Text journal

[Djsuave]

Bro i picked up this chick from the gym, i took her number, texted her same night
Me - Hi, this is ……
Me- what kind of flowers are these? (She had flowers on her dp)
Her - hello
Her - sunflower?
Me- those ain’t no goddamn sunflowers
Her- what then?
Me- lilith (or some bull**** don’t remember)
Her- cute
Me - don’t fall for me just yet
Her - don’t go far with your head
Me - what you can’t handle it?
Her - can you?
Me - i want you to do it like you mean it
Her - no thanks

What went wrong her? Did i show too much eagerness with the lat text, i feel that’s what went wrong like i upped the notch 1000% instead of 10%, plus during approach she was saying something about taring up something and out of no where i told her i’d love to tare it up, and she was like why would you say that, i said because that’s what i want to do

 

[whiteknight]

did you ask her out before getting the number?

 

[Mr Mistah]

You didn't hook properly prior to texting her.

You can tell by her low investment texts.

One word answers etc

don’t fall for me just yet

This was meant to be a chase frame but I think it was ill timed

Particularly because the girl doesn't seem all that interested/flirty.

Me - i want you to do it like you mean it
Her - no thanks

I think this was meant to be a flirty/dirty talk kind of thing.

But it is too crass and out of place so ofc she was gonna say this

The weak hook/lack of investment only makes it worse.

So yeah you went from 0 to 1,000 real quick

plus during approach she was saying something about taring up something and out of no where i told her i’d love to tare it up, and she was like why would you say that, i said because that’s what i want to do

Also I personally wouldn't tell girls I've just met that I want to "tear their pussy up"

That is hoodrat lingo so it can come across as vulgar and the opposite of sexy.

Anyway, I think the challenge her is:

1. Getting sexual too fast too soon
2. Getting sexual in a vulgar i.e non smooth way

 

[Mr Mistah]

Also if I notice girls being low investment/ giving me one word answers I usually ease up on the texting and hit them with a takeaway like

"Loving the enthusiasm"

Put the pressure on them to either get in the game or blow me out completely.

But no more one word answers

 

[Djsuave]

You didn't hook properly prior to texting her.

You can tell by her low investment texts.

One word answers etc


This was meant to be a chase frame but I think it was ill timed

Particularly because the girl doesn't seem all that interested/flirty.

I think this was meant to be a flirty/dirty talk kind of thing.

But it is too crass and out of place so ofc she was gonna say this

The weak hook/lack of investment only makes it worse.

So yeah you went from 0 to 1,000 real quick


Also I personally wouldn't tell girls I've just met that I want to "tear their pussy up"

That is hoodrat lingo so it can come across as vulgar and the opposite of sexy.

Anyway, I think the challenge her is:

1. Getting sexual too fast too soon
2. Getting sexual in a vulgar i.e non smooth way

Absolutely, i agree with you.

 

[Djsuave]

did you ask her out before getting the number?

Kinda, told her we can do a workout together, didn’t specify logistics.