tell me about a time you were at your best

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Modern Human
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recall a time when you were at your best.

what was happening? and how did your actions during this time impact other people?
 

mist

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Not there yet ;)

But people really fucked with me last year. I was a really purpose oriented person. Hasn't changed too much really.

I was a positive force for my peers and my higher ups respected and vouched for me. My actions caused me to receive leadership, work opportunities, and top caliber women in my circle chasing or being compliant after being difficult.

I walked taller, spoke louder, felt more powerful. I don't consider this my best though as this was built on a fragile foundation imo.

I feel small now, but I'm building something grander in scope than I was aiming for at that point and learning to work with my ego.
 

DonGately

Cro-Magnon Man
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Shorted mortgage banks and brokers near peak in 2007, bought blue-chips within 2 days of the bottom in 2009. I got the receipts....

From a game/PUA pov that's a good question. One possible answer is once you're fit and dressed well and give off that confident, dominant, successful energy, some [hot] girls will start to be green lights when they see you. You have a drink with them and walk them back to your place and the sex is amazing because they truly desire you. That's hard to top. Some girls I can get back to my apt after <1 hr in these cases, even dead sober.
My fastest pickup took 5 minutes in the coffee bar next door to my pad with this chick who just came from her yoga class [midday] and was giving me the repeated submissive look + sparkly eyes and I went full-on dominant/sexual convo on her at the table immediately. Pulled her up and she followed me right to the elevator.

Picking up a hot stripper after her night shift at the club is definitely up there. Had a different one at the same high-end club text me for booty calls after her shift at her place.

In terms of hottest girl, I got a girl from Tinder like 6.5 years ago out for drinks and was a legit 9.5 in person, we had drinks, then dinner, then back to a bar, then to a hotel, no LMR. Banging her was like a damn fantasy. The only girl I've ever been with who was *that* hot: gorgeous face/body while dressed up, sweet/feminine, and then jaw-dropping 36C tits/ass/abs/legs up to here when the clothes came off, 20 years old. That was my career ONS peak for sure.
 

Kezarin

Space Monkey
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Long story.
Back in highschool. I've always had this psychological thing where upon watching a movie or a series I like, I would emulate the main character of that medium.

Upon watching a series with a character who is a hardworking, analytical genius, as silly as this sounds, I pretended to be him. Keeping him in mind whenever I did schoolwork, listening to his soundtrack whenever I did homework. I changed from a lazy but smart guy to being the top of my entire year. My social circle changed immensely.

After that, two things happened simultaneously. I discovered girlschase (my first article being 'Making girls laugh means NOTHING) and watching a wholesome romance series with an exceptionally beautiful and competent female lead character, and a strong male character. The love story really touched me deep down. At that time I was extremely lonely, and practically addicted to pornography and masturbation.

But something interesting happened: I started to believe that the only way to get a girl like the one from that series was to stop jacking off to porn, and that changed my behavior pretty much overnight.

My goal was now to become the perfect man for a girl like her, frequently rewatching the series to reinforce my ambitions. She was on the top of the social ladder (alpha female) , therefore I believed the only way to get a girl like that was to become someone of the same quality if not better.

And it worked. I did even better at school, garnering the respect of all my peers and teachers. I was able to contend with the most athletic guys, and at one point I was even the fastest sprinter out of everyone.

Meanwhile I kept reading girlschase articles, I worked on becoming more smooth, I changed my style from cargo pants and random clothes to shirts, boots, form fitting jeans.

A couple months in and the prettiest, smartest girls were after me, asking me on dates, acting all flirty, rubbing their thighs against me - even outside I got checked out a lot.

But it was ultimately meaningless, because I was so fixated on my perfect girl that I scrutinized the shit out of any prospective girlfriend - also, my sex drive completely nonexistent because of my 'vow of chastity. I was basically saving myself up for a better girl.

All this culminated in some broken hearts, and me being down in the dumps.

After 7 months of no porn, no masturbation, I jerked off again (it took me hours because I was so against breaking all my beliefs I had built up until then) and afterwards I felt empty and miserable.
My grades sizzles out afterwards, pretty much went back to where they used to be before. Same for my relationships.

8 years since then, and I can say those months are one of the most important times in my life, and changed me forever.
 
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