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The Ball In Your Court Dilemma

emillion

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I was wondering if some of y'all could help me out with this one. I recently met a girl who was previously my coworker, at a coffee shop. She previously flirted with me but i was an oblivious nut-job at the time. Now, after meeting her and after promptly getting her number,over text, i tried to set up a date to which she replied that she didn't have her weeks schedule yet and should know the day after. To this I replied: "Alright text me when you are free if you want to meet." Radio silence for two days now and she obviously know her schedule, should i try to resurrect this or move on? Much obliged.
 

Smith

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I found it to be really unreliable putting the ball back in girl's court, especially in the beginning. It makes you chase if her interest for you is not that strong yet.
I think you could have texted her this: "Alright, no worries, we can sort it out later =)", which implies that you're not needy and you're confident you'll see her again.
Then texting her after 2-5 days of radio silence would seem natural.
Definitely try text her again, but maybe wait a couple more days.

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