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This isn't my first time getting laid since I've been on these forums, but its the first where I had a process I was trying to follow. The other few times have either been someone I already knew or some girl that sorta just fell into my lap. Needless to say, I probably won't do online anymore maybe if they message me, I will pursue. Don't think I really like it all that much. May be a somewhat boring read as it is my first.
So I made an Okcupid page and a Pof page. I went off Chase's guide, put 3 pictures on there and made up some silly stuff. I answered pretty much all the questions to say I wanted sex and then for what I wanted, I put casual sex and short term dating. I didn't a ton of effort out, maybe message 10ish girls total. It took me about 5 girls messaged before I had down what I wanted to say. This one was not one of them, was the first girl I messaged actually. I looked at her profile, she was talk and blonde, like the girl in Game of Thrones. I always kinda wished Jaime would have hooked up with Brienne, but he didn't, so I messaged this girl.
First few messages go like this: (I changed some names)
At this point, I figured she would be boning this dude all weekend. I don't go out of my way to visit a girl unless there's a possibility of sex. Good for him, though. Closer to the next weekend, I'm a little drunk one night, figured I'll follow up.
Off the site and on to texting
She texts me pretty soon after and tells me her weekend plans. I tell her I just got up from a huge nap, that I have to help a friend with a yards sale the next day, but that we should meet up at this brewery tomorrow(sat), she agrees to that. The next day, she texts me at like 8:30am to say good morning. I was a little annoyed by that.. I wait a couple hours and text her back and confirm out plans for the day.
1st meeting
She beats me to the place and it turns out its closed. Its a little hot out, I suggest that we go to the bar next door and grab a drink there. She seems a little taller than she said she was, maybe 6'2 instead of 6, I don't know. I'm just 5'9 and I really don't care. We go inside and the bartender is really hot, we have a seat and get our drinks (Newcastle for me BudLight for her :/ ). She tells me about herself, shes pretty quiet, has a stressful job, and not super outgoing. The bartender stays really closeby, which is super annoying. The bar was pretty long, no reason for her to hover. I suggest that we finish those beers and go to the other brewery in town. My date agrees.
When we get to the other brewery, they were so full they weren't letting anyone else in. She asks what we should do then, I tell her that I'm doing Asian night with my roommate and she has a dinner to go to, so we should just raincheck. She agrees.
Later that night
My roommate passed out, so Asian night was cancelled. I did one round of Sake, just to try it out. It was nice for being so cheap. I text her around 11, I ask her how the dinner was and tell her about Asian night being cancelled. I tell her that I have a whole bottle of Sake that I can bring over. She says that sounds nice, but she's tired. I persist a little and she says raincheck, so I just tell her good night.
The next couple days I was out in the sun doing all kinds of outdoors stuff. I told her I would be unavailable. When I got home Monday, I texted her around mid afternoon to cash in on the raincheck, she that she was at the pool with some friends and had an appointment later and for me to go ahead and come over or I could after the appt. I told her I could use a nap and I would get ahold of her after her appt. When I texted her back, no response.
Today
I woke up to see she texted me last night asking about my schedule during the week. I told her that I got off at 8 and we should just chill out and watch a movie, she agree and said we could do it at mine or her place. (Duh, hers
) I told her that I ransacked my room getting all my camping stuff out and we should def do it at her place. She agrees. I then tease her a bit about her picking out a good movie.
Tonight
I was pretty horny most of the day, but about an hour before I got off work, I just got kinda tired. I had planned on a quick escalation, but I actually hadn't touched her not once before today. Her AC had just been fixed right before I got there, so she was a bit hot when I showed up. I motioned for her to come sit by me, but she did not sit that close and said she was really hot and needed to cool off.
As the movie is going, I get a little closer so that we are touching. We chat throughout, didn't talk about sex too much, but did talk about nipples a little. By the time the movie was over, she was sort of facing me, I opened my body position a bit more and teased her about having to go to bed a little. Then I pulled her in for a kiss. While we made out for a bit, I felt around to see where the boundaries were. I moved my hand from inner thigh to breast and up the inner thigh until she moved my hand away. Then I switch between breast and inner thigh for a bit.
