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Hi all,
Recently, it's been an issue getting girls on dates. I'm aware it's another numbers game, so I'm wanting to examine my actions to make it more efficient. I get girls really excited and agreeing on dates before I grab their number, but when it comes time and I text them, I've been getting no response or "I really enjoyed talking with you, but I'm not interested". I've worked to build some rapport if they ignore my date invite, but so far that hasn't returned much results.
From reading a couple GC articles on texting, I have a few things to change. This is a sticking point for me and I want to figure out what to change so I convert more numbers to dates.
Also within this realm is same-day lays. I've gotten better at asking a girl what she is doing now to see if she's free for a bit. I've gotten one instadate so far (its been about a week), but the girl ended up being lesbian (HA). Anyways, that is one change I'm making: figuring out her logistics for then and there and if she's not free, then taking her number. If she is, then we'll go for coffee or something.
I plan on really examining what I've been texting and doing in person to get past this. Any tips or experience stories you all can share? Has anyone been stuck at this point and gotten through it? Let me know!
Recently, it's been an issue getting girls on dates. I'm aware it's another numbers game, so I'm wanting to examine my actions to make it more efficient. I get girls really excited and agreeing on dates before I grab their number, but when it comes time and I text them, I've been getting no response or "I really enjoyed talking with you, but I'm not interested". I've worked to build some rapport if they ignore my date invite, but so far that hasn't returned much results.
From reading a couple GC articles on texting, I have a few things to change. This is a sticking point for me and I want to figure out what to change so I convert more numbers to dates.
Also within this realm is same-day lays. I've gotten better at asking a girl what she is doing now to see if she's free for a bit. I've gotten one instadate so far (its been about a week), but the girl ended up being lesbian (HA). Anyways, that is one change I'm making: figuring out her logistics for then and there and if she's not free, then taking her number. If she is, then we'll go for coffee or something.
I plan on really examining what I've been texting and doing in person to get past this. Any tips or experience stories you all can share? Has anyone been stuck at this point and gotten through it? Let me know!
