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Telling girl about ur feelings towards her (make progress purpose)?

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Space Monkey
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Example in my case,


When u keep meeting a girl and she blocks ur attemps to sex three dates in a row(we have been in their apartment and mine, but everytime i try to strip her while we are kissing she disallows it) and shes still wants to see me, should i just forget that gal?

I have tried to stay away from bf-zone by:

-only texting her to schedule a date.
-only deep diving her and making a moves forward towards to sex, when seeing a chance.
-and im not bringing any value to her, else as a lover.

I have been also trying to persist her hard as i can, but i cant change her mind. I know shes inexperienced with guys, i wouldnt wonder if she even was a virgin.

SO is there ANY case where u should tell a girl, that u like her and care about her, and kinda make urself weak(even if ur lying)? So that girl starts to trust you and let u go all the way? Or are u shooting urself to a leg with this idea?
 

Franco

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rickroll,

SO is there ANY case where u should tell a girl, that u like her and care about her, and kinda make urself weak(even if ur lying)? So that girl starts to trust you and let u go all the way? Or are u shooting urself to a leg with this idea?

You would definitely be shooting yourself in the foot, here. Don't do it.

You have two options from here:

  • Keep seeing her and pushing for sex until she gives it to you
  • Stop texting her until she gets the hint that you're a guy who isn't going to chase, which will give you a good chance of having her text you within a week or two asking if you want to get together. If she sets up the meet, you can probably close from there.

If you choose one of those options and it doesn't work, then it's probably best just to cut her off so that you don't get sucked into liking a girl too much without it going anywhere. There are many more women out there who would probably be willing to sleep with you on the very first date if you play your cards correctly, so don't bother with chasing a girl who is going to lead you on a rat chase for months without going anywhere.

- Franco
 
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