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Hello People,
So occasionally i receive text messages from the guys here. He is in really hot mess, But to be honest, his case is quite common. Everyone interwines roles.
1)Friends and Lovers
2)Single Mothers and Sons
3)Mothers and Sons
4)Mothers and Daughters
5)Fathers and Daughters
and so many more. Teacher student anyone? For me, even Zac and Chase used to intertwine friendship and mentor role. This is also why FRAME CONTROL is important.
Always remember, that whenever you depressed, sad, thinking to commit suicide, always remember that when you die, people operate from themselves. What do this mean?
"I know Zac since <insert>"
"You don't know him, I know him. <insert story>"
"He will go to hell because islam doesn't allow suicide"
"He's selfish"
and many more.
No matter what, people operate from themselves. Even when you die, they talk about their experiences about you, not you. They can't let go. And There's a freedom in this realization
I know this. Why? I have seen funerals with noise as loud as a fish market. and that's my grandfather funeral. and he was a good guy.
Zac
So occasionally i receive text messages from the guys here. He is in really hot mess, But to be honest, his case is quite common. Everyone interwines roles.
1)Friends and Lovers
2)Single Mothers and Sons
3)Mothers and Sons
4)Mothers and Daughters
5)Fathers and Daughters
and so many more. Teacher student anyone? For me, even Zac and Chase used to intertwine friendship and mentor role. This is also why FRAME CONTROL is important.
Always remember, that whenever you depressed, sad, thinking to commit suicide, always remember that when you die, people operate from themselves. What do this mean?
"I know Zac since <insert>"
"You don't know him, I know him. <insert story>"
"He will go to hell because islam doesn't allow suicide"
"He's selfish"
and many more.
No matter what, people operate from themselves. Even when you die, they talk about their experiences about you, not you. They can't let go. And There's a freedom in this realization
I know this. Why? I have seen funerals with noise as loud as a fish market. and that's my grandfather funeral. and he was a good guy.
Zac