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Texting Ex's Friend. Goal: hangout | Issue: Bit Complicated?

Julian Rose

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Hey,

Here's the situation:

Recently broke up with my girlfriend about two months ago. The girl I just texted is someone who my girl and I hungout with once. My girl introduced me to her. It went great. We all vibed. Problem is - my ex has serious health complications, so I really don't want my ex finding out about this. Like i said, it's serious health complication. I know she still has feelings for me from her texts, and I dont want her to get down further than she already is. Yea, I still care about her. Note: Her health concerns came after we broke up


Who is the girl?
- pretty religious (makes me think she has her morals straightened out and is loyal)
- knows my ex and I were dating (don't know if she knows if we broken up)

So a few days ago, I replied to her instagram story of her trying a philly cheesesteak from philly.

My Text:
Pls tell me that it’s as good as they say. Don’t know if you’ve tried the over-hyped deep dish pizza from Chicago, but it was disappointing haha

Her Reply:
The deep dish pizza was disgusting. I don’t ever want to try one again lol. The cheesesteaks were pretty good lol not gonna lie!

Haven't replied since...since i'm busy and didn't know how to move the messages to meet in person, while making sure my ex doesn't find out about this.

So here's an options I could send

Option 1:
yum! something to look forward to next time I go. You know there's a new pizza place -called &pizza- taking over nova. Wanna go check it out? by the way, [insert ex name here] and I broke up a while ago.


Option 2:
yum! something to look forward to next time I go. You know there's a new pizza place -called &pizza- taking over nova. Wanna go check it out?

*with both options, I'll change my profile picture to just me (been lazy) . Keep in mind, I already deleted all my ex's pics on my instagram...I think this will get the message accross*

So option 2 is porbably best to move forward, but option 1 will 100% make sure she doesn't hit up my ex.

I'm open to other suggestions.
 
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POB

Chieftan
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Forget about her.
You are setting a time bomb who sooner or later is gonna explode on your lap.
Just get other leads far away from your shared social circle with your ex.
 
you miss 100% of the shots you don't take
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