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Texting Report: Girl from Daygame
Context
Timeline
First Text
Me: “Hey [Name], nice meeting you earlier
”
Her (hours later): “Hi [my name]. Nice to meet you too!”
→ Good compliance and positive opener.
Escalation Attempt
Me: “What are you up to tonight?”
Me: “Tbh it would have to be at your place bc my studio isn’t ready yet”
Her: “? And why did you ask me all of a sudden?”
Me: “Bc I thought you were cute. I want to make a painting of you?”
→ Too fast. Went straight to logistics without comfort.
She probes more
Her: “Okay, but tell me more about you, I think I’m confused haha.”
Me: “I’m an artist.”
Me: “When are you free?”
Me: “Tonight?”
Her: “At night? How will you do the painting?”
→ She’s still engaging, but I looked needy by hammering “tonight.”
She offers availability
Her: “I think I have an hour free tomorrow, I could let you know. Do you have any photos of your paintings?”
Me: “I can just bring my supplies.”
→ Instead of rolling with her offer, I forced logistics again.
Art sharing
→ Now she’s suspicious. The art raised red flags because it looked like I paint random women I meet.
Outcome
Lessons
Next Steps
Context
- Met a girl during the day, approached direct and got her number.
- Initial vibe was solid — she seemed happy to hear from me when I texted later.
Timeline
First Text
Me: “Hey [Name], nice meeting you earlier
”Her (hours later): “Hi [my name]. Nice to meet you too!”
→ Good compliance and positive opener.
Escalation Attempt
Me: “What are you up to tonight?”
Me: “Tbh it would have to be at your place bc my studio isn’t ready yet
”Her: “? And why did you ask me all of a sudden?”
Me: “Bc I thought you were cute. I want to make a painting of you?”
→ Too fast. Went straight to logistics without comfort.
She probes more
Her: “Okay, but tell me more about you, I think I’m confused haha.”
Me: “I’m an artist.”
Me: “When are you free?”
Me: “Tonight?”
Her: “At night? How will you do the painting?”
→ She’s still engaging, but I looked needy by hammering “tonight.”
She offers availability
Her: “I think I have an hour free tomorrow, I could let you know. Do you have any photos of your paintings?”
Me: “I can just bring my supplies.”
→ Instead of rolling with her offer, I forced logistics again.
Art sharing
- Sent her one painting, then multiple IG screenshots (some semi-nude/female portraits).
Her: “Just one?”
Her: “Is it real? Can you send me a screenshot of your profile?”
Her: “Are they girls you’ve seen on the street?”
Me: “No.”
→ Now she’s suspicious. The art raised red flags because it looked like I paint random women I meet.
Outcome
- Positive initial response.
- Over-pushed for logistics right away.
- Repeated “Tonight?” made me look desperate.
- Shared art that triggered concern before I had built comfort.
- Momentum fizzled, she cooled off.
Lessons
- Don’t rush logistics. Build more comfort before suggesting specifics.
- Avoid spamming the same ask — comes across needy.
- Lead with safe/friendly art. Save edgier/sexual stuff for later once trust is built.
- When she’s confused, slow down and reframe instead of doubling down.
Next Steps
- Let this one cool off.
- Ping in a week with something light and art-related (no pressure).
- Focus on pacing — keep it playful and gradual instead of rushing.
