, since we were seated across from each other. I do the deep dive and compare life here and life in Zurich. I mention how being here grants privacy and people don't have to know each other's business (communicating discretion). It's a fun, not too heavy conversation, and about halfway through the bottle of water I suggest we grab drinks nearby at a bar I know.
We walk there, and get two drinks, I pay for this and tell her she can cover the next one, to which she agrees. We sit and drink for a bit, sitting side by side, and I try to increase the incidental touch of our legs touching, and touch her arms and stuff. After some more talking, I suggest we play some shuffleboard. I'm much more physical here, giving high fives and holding her hand, though I can tell she's not as comfortable with holding hands. I also grab her around the waist, with no hesitation, and she doesn't seem to mind. We play some more, and I can feel the sexual tension in my dick getting hard (surprisingly good metric for sexual tension). We finish the game and she wins, and I suggest we grab a drink elsewhere.
I ask if she's down to view the river and grab some wine, and she's not down, then I remember that there's a bar very near my place (which is going to be my go to second venue from now on). We go and we talk. She uses the bathroom and comes with the intention of sitting across from me, but I pat the seat next to me and tell her to sit next to me, since it feels too much like an interview. She does so, but she leaves a large gap between us. I pretend not to notice and talk with her some more. I mention my dogs and she shows me hers, which I use as an excuse to get closer. I show her mine next. I'm touching her upper back, lower neck, and leaving my hand there, and she's still smiling. Her pupils are larger than normal too. I can tell she likes me, and she has asked me multiple times about where I live and what time I go to bed at, so I feel like she's ready to pull.
Instead of suggesting going straight home, I tell her that we should go down closer to mine (another block away and a minute from my apartment). I point down the street and tell her it's right there. We go down, and we hang there for a bit. She's still not coming to close to me, but she's not standing as far. At this point, I had been holding in my pee so that I'd have an excuse to go up, and I tell her I need to pee, and that we can call her an uber right after. She's not down, and I have to call her a car. I tell her we can wait in the lobby, and we do that until the car comes. We hug, and I give her a peck on the cheek (blegh).
I text her once the uber reaches her place.
Will try to get her out again in the next couple of days, and hopefully will be able to segue that into a pull.
Things I should have done to improve:
1. Use a yes ladder at the end to persuade her to come up for a bit
2. Use more deep diving and building intrigue about myself
3. Touch more calibrated and get her to touch me
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