Teen Girls Having Sex : What If She Was Your Daughter

[Troy]

Yesterday I had a discussion with the boys and they were retelling their stories of girls they sexed. All of those girls were under 18. They were also under 18. A guy who was against it said " what if she was your daughter, would you want her having sex with so much guys or at all? "....Everyone said " no you crazy, not my daughter. My daughter must remain a virgin till marriage. Any boy I see too close to my daughter I will chap him with anything.

See the main theme : these men and boys feel it's OK for them to sex teen girls yet it's totally wrong if any guy touch their daughter.

My question is how would you feel if your daughter was sexing at a early age? If you had the opportunity as a teen to sex girls your age you probably would have done it and thought like a boss for getting sex so young.

But..... What if she was your daughter? How would you react?

Troy

 

[trashKENNUT]

Troy

See the main theme : these men and boys feel it's OK for them to sex teen girls yet it's totally wrong if any guy touch their daughter.

My question is how would you feel if your daughter was sexing at a early age? If you had the opportunity as a teen to sex girls your age you probably would have done it and thought like a boss for getting sex so young.

But..... What if she was your daughter? How would you react?

Troy

I rather make peace. Here's the thing. I rather have my daughter share things with me and i play her bitch friend, or (her bitch father, ) than to try to do the whole "i am bigger" thing. Your daughter is going to lie anyway. Maybe it is easy for me to say for now, and it is, but i prefer if it i teach her how to take care of herself in case i am not around.

Btw, i always wanted a daughter, and i might have one someday, but I have had times where my mum will tell me things in the past where she goes clubbing and the moment a slight judgement comes out of me, she never mention about it anymore.

If you think it's too tedious, too much unwiring of the brain (cognitive dissonance because you be seeing things you do not want to see) to do number 3, i highly HIGHLY recommend men to do either one of the first two:

1)the whole "incredible hulk" father thing where the prospective boyfriend is afraid
2)Rich father and daughter relationship where the daughter always hangs out with the father
3)Be her friend

and sidenote:

4)Marry her early (religious people practice)


Zac

 

[Mr.Rob]

Its the same Madonna whore complex that most men have being that they want women to be the sexual whore with them when they are in bed but they want the women that they date to be pristine virgin angels. Same goes if you were to have a daughter.

I'm 21 years old and I guess I'm not really able to speak from a fathers perspective but I would imagine I would have to bring the same empathy and understanding for the human sex drive of both males and females when raising children as well.

Women LOVE sex so how am I to judge my daughter for engaging in sexual activity. She's going to do it anyway (unless I were to raise her a hardcore Christian and she chose to go that route) might as well embrace reality for what it is.

I would hope my daughter doesn't rack up a massive partner count before she turns 18 or 21 or even ever just because of the implications that it would probably have on her overall happiness in the long run (not being able to stay faithful to a man).

One of my good girl friends (like platonic) 14 year old sister has a higher partner count than me and I am 21 years old. That's a bit out there but I think extreme promiscuity in females has a lot to do with their relationship with their father and upbringing. Just from what I've observed but I'm not an expert in that area.

 

[Richard]

I'm all for sexual openness early on. I think it is nearly impossible to stop a girl from having sex if she wants to - but I would provide her with all the information I can about sex and let her make the decision herself. I can inform her about game, my adolescent teenage years, etc. At the end of the day the decision is hers and I'd support it.

 

[Smurf]

Solution: never have a daughter.

I'd rather my hypothetical daughter not have sex with dudes before she leaves my care, but if she did, and she probably will if I have one, I guess I'd have to inform her about the safety blah blah blah,
but if she got pregnant that would probably fuck up her life a little bit. So I'd keep that in mind.

Jake.

 

[Troy]

Lol the answers everyone gave was good... It's funny how the majority of men want to sex any girl yet want to guard their daughter..... Show this topic to most men and it would cause a argument. Men would protest because they are being selfish.

I will end this topic by saying two more things:

Since this topic is sensitive I won't state my opinion unless asked to. I have a lot to say but I will think it out carefully first.. I might change my mind and post my full opinion on this.

Finally : What goes around comes around, and what goes up must come down. My Mom always told me do onto others as you have them do onto you. I wish all those men out there were as understanding as everyone here.

Thanks bro's

Troy

 

[PinotNoir]

They were also under 18.

I think this is the main problem here Lack of experience. Naivety.

When I was a teenager, I said (and did) a lot of stupid stuff. Things that I wouldn't say and do now.

