Taking people too seriously sucks !! Got to stop

[Spyce D]

I have a recurring issue of overanalyzing which sort of leads to analysis paralysis .

E g., A good friend of mine recently told me about how talking to chicks can mean sexual harrasment due to feminism and why he only sticks to online dating .( He lives in Singapore , btw)

So , even though i didn't argue with him but i couldnt stop thinking about this and getting sad ...well...which could have been avoided if I hadn't taken his words so seriously.

I have had my parents, friends tell me that i take things personally which shouldn't be taken ( things that are outside my control )

I am guessing it could be due to either some kind of self esteem issue or a need to be always right .

To me , it seems to be more of emotional issue than logical one .


Maybe , it's time to improve my self esteem .

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Need to know your opinion, guys

 

[Chad Tyrone]

Yeah with self esteem stay far away from people who want to bring you down and hey it shouldn't bother you that someone hates it that u approaching chicks in person.If u doing it right,treat this "cold approaching may mean sexual harassment" thing as a myth.Besides he may be worried that u r confident to do it in person while he maybe can't.

I mean if you got ur fundamentals down and sexy enough most chicks won't be pissed if u approached them.I guess the whole "I hate it when guys approach me" tirade is all about chicks complaining say some guy came across creepy or was that lame .

If he is a friend worth keeping around but u pretty much disagree with most stuff having to do with seduction then let him know that it's rather better if u don't talk about it as a topic .

Yeah start giving a fuck about what really matters.Don't let things not worth giving a fuck about get to you.Once u have ur beliefs grounded u won't even want to bother someone disagrees with you.

Chad

 

[Spyce D]

Yeah with self esteem stay far away from people who want to bring you down and hey it shouldn't bother you that someone hates it that u approaching chicks in person.

Yeah , it sucks to be around folks who try to peg you down but not out of spite . They just don't know any better .

if you got ur fundamentals down and sexy enough most chicks won't be pissed if u approached them.I guess the whole "I hate it when guys approach me" tirade is all about chicks complaining say some guy came across creepy or was that lame.

Yeah , even though i know this by personal experience but mind like still stupid enough to give a fuck about unworthy opinions.

Yeah start giving a fuck about what really matters.Don't let things not worth giving a fuck about get to you.Once u have ur beliefs grounded u won't even want to bother someone disagrees with you.

Hmm.

Yeah , it's time to make my beliefs grounded . Will remember this .

I assume that action will be far superior in cementing my beliefs than just thinking .

Anyways , thanks @Chad Tyrone