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This is a fun, lighthearted tactic you can use to escalate on women. I call it the double hand grab.
When you and a woman are introducing yourselves to each other, take her hand in yours. Some women will release your hand right away. However, some will keep holding onto it for quite a while. The women in the latter scenario are showing interest in you which means you can escalate and pull out the double hand grab.
There are two ways to go for the double hand grab, depending on how dominant you want to be:
A) You say, "give me your other hand?
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B) You grab her other hand without saying a single bloody word.
She complies and now you are standing around holding both the hands of a woman you just met. Now what?
Here's a few things you can do depending on how she's reacting:
1. Smile at her and look deep in her eyes.
2. Use some verbal contrasting to really make her wonder who the heck this charming young man is. The double hand grab shows that you are confident and comfortable around women. Saying something to her that implies you are unconfident, like, "I'm really shy around women." will practically make her brain explode.
You can use the double hand grab in other situations besides the introduction as well. But since the introduction involves hand contact anyways, its a perfect situation to use this tactic because you're following the Law of Least Effort.
When you and a woman are introducing yourselves to each other, take her hand in yours. Some women will release your hand right away. However, some will keep holding onto it for quite a while. The women in the latter scenario are showing interest in you which means you can escalate and pull out the double hand grab.
There are two ways to go for the double hand grab, depending on how dominant you want to be:
A) You say, "give me your other hand?
"B) You grab her other hand without saying a single bloody word.
She complies and now you are standing around holding both the hands of a woman you just met. Now what?
Here's a few things you can do depending on how she's reacting:
1. Smile at her and look deep in her eyes.
2. Use some verbal contrasting to really make her wonder who the heck this charming young man is. The double hand grab shows that you are confident and comfortable around women. Saying something to her that implies you are unconfident, like, "I'm really shy around women." will practically make her brain explode.
You can use the double hand grab in other situations besides the introduction as well. But since the introduction involves hand contact anyways, its a perfect situation to use this tactic because you're following the Law of Least Effort.
