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I found myself with my flatmate in the most pull-able bar in town. The music for some reason is absolutely atrocious and we are not having the best of times. Any attempt to open thus far has gotten us blown out. A bitchy girl even told me to go away which hasn’t happened in ages.
I am by the bar and all of a sudden all these don’t matter anymore, as I catch the cutest most feminine girl looking at me. Around 5’3”, light brown hair, green eyes, slim body and a perfect face. We lock eyes and I tell her Hi, she says hi and shyly looks away. I offer her my hand and she takes it reluctantly, I just pull her decisively into me and ask her what’s her name while interlocking fingers. We are in full body contact straight away, within a minute she starts resting her hands behind my neck hugging me.
After being stuck in my head that’s all it took to get in the zone, I start teasing her and vibing with her, found out that she’s Lithuanian, make her guess where I am from and playfully pretended that I am insulted at her wrong guesses. Let’s call her Kim for the shake of the story.
Moved her and introduced her to my friend who is closeby.
We dance a little bit and she’s like oh I can’t dance with you, you are too tall. I’m like OK wait I know what we are going to do. I put my drink down, hug her and lift her up and keep our faces at the same height dancing. She is giggling and after a while I put her down.
Then I get this feeling that I need to isolate.
I let her talk to her friends and go back and chat to my buddy, then after 1 min I go back and find her looking for me. Awesome. Take her by the hand and lead her downstairs.
As soon as we get there, I chill by the wall and pull her by the waist into me. She’s all excited but also looks a bit overwhelmed. I tone it back and start talking in her ear and we get in this perfect bubble.
I can’t really describe how much we were vibing at this point. I see the opportunity to sit down and bring her to my height, so I sit in one of the stools and have my hands on her ass and keep her really close to me. That shit is perfect, it’s as intimate as it gets.
At this point she is stroking my hair telling me that she loves it and that it’s very soft and I’m kissing and biting her neck. She is trying really hard to keep herself under control and not kiss me but I am unfazed when I go to kiss her and she playfully rejects it.
I start trying to figure out a way to pull:
She laughs but at this point I am very hesitant to try and convince the friends as I see no way to make 6 girls agree to the idea of moving with me. If only one didn’t like me it would be enough to blow it up.
So I chill with her in the same intimate position, she’s dancing and grinding on me.
At some point she says that she wants to find her friends, asks if she can go find them quickly and come back. I tell her that in 5 minutes we are going upstairs to find her friends and she is happy. Then I see that the place is about to close and I’m like OK let’s go find your friends.
We go upstairs, find the friends smoking outside and I tell her that I need to get my coat, she says that she is going to wait there for me. She does indeed and I join the group and charismatically introduce myself to the rest, however the leader of the group was a smoking hot tall bitch. She started giving me some shit that I easily overcame and I started seeding the idea of moving the whole group to another bar.
Then the rest of her friends come out and it starts being really chaotic, they all start conversating in Lithuanian, I introduce myself to one of the friends and chat with her a little bit then my girl pulls me to the side and tells me that she is sorry but her friends are really pushing her to leave.
As I am about to say that it’s OK and try and arrange the next day one of her short, obviously negative friends tells her that they have to go and literally starts dragging her away with the rest of the group following. I try to dominate the friend yelling “Hey, 2 minutes, we are just saying goodbye”. They are not having any of it and keep moving and my girl looks pissed at them but follows.
At this point I am defeated, I just went back home pissed. She texted me in a few minutes sending me a picture of hers.
Then she goes silent for several hours. I decide to text her again seeing that we have a limited window of opportunity.
All this happened late at night as I was about to go to sleep. I really was debating hard whether I should go to meet them but I didn't have to decide after all.
She then goes off the grid for like an hour. By then I have fallen asleep and in the morning I see that she texted me to send her a picture lol as if the part where she is supposed to send me the address never happened. I guess if she was drunk I couldn’t expect any coherent behavior…
So this is how I fucked up getting with a girl I really liked. I haven’t written a proper FR in a while, any feedback would be very much appreciated.
About the texting and the next day date part I have to say that it has happened to me numerous times. In fact I have never managed to get a nightgame number out for a date the next day, no matter how much we connected the previous night. They always say yes before going to sleep and then they flake the next day. Honestly I am sick of it, I know the girls’ psychology behind it but at the same time don’t know how to avoid it.
What pisses me off is that I have found out through experience that even though hot girls are abundant, girls with chemistry like this are rare. I go out regularly but still the only similar interaction that I had was like 5 months ago. I even surprised myself at how much it pissed me off, maybe I feel that there was a way to make it happen and I just didn’t rise to the occasion.
