Hi guys, I need some advice please.
Recently I've become close with the girl at my uni and for the last few weeks we've been going for a lunch after the lectures. She enjoys her time with me, however every other time I call her for a drink or whatever, she finds some reason to decline my invitations. Now I'm going to stop spending my time with her until she agrees to meet me outside of uni. Is that the right direction? What to say when she asks why I'm not going with her for a lunch? When I respond that I have some stuff to do, she asks for details.
Recently I've become close with the girl at my uni and for the last few weeks we've been going for a lunch after the lectures. She enjoys her time with me, however every other time I call her for a drink or whatever, she finds some reason to decline my invitations. Now I'm going to stop spending my time with her until she agrees to meet me outside of uni. Is that the right direction? What to say when she asks why I'm not going with her for a lunch? When I respond that I have some stuff to do, she asks for details.
