Hey, VinM here, with another rookie question:
My journey towards success with women has been a bumpy road so far: few obstacles, some victories, many missed opportunities, but overall, I can see progress. There is only one problem that I have. The text game. I know that it should lead to the date, and it sure does sometimes, but everytime I try to text with a girl, it feels exhausting. First things first, I'm introverted, been diagnosed as schizotypal, but even though I'm not autistic, I sometimes can't really feel emphatic towards others. Don't get me wrong, I had many women on dating apps like me, but let me explain:
Anytime I try to text with a girl, I want to get out of it as soon as possible, and if I can't, I just want to either end it there where I began, or keep it stale, without progress. Either she responds to my message, and I can't think of anything else witty to send, or I just wait 12 hours until I respond because I don't want to face it. It just exhausts me to think of anything. What should I do?
My journey towards success with women has been a bumpy road so far: few obstacles, some victories, many missed opportunities, but overall, I can see progress. There is only one problem that I have. The text game. I know that it should lead to the date, and it sure does sometimes, but everytime I try to text with a girl, it feels exhausting. First things first, I'm introverted, been diagnosed as schizotypal, but even though I'm not autistic, I sometimes can't really feel emphatic towards others. Don't get me wrong, I had many women on dating apps like me, but let me explain:
Anytime I try to text with a girl, I want to get out of it as soon as possible, and if I can't, I just want to either end it there where I began, or keep it stale, without progress. Either she responds to my message, and I can't think of anything else witty to send, or I just wait 12 hours until I respond because I don't want to face it. It just exhausts me to think of anything. What should I do?