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Texting 101: The Go-To Guide to get her on a date.

fpt2k14

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Alright fellas, what I'm about to give you is some powerful shit. Adamantly texted and proved to work. It is simple, authoritative, shows interest but doesn't chase - rather it puts the ball in her court but gives you the dominance. Some freaky shit. It is brainless.

How I learned this:
In University Greek Life, girls go through recruitment to find which sorority they want to be a part of. This just ended. So now the 50 new girls have to get to know each other and the sisters so my Facebook news feed has been inundated with shit like "hi you're perf and I'm in love with you...hi you're so beautiful..." you know, girly shit. But 80% of the messages had something in common....they all ended with "let's have lunch or get coffee soon" and that's the money line. Dudes....

Trying it out:
So I decided....shit if this is how they do it why not try it out. So I sent out a mass text to about 100 girls who I probably haven't talked to or seen in months and I had TOTAL indifference if they answered or not, it was just a test. This was the test: "Hey, was just thinking how we haven't seen each other in awhile, let's catch up. Let's have lunch or get coffee soon." THAT'S IT.

Aftermath:
Within the next 24hours, something like 60 girls texted me back saying they were down and told me when they'd be free within the next few days. I told her I'd pick a time & place soon and give them more deets. That's awesome. Obviously I'm not gonna go on 60 dates but it was a nice finding. It worked with girls I previously hooked up with, had 10minute convo's with, gotten them number off social media, all types of girls dudestein. This was kind of overwhelming, I cracked open a brewskis and contemplated the future.

Why I think it works:
It's simple, non-chalant, confident, puts the ball in her court without putting much pressure...it's fucking lunch or a coffee. It stems from a mindset of, hey I think you're cool, let's get together, and if not, that's cool too. Which makes un-interested girls go..NAH..or the girls that do like you to chase you a bit more. I think it's gold. You guys rty out an experiment like I did and let me know how it works. I'm gonna crack open another brew.
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

PinotNoir

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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I think most guys here are already running this: simplifying their dates. Especially if I haven't made any rapport with a girl (i.e., met and got phone # in 5 min doing day game), then I always suggest something "light" like coffee. The Simplify Your Dates and Informational Dates articles really changed my perspective on this.

You should really go on those 60 dates ;) #YOLO, right? If you get breakfast/lunch/dinner, you can hit 3 a day, maybe more if a girl flakes or a date ends quickly. A good chunk of these girls might just be thinking, "Oh cool, a platonic friend/orbiter! How fun." So, you go on 60 dates and weed out the ones that aren't sexually interested you.... maybe get about 10 good lays from this.

Why would you not want to go on 60 dates? Haha.
 

Ross

Tribal Elder
Tribal Elder
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Well done on figuring this out on your own fpt2k14.

It's simple, non-chalant, confident, puts the ball in her court without putting much pressure...it's fucking lunch or a coffee. It stems from a mindset of, hey I think you're cool, let's get together, and if not, that's cool too.

Yeah, outcome independence is a very empowering mindset to have. Most people want to try and make things happen in one way or another, such as learning how to guarantee that the girl will go out with you. There's no way to guarantee it - just be cool about things, and you give yourself the best chance for success.
 
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