Socializing The 2 must questions that everybody should ask in every interaction (and even after this post you won't ask)

[Skills]

Last night i had this happen to me again i got a bit confuse and intimidated by couple of dudes in an interaction, which then i befriend and found out they did not even know the super hot girl i was with.... so this is why i am writing this post...Same thing happen to me in this lay report

These are in my opinion the 2 most important questions that should be asked in every interaction especially in night game (i mean there are many but these 2 i consider a must), and even after reading this you will forget and you won't ask, like it happens to me all the time, so this post is for me as well.... So my goal is for you to develop the habit to ask them ASAP, in other words the faster you get the answer the better(for efficiency), now they need to be rehearsed to be ask extremely subtle and casual style vs agenda/interrogation style...

1.- Who are you here with? This will help you tremendously with logistic and to find out if the hubby or bf or _____ cock block is there.......................... vs "do you have a bf" which is weak and direct.

usually follow by "oh cool" "sweet" "oh nice" whatever positive response to the answer is more congruent with you, for me "oh cool"

2.- then the old mystery method "how you guys know each other".... again this will help for logistics, is he a brother, a bf, a gay friend, etc.....

^ the reason is most women are going to be now a days in a group of women or mixed sets, mixed sets can be intimidating and can play a lot with your head, which will affect your interactions (your worrying about other guys as you are gaming).... a lot of those mixed sets are guys that they just met by the way... This come back to male biology, the same biology that plays with approach anxiety....

 

[Fluxcapacitor]

@Skills dude! These questions are great for night game! or big crowded/social day game. I still like the "do you have a boyfriend" and find it very affective at times in day game or when chancing my arm on bar maids. Ya can't exactly ask them who they're there with :') (same as day game if they're on there own - which is a very rare here, they almost always travel in pairs or packs!

 

[Fuck This]

Solid. Informational questions that also feed into topics like how they met what they did today and what their plans are later. Congruent...

 

[Skills]

@Skills dude! These questions are great for night game! or big crowded/social day game. I still like the "do you have a boyfriend" and find it very affective at times in day game or when chancing my arm on bar maids. Ya can't exactly ask them who they're there with :') (same as day game if they're on there own - which is a very rare here, they almost always travel in pairs or packs!

yes for night game, for day game, do not really ask do you have a boyfriend.... use situational question is a bit more smooth....

Are you on your wait to meet your boyfriend.... Walking day game

are you watching that movie with your bf..... movie theater

if she is with a little kid... is that your boyfriend (sarcastic funny, ridiculous)

any situational question for her to answer if she has a bf or not in an indirect way...

If she does have a bf and is giving you iois, then you can use rebottles and cont.

if she does have a bf and she is not flirty she is not interested...

 

[sinksink]

@Skills dude! These questions are great for night game! or big crowded/social day game. I still like the "do you have a boyfriend" and find it very affective at times in day game or when chancing my arm on bar maids. Ya can't exactly ask them who they're there with :') (same as day game if they're on there own - which is a very rare here, they almost always travel in pairs or packs!

Out of curiosity, if a girl responded "Why do you ask {why do you ask why I have a boyfriend}?" then what would you say?

Would you say "Just curious"
?

 

[Skills]

Out of curiosity, if a girl responded "Why do you ask {why do you ask why I have a boyfriend}?" then what would you say?

Would you say "Just curious"
?

I never heard a girl ask that question, it is very unlikely, but you just say " i don't want to disrespect anybody" or "i don't want to step in anybodies toes" "or i don't want no problems" or "i don't want drama"