When I moved her to a horizontal position, I noticed that her couch sorta sucks. I told her, "your couch sucks for this". She then responded that she has other rooms, so we moved to the bedroom. After a few minutes in the bed, I move her hand to my erection and said, "hey, look what you did." She gets a good giggle out this and continues to stoke me, not soon after, I go ahead and undo my pant and put my dick in her hand. She makes a comment about how im not wearing any underwear and asks if its common. I tell her that I just started for the summer.
As we continue, all boundaries dissipate and I have free reign of her body. After I get us both naked, I tell her i'm a bit dry and she should blow me. She responds that she doesn't do that until she is in a relationship. I don't respond at all, I just continue with foreplay. At this point, I figure I will probably just settle for a handjob, but i'm a bit dry. I point this out, so she spits on her hand and keeps going.
I get a little more aggressive with the foreplay for a bit, then I tell her I really want to be inside her. She responds with, "prove it." For a split second, I didn't know if she meant "prove it" as in be a gentleman and date me or that she wanted to be flipped over and penetrated. I went with the flip over and penetrate option, she liked it. I told myself I would be good about condoms from now on, so I pulled out and told her I needed a condom. I got one out of my wallet and she said, "That's not for 5 years ago is it, haha" and I said, "nah, just like 2 weeks." She giggled. And you can see where the rest goes..
Afterward
I jumped up pretty fast and cleaned up, then put my clothes on immediately. She put a shirt on and was back to her quiet self. I gave her a kiss and said good night. Then I went to quick trip and got a taquito short ride home.
All in all, It seemed fairly simple. I have slept with a couple tall girls before and they were both pretty eager to get in bed, so I had a bit of confidence going in. I'm usually not too thrilled when I have to ask for head or don't get it. Needless to say, I didn't give her any. She also only wanted to be on the bottom, I've slept with a few girls like that too, also not cool. But yeah, she was a nice girl and I hope she enjoyed it.
So I made an Okcupid page and a Pof page. I went off Chase's guide, put 3 pictures on there and made up some silly stuff. I answered pretty much all the questions to say I wanted sex and then for what I wanted, I put casual sex and short term dating. I didn't a ton of effort out, maybe message 10ish girls total. It took me about 5 girls messaged before I had down what I wanted to say. This one was not one of them, was the first girl I messaged actually. I looked at her profile, she was talk and blonde, like the girl in Game of Thrones. I always kinda wished Jaime would have hooked up with Brienne, but he didn't, so I messaged this girl.
First few messages go like this: (I changed some names)
Code:
Me: Hey, what do you do in Kings Landing? I see you are pretty tall, that's hot!
Her: I live in Kings Landing and work in a different county. Thanks, lol. Being tall makes it hard to find pants...and men, but I love it.
Me: Haha gotcha. What's your weekend/week looking like? We should meetup and grab a drink or food sometime.
Her: I've got a friend coming down from Dragon's Reach for a late lunch, then he's staying the weekend I think. I book up pretty quick lol. Only really have weekends offAt this point, I figured she would be boning this dude all weekend. I don't go out of my way to visit a girl unless there's a possibility of sex. Good for him, though. Closer to the next weekend, I'm a little drunk one night, figured I'll follow up.
Code:
Me: So how's the online dating treating you, Ms. Books up quick?
Her: Haha. It's been interesting. I'm thankful I haven't had any super creepy people...yet. Those have been in person, rather. -*shiver*
It gives me something to look at in passing.
How's your experience been?
Me: [i]I tell her about a date I flaked on and teased her about what selection of guys are available for her. then...[/i]
I somehow got a 4day weekend this weekend. Like some sort of magic trick or something, never happens. I'm gonna be out getting sunburned all day Sunday, but will mostly be at The Winking Skeever doing nerd stuff the other days. you are welcome to stop by! Got any cool plans this weekend?
-Ama
867.5309Off the site and on to texting
She texts me pretty soon after and tells me her weekend plans. I tell her I just got up from a huge nap, that I have to help a friend with a yards sale the next day, but that we should meet up at this brewery tomorrow(sat), she agrees to that. The next day, she texts me at like 8:30am to say good morning. I was a little annoyed by that.. I wait a couple hours and text her back and confirm out plans for the day.
