Question. I've read about abundance, using texting with the goal of setting up dates and when necessary to build rapport.
So if you've got a date, do you go cold and stop texting a girl? Case in point, today is Tue, and I'm seeing her on Sat (assuming she doesn't flake yet again). Of course I'll text her Sat morning or early afternoon to ping her we're still on. But until then? What about unusual circumstances, e.g. you know she wasn't feeling well - do you ping her to see if she's better?
Do you go cold, and maybe make her wonder "oh so now that we've scheduled something the rapport texts stop and he goes AWOL"?
Or do you text maybe every other day or two, just some minor flirty rapport stuff?
Of course, the more you text, the more you run the risk of saying something stupid or her deciding you're too boring/needy. Then again maybe I'm not quite out of the AFC mindset of pinging her every now and then.
So if you've got a date, do you go cold and stop texting a girl? Case in point, today is Tue, and I'm seeing her on Sat (assuming she doesn't flake yet again). Of course I'll text her Sat morning or early afternoon to ping her we're still on. But until then? What about unusual circumstances, e.g. you know she wasn't feeling well - do you ping her to see if she's better?
Do you go cold, and maybe make her wonder "oh so now that we've scheduled something the rapport texts stop and he goes AWOL"?
Or do you text maybe every other day or two, just some minor flirty rapport stuff?
Of course, the more you text, the more you run the risk of saying something stupid or her deciding you're too boring/needy. Then again maybe I'm not quite out of the AFC mindset of pinging her every now and then.
