Doncorleone said:
I'm just curious here and looking for some good discussion about the girl who flirts with you, texts you, goes out with you, but has you friend zoned. Chase has the article which I believe is called the Shopping Bag Guy or something similar. I used to be trapped by a girl like this and our used these girls in high school. When I got to college I set out to reinvent my friend group and made sure to stay away from these shallow types. What have your experiences been with girls like this?
Hi,
Well first ""adult love"" I had was a girl like that. She was very touchy, teasy, not the most beautiful, about 82% on Rotten tomatoes but the best at the time. Bleached blonde, did karate since she was 9, was into buff dudes with short black hair, the bad boy type. Before I discovered GC, I thought she liked me a lot, and she did but not in a way that is compatible with bedding her. It was nice and horrible at the same time because the vibes were great but it never progressed anywhere, she did not want to meet alone just with me, only once we did that. After discovering GC I could see all the tests she threw at me and how I failed them, how much of a loser I was so I just cut contact. She initiated contact with me only like 20% of the times so it was not that hard. I think it was good experience because I can tell when I overinvest in a girl, what it looks like when a girl is not attracted to you at all, and a lot of other mistakes like bending to her frames while also getting used to being in a presence of an attractive girl. Also, I met her a year back and even though I changed quite a but, she views me pretty much the same which kinda shows how powerful a precedent is. However my game improved much more and she said I seemed different, more positive, but I could tell I was simply not her type. And sometimes that happens. And there is nothing you can do or say except revamping yourself completely to be her type. Overall, I am glad I knew her, it also gave me a chance to get to know girls like her, ehat she wants, likes, etc. But also how judgemental she is and kind of "two-facey" with that to preserve her good girl image.
If you have more specific question about ny experience with this girl, feel free to ask