1st meeting
She beats me to the place and it turns out its closed. Its a little hot out, I suggest that we go to the bar next door and grab a drink there. She seems a little taller than she said she was, maybe 6'2 instead of 6, I don't know. I'm just 5'9 and I really don't care. We go inside and the bartender is really hot, we have a seat and get our drinks (Newcastle for me BudLight for her :/ ). She tells me about herself, shes pretty quiet, has a stressful job, and not super outgoing. The bartender stays really closeby, which is super annoying. The bar was pretty long, no reason for her to hover. I suggest that we finish those beers and go to the other brewery in town. My date agrees.
When we get to the other brewery, they were so full they weren't letting anyone else in. She asks what we should do then, I tell her that I'm doing Asian night with my roommate and she has a dinner to go to, so we should just raincheck. She agrees.
Later that night
My roommate passed out, so Asian night was cancelled. I did one round of Sake, just to try it out. It was nice for being so cheap. I text her around 11, I ask her how the dinner was and tell her about Asian night being cancelled. I tell her that I have a whole bottle of Sake that I can bring over. She says that sounds nice, but she's tired. I persist a little and she says raincheck, so I just tell her good night.
The next couple days I was out in the sun doing all kinds of outdoors stuff. I told her I would be unavailable. When I got home Monday, I texted her around mid afternoon to cash in on the raincheck, she that she was at the pool with some friends and had an appointment later and for me to go ahead and come over or I could after the appt. I told her I could use a nap and I would get ahold of her after her appt. When I texted her back, no response.
Today
I woke up to see she texted me last night asking about my schedule during the week. I told her that I got off at 8 and we should just chill out and watch a movie, she agree and said we could do it at mine or her place. (Duh, hers
) I told her that I ransacked my room getting all my camping stuff out and we should def do it at her place. She agrees. I then tease her a bit about her picking out a good movie.Tonight
I was pretty horny most of the day, but about an hour before I got off work, I just got kinda tired. I had planned on a quick escalation, but I actually hadn't touched her not once before today. Her AC had just been fixed right before I got there, so she was a bit hot when I showed up. I motioned for her to come sit by me, but she did not sit that close and said she was really hot and needed to cool off.
As the movie is going, I get a little closer so that we are touching. We chat throughout, didn't talk about sex too much, but did talk about nipples a little. By the time the movie was over, she was sort of facing me, I opened my body position a bit more and teased her about having to go to bed a little. Then I pulled her in for a kiss. While we made out for a bit, I felt around to see where the boundaries were. I moved my hand from inner thigh to breast and up the inner thigh until she moved my hand away. Then I switch between breast and inner thigh for a bit.
When I moved her to a horizontal position, I noticed that her couch sorta sucks. I told her, "your couch sucks for this". She then responded that she has other rooms, so we moved to the bedroom. After a few minutes in the bed, I move her hand to my erection and said, "hey, look what you did." She gets a good giggle out this and continues to stoke me, not soon after, I go ahead and undo my pant and put my dick in her hand. She makes a comment about how im not wearing any underwear and asks if its common. I tell her that I just started for the summer.
As we continue, all boundaries dissipate and I have free reign of her body. After I get us both naked, I tell her i'm a bit dry and she should blow me. She responds that she doesn't do that until she is in a relationship. I don't respond at all, I just continue with foreplay. At this point, I figure I will probably just settle for a handjob, but i'm a bit dry. I point this out, so she spits on her hand and keeps going.
I get a little more aggressive with the foreplay for a bit, then I tell her I really want to be inside her. She responds with, "prove it." For a split second, I didn't know if she meant "prove it" as in be a gentleman and date me or that she wanted to be flipped over and penetrated. I went with the flip over and penetrate option, she liked it. I told myself I would be good about condoms from now on, so I pulled out and told her I needed a condom. I got one out of my wallet and she said, "That's not for 5 years ago is it, haha" and I said, "nah, just like 2 weeks." She giggled. And you can see where the rest goes..
Afterward
I jumped up pretty fast and cleaned up, then put my clothes on immediately. She put a shirt on and was back to her quiet self. I gave her a kiss and said good night. Then I went to quick trip and got a taquito short ride home.
All in all, It seemed fairly simple. I have slept with a couple tall girls before and they were both pretty eager to get in bed, so I had a bit of confidence going in. I'm usually not too thrilled when I have to ask for head or don't get it. Needless to say, I didn't give her any. She also only wanted to be on the bottom, I've slept with a few girls like that too, also not cool. But yeah, she was a nice girl and I hope she enjoyed it.