I am by the bar and all of a sudden all these don’t matter anymore, as I catch the cutest most feminine girl looking at me. Around 5’3”, light brown hair, green eyes, slim body and a perfect face. We lock eyes and I tell her Hi, she says hi and shyly looks away. I offer her my hand and she takes it reluctantly, I just pull her decisively into me and ask her what’s her name while interlocking fingers. We are in full body contact straight away, within a minute she starts resting her hands behind my neck hugging me.
After being stuck in my head that’s all it took to get in the zone, I start teasing her and vibing with her, found out that she’s Lithuanian, make her guess where I am from and playfully pretended that I am insulted at her wrong guesses. Let’s call her Kim for the shake of the story.
Moved her and introduced her to my friend who is closeby.
We dance a little bit and she’s like oh I can’t dance with you, you are too tall. I’m like OK wait I know what we are going to do. I put my drink down, hug her and lift her up and keep our faces at the same height dancing. She is giggling and after a while I put her down.
Then I get this feeling that I need to isolate.
I let her talk to her friends and go back and chat to my buddy, then after 1 min I go back and find her looking for me. Awesome. Take her by the hand and lead her downstairs.
As soon as we get there, I chill by the wall and pull her by the waist into me. She’s all excited but also looks a bit overwhelmed. I tone it back and start talking in her ear and we get in this perfect bubble.
I can’t really describe how much we were vibing at this point. I see the opportunity to sit down and bring her to my height, so I sit in one of the stools and have my hands on her ass and keep her really close to me. That shit is perfect, it’s as intimate as it gets.
At this point she is stroking my hair telling me that she loves it and that it’s very soft and I’m kissing and biting her neck. She is trying really hard to keep herself under control and not kiss me but I am unfazed when I go to kiss her and she playfully rejects it.
I start trying to figure out a way to pull:
She laughs but at this point I am very hesitant to try and convince the friends as I see no way to make 6 girls agree to the idea of moving with me. If only one didn’t like me it would be enough to blow it up.
So I chill with her in the same intimate position, she’s dancing and grinding on me.
At some point she says that she wants to find her friends, asks if she can go find them quickly and come back. I tell her that in 5 minutes we are going upstairs to find her friends and she is happy. Then I see that the place is about to close and I’m like OK let’s go find your friends.
We go upstairs, find the friends smoking outside and I tell her that I need to get my coat, she says that she is going to wait there for me. She does indeed and I join the group and charismatically introduce myself to the rest, however the leader of the group was a smoking hot tall bitch. She started giving me some shit that I easily overcame and I started seeding the idea of moving the whole group to another bar.
Then the rest of her friends come out and it starts being really chaotic, they all start conversating in Lithuanian, I introduce myself to one of the friends and chat with her a little bit then my girl pulls me to the side and tells me that she is sorry but her friends are really pushing her to leave.
As I am about to say that it’s OK and try and arrange the next day one of her short, obviously negative friends tells her that they have to go and literally starts dragging her away with the rest of the group following. I try to dominate the friend yelling “Hey, 2 minutes, we are just saying goodbye”. They are not having any of it and keep moving and my girl looks pissed at them but follows.
At this point I am defeated, I just went back home pissed. She texted me in a few minutes sending me a picture of hers.
Then she goes silent for several hours. I decide to text her again seeing that we have a limited window of opportunity.
All this happened late at night as I was about to go to sleep. I really was debating hard whether I should go to meet them but I didn't have to decide after all.
She then goes off the grid for like an hour. By then I have fallen asleep and in the morning I see that she texted me to send her a picture lol as if the part where she is supposed to send me the address never happened. I guess if she was drunk I couldn’t expect any coherent behavior…
So this is how I fucked up getting with a girl I really liked. I haven’t written a proper FR in a while, any feedback would be very much appreciated.
About the texting and the next day date part I have to say that it has happened to me numerous times. In fact I have never managed to get a nightgame number out for a date the next day, no matter how much we connected the previous night. They always say yes before going to sleep and then they flake the next day. Honestly I am sick of it, I know the girls’ psychology behind it but at the same time don’t know how to avoid it.
What pisses me off is that I have found out through experience that even though hot girls are abundant, girls with chemistry like this are rare. I go out regularly but still the only similar interaction that I had was like 5 months ago. I even surprised myself at how much it pissed me off, maybe I feel that there was a way to make it happen and I just didn’t rise to the occasion.
