Text help, tips to talk less and her more

[darklarik]

So like Chase said in some articles, about building a LITTLE BIT of rapport and 'get to know a girl' over text, before asking for the date.

I find myself talking more, any tips, questions i can use to get a bit of trust, deep diving over text?

and yes i KNOW im suppose to do this in person, id just like to create a BIT of it via text, dealing with a shy skeptical girl here, need help.

 

[tvktvk]

Hey darklarik,

I'm kinda curious how much time you've spent texting this girl already. Maybe you're already moving too slow. Chase talks about little bit of rapport over text, but it is just a small amount. If you look at my last field report "I don't do casual sex" the tiny amount of rapport me and the girl build over text is all you really need. Otherwise I would just look at LR's from the forum that contain texting parts and look at how the pros handle business.

tvktvk

 

[darklarik]

2 issues... shes got social anxiety, is mega introvert, and has a what she refers to as """"""BF"""""" (literally that many quotation marks)


Not sure how to advance here...

 

[tvktvk]

Well, why are you pursuing this girl? She seems like a poor prospect that should not be worth your time. Is she drop dead gorgeous? Has she she given you any major signs of attraction?

Give it to her straight and try to make something happen. If it doesn't work out, at least you tried and can move on without having to think what if.

tvktvk