 

[PinotNoir]

Oh, and to address the original question, I wouldn't want my daughter a virgin until marriage.

I imagine we'd just sit down and discuss sex, and I'd give her precautions/warnings like any other parent. But, personally, I don't think waiting until marriage is a good thing, so I'd tell her that, but I'd also tell her to try and find someone she cares for (especially for the first time), etc., all of the typical cliches.

I tend to go the middle route.

I guess I'll know when I get there one day if I have kids.

EDIT: Ultimately, it's her life and choice, but it's my job to tell her the bad and good stuff as a parent. The point is that I'm not trying to control her, but I'm also not trying to sugarcoat anything.

 

[Hector Papi Castillo]

I don't know about you guys, but I find the jealousy of most fathers surrounding their daughters to be out-of-this-world creepy. When I see dads get protective about their daughters, it's the same behavior I see from jealous boyfriends. The impetus is probably "she is the potential vessel of my grand-spawn! MUST PROTECT!" rather than "she will carry MY babies!" but it still resonates with incestual-vibes.

If I have a daughter, I'll teach her social dynamics like i would my son, except my advice would be, "Honey, sleep with whoever you want; just make sure they work for it."

Whether after her education she turns into super-high-quality dame that only fucks the uber-elite or the biggest slut in town, I'll support her always and forever.


- Anatty

 

[ray_zorse]

I hesitated to re-open this thread because I was gonna have to ramble a bit, but here goes. A story from during my marriage is relevant here.

My ex-wife who is a nutcase but surprisingly good at her job (which involves manipulating impressionable teenagers, haha) was working with a family where the son fell afoul of the law in some minor way, well anyway it transpired that he occasionally used heroin, and that if he was going to be using heroin he would ring up his mum and say "I am using heroin tonight, I will be at XXX place at XXX time"... she would reply something like "do you have clean needles?" and they would make some arrangement like he would call her the following morning and only if he didn't call would she start to get worried, go to place XXX or whatever.

Like anyone, I found it shocking that she was in a sense abetting his heroin usage, but over time and as my wife explained to me the advantages of the arrangement, and how much trust would have to exist between them to make this kind of thing possible, I realized it was basically harm minimization. I'd like to have this kind of relationship with my kids. Looking at it from the other side of the coin my parents were upset about my marijuana usage when they found out (a few years down the track), but this was never a deterrent. Since I regarded myself as an adult and capable of making my own decisions, it was really a matter of hiding it from them as much as possible. Although it's possible that some of the communication block in this regard came from my side (being a pleaser).

I don't have daughters, only sons, and I'm not really planning to start a second family at the moment (not since starting GC, and realizing that one can have a circle of FWB instead)... but if I did have a daughter then I'd hope to have the same relationship as described above, where she could speak to me honestly about her choices and I wouldn't judge, any actions I might take or conversations we might have would be geared towards harm minimization... is she using condoms, is she hanging out with someone who is likely to hurt her... in her own judgement that is. So I'd basically just try to listen and be supportive mainly. If I raised her as a pleaser, then this level of communication might not be possible from her side, but I'd try not to raise her as a pleaser if I could possibly avoid it.

Ray

 

[Richard]

I don't know about you guys, but I find the jealousy of most fathers surrounding their daughters to be out-of-this-world creepy. When I see dads get protective about their daughters, it's the same behavior I see from jealous boyfriends. The impetus is probably "she is the potential vessel of my grand-spawn! MUST PROTECT!" rather than "she will carry MY babies!" but it still resonates with incestual-vibes.

If I have a daughter, I'll teach her social dynamics like i would my son, except my advice would be, "Honey, sleep with whoever you want; just make sure they work for it."

Whether after her education she turns into super-high-quality dame that only fucks the uber-elite or the biggest slut in town, I'll support her always and forever.


- Anatty

Iiiiiiiiiii love you buddy.

 

[Big Daddy]

@Topic:

I really wouldn't care. But given the post below:

I hesitated to re-open this thread because I was gonna have to ramble a bit, but here goes. A story from during my marriage is relevant here.

My ex-wife who is a nutcase but surprisingly good at her job (which involves manipulating impressionable teenagers, haha) was working with a family where the son fell afoul of the law in some minor way, well anyway it transpired that he occasionally used heroin, and that if he was going to be using heroin he would ring up his mum and say "I am using heroin tonight, I will be at XXX place at XXX time"... she would reply something like "do you have clean needles?" and they would make some arrangement like he would call her the following morning and only if he didn't call would she start to get worried, go to place XXX or whatever.

