Texting conversation starters?

[Richard]

What's up gentleman, everythings been going good with women lately, been having a lot of fun making new friends and sparking up new flings. Anyhow, I'm in a slight dilema, there's a girl I've been attracted too before, and just recently saw her agsin, I got her number, and we've had small talk along with some deep dive, her schedule is incredulously busy! And its very hard to make plans, we talked and I stopped texting her after a while because it took her so long to respond if she responded at all. She sent me a few IOI's , and sent a few signs in the opposite direction. I decided to leave it alone for a while, and now I want to see if I can escape the friend zone, so, being that her and I know each other, what are some cold conversation starters to initiate meaningful conversation with a definitive purpose, instead of "what is he getting at ourpose"
-Richard

 

[Richard]

BUMP ?

 

[Brentwoodbam]

I don't know the whole situation, or what your intentions are since you said you want to "start a conversation", but there is a chick I recently slept with at work who friend zoned me back when I was a chump. We stopped talking for months after I gave up my one-itis, and after I began to man up I started to get IOIs from her. With that being said I texted her out of the blue "I want to see you outside of work, let's make that happen", and it was an instant warm reply. In your case, i'd just change it to "I want to see you, let's make that happen". This type of assertiveness used to make me uncomfortable, until I realized how well it worked.

Sorry for the long-winded post,
Brentwood

 

[Light]

Sometimes we think that we may have been friend zoned, but sometimes we may have only just avoided it.
You may be within her periphiral zone, just an acquaintance. In which case, the best thing to do is not to go any deeper.
If the girl is generally busy, let her be. Forcing something to happen in your terms can come accross pushy and needy if not done right, and puts you in the chase.
If she really was interested in you to begin with, a girl will always make time for you no matter how busy she may be.
Stay with the Law of Least Investment buddy.

A busy girl will always appreciate and acknowledge a busy man.

 

[Richard]

As you said Light, I've already moved past her before you advised me, I bumped this post not remembering what I had written it for, but would like to ask only the title question with no background, just, what are some good cold text conversation starters? Nothing like "hey, how's it going..." I'm just not quite sure how to frame my texts yet

 

[Light]

As you said Light, I've already moved past her before you advised me, I bumped this post not remembering what I had written it for, but would like to ask only the title question with no background, just, what are some good cold text conversation starters? Nothing like "hey, how's it going..." I'm just not quite sure how to frame my texts yet

Try to remember what was the last thing you guys talked about, something meaningful to her. For example if she previously told you about her travel plans, or some family problem, then just ask how are the plans going, or how is she coping.
This shows that you kind of care about what was meaningful to her, and that you paid attention, and remembered.