Like anyone, I found it shocking that she was in a sense abetting his heroin usage, but over time and as my wife explained to me the advantages of the arrangement, and how much trust would have to exist between them to make this kind of thing possible, I realized it was basically harm minimization. I'd like to have this kind of relationship with my kids. Looking at it from the other side of the coin my parents were upset about my marijuana usage when they found out (a few years down the track), but this was never a deterrent. Since I regarded myself as an adult and capable of making my own decisions, it was really a matter of hiding it from them as much as possible. Although it's possible that some of the communication block in this regard came from my side (being a pleaser).

I don't have daughters, only sons, and I'm not really planning to start a second family at the moment (not since starting GC, and realizing that one can have a circle of FWB instead)... but if I did have a daughter then I'd hope to have the same relationship as described above, where she could speak to me honestly about her choices and I wouldn't judge, any actions I might take or conversations we might have would be geared towards harm minimization... is she using condoms, is she hanging out with someone who is likely to hurt her... in her own judgement that is. So I'd basically just try to listen and be supportive mainly. If I raised her as a pleaser, then this level of communication might not be possible from her side, but I'd try not to raise her as a pleaser if I could possibly avoid it.

Ray

I wonder if I'd be a good parent. I'd be so liberal. But then again, I never really read books on the subject and I'm highly uneducated regarding parenting.

 

[PinotNoir]

This thread made me think of this recent news item:

Teacher allows kids to have sex in storage closet and provides condoms.

It kind of hits a grey area haha. I mean, yeah, kids are going to have sex anyway, and he wasn't recording it (as far as we know), so I'm like, "Eh, whatever." But, at the same time, he is a teacher and has agreed to the rules of the system so should have known better not to do this (i.e., common sense). Maybe just get fined, no reason to ruin the guy's life over this as a "sex predator."

I think everyone has a line. I don't think I'd be cool with my kids doing cocaine, as that's basically allowing them to commit suicide right in front of me without me trying to do anything. However, I would always love them, and they'd always have a place to stay (never kick them out on the street, unless they like destroyed the house and sold all of my possessions or something terrible lol). I would probably just tell them it's a stupid decision in a polite way. It's cool if they want to experiment with it a bit, but I don't want them to be a coke head and ruin their life. (Did you know Jean-Claude Van Damme used to spend $10,000 a week on cocaine? Just fucking crazy.)

It can be tough to walk the middle road. I think most parents are the extremes though, as eloquently said by Anatman haha.

 

[Big Daddy]

That's precisely what I meant. I don't think yelling or telling someone to stop doing something will actually make them stop if they don't want to. The problems is that I'm also under the impression that kids of absurdly liberal parents don't excel in practically anything (from anecdotal experience).

 

[trashKENNUT]

Just my thoughts.

If we are humble like Chase, we can at least admit that our thoughts might shift a slight bit or maybe more, becoming chodes when we actually have spend more than $100000 on our daughter and seeing her get railed by some fucktard.

what a way to spend $100000 and continue spending. lolx

Zac

 

[trashKENNUT]

I saw a comment on the chats. I'm sure many will quickly know who I referring to. But this isn't about him. It's about what I saw, experience and learn.

this is me to you buddy. You know my Instagram in real life. I'm just a normal guy.

This is as sincere and closest to God's truth as I can be. It sucks having your world turn upside down but take it from me. A minority, an Asian and a religion who can't take criticism. But they love to criticize other religions.

My race is very hypocritical and like all minorities around the world, manipulative.

- Did you guys know that Saudi Arabia "searches" are mostly Western countries? I'm sure most Westerners aren't aware of this.

- My parents don't know that Western women can wear bikini in Saudi Arabia. I don't think Americans know it too. I don't think Westerners know this too.

- I can share links of TikTok where daughters reveal themselves as great liars because their parents are strict

- everything is power

Here's my lesson.

You can't shout people, and prevent them. People are going to have what they want and they will often pretend that they didn't see their moral hypocrisy. That's us. That's humans.

that's the darkside of who we are.

@Chase have been very patient with me because I like to break fourth walls. I like to show the emperor has no clothes. This is a post that will not look good on him because I'm literally breaking the Fourth wall.

Here is his article:

The Civilized Man

We've had some rather heated debates on the discussion boards quite recently - and what better job can a forum do than to stimulate thought-provoking debate? - with one debate in particular centering on a report from one of the readers on a sexual encounter he had with a married woman. In the...

www.girlschase.com

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