The Journey of The Dark Stallion

[Dark_Stallion]

Hey guys, I’m making a new journal, changed my name from definetly_not_a_gymrat to Dark Stallion, hoping to undergo a personal change, especially in the seduction space, I feel like Dark Stallion suits me more, and what I want in life, rather than the other name, which tbh wasnt a good username.

Starting a new journal, posted in a bit from definitely_not_a_gymrat’s journal, though with the new name, I figured I would make a new journal since it’s been months since I’ve updated that.

A bit of background about me, I’m 21, 5’8” Indian male with medium/heavy stubble and pushed forward, rugged hair(think Mediterranean type hairstyle), with a lean muscular build(been working out for 3 years).

Throughout most of my life, I’ve interacted with girls, not really sexually as well. Throughout the end of high school, I took a female friend to prom, she ended up hooking up with her ex at the venue, which tbh made me feel like shit. Even though we were friends, I was secretly hoping for a bit more(classic friendzone) and tbh it was very disrespectful nonetheless.

Also, throughout most of my life, had fixations with one special girl that I never really knew or met, I wrote about a very bad oneitis incident in my other journal, not going to elaborate too much because I’ve moved on from that(unfollowed her on insta, but she still follows me, extra fan).

Also, realizing how stupid oneitis, had one for a girl in hs I never talked to, one of my top girls in high school(looks wise). Funny enough, bumped into her at a bar this summer, went to chat to her, threw a light tease her way, she didn’t respond well tbh(didn’t take it as an insult, just completely bland), figured she had no personality from actually talking to her, and have no idea how the hell I crushed on her, I would’ve never entertained a relationship with someone with as little personality.

Anwyays, my body count is 2, though I’ve done stuff with other girls, just not all the way, like 10-15, never had a relationship, which I want to change, but first get my bc up(within reasonable means and actions).

That’s the summary on me, people see me as a ladies man(idk why) or someone that will not be afraid to talk to a girl(I can see this) but hoping to improve and get real results, because reactions don’t matter. Have been interacting with girls more in the way I want and need to, which is showing signs of improvement for me.

Going to post things here that shouldn’t be posted on beginners, general, or made a field report.

 

[Dark_Stallion]

GYM Approach:

This approach today inspired me to make the journal, originally I was going to make it an FR, but tbh she had a bf, and I didn’t do too much wrong, so no need to make it an FR.

Opened her using the “I like your shoes method,” she was a bit confused, but received it well.

Then said “I guess it’s you that makes it look good” then name exchange, handclasp, transition into the gym being empty, and college/job.

She tells me she graduated 3 years ago, I tell her “no way you look like you just graduated” a nice light tease, did that one more time in the interaction.

Did a quick deep dive about her job, eventually she says she wants to be a full time mom, I said “that’s wonderful” … “although you got time ur still young.” Got to see what her main motivation in life is, could have gone further on the topic, but didn’t want to make the convo too long.

Transtioned into traveling here:

Briefly told her about my experience in Rome, asked her if she liked to travel, which she did, so I stayed on that topic for the rest of the convo.

I told her I’m going to let her get back to her workout, but she has to tell me more about her travel.

I then asked her what she’s doing after this, she said going home, I inquired what she’s gonna do there, perhaps movie, she said some activity mentioning a bf, so I said that’s nice, then wished her well, made her remember my name and made my exit.

During the rest of her lift I saw her interacting with a dude that looked like her bf so she wasn’t lying, although I just continued my workout like normal, was my last day in this gym anyways, so no social circle implications.

Think I did some good things, although this time, the outcome was never going to go in my favor, wanted to build some daygame momentum for the upcoming school year, was a nice interaction though.

 

[Dark_Stallion]

Did some more daygame approaches today, nothing crazy, I had more approaches yesterday, called "First of the Month" might still meet more girls today its only halfway throughout the day.

My first approach was at my apartment, a girl and I were waiting for an elevator together, so I struck up a convo. Simple getting to know you, gained compliance by her showing me her fake ID, then role playing pretending to be a bouncer and "confiscate her ID". More of the same and I got her ig, invited her and her roommates to a pregame of mine, since they live a few doors away. Nothing too crazy, still want to up the sexual tension in a daytime approach.

Did a gym approach, more so just asking a girl for some gym advice and making a basic introduction, didn't want to come off to strong at the first gym approach, when I see her next time I can try to connect more and seduce more.

Went outside to chill for a bit, happened to run into my neighbors and their friends, all part of the same athletic team on our campus, they mostly talked to themselves, with me making convo from time to time, and them making it back with me.

Mostly chill day, but there's another nightgame session to look forward to, as well as the fact that me and a girl I met yesterday are trying to set up something.

 

[Dark_Stallion]

Also, to go back to the girls sitting outside of me, I talked with them a bit, but mostly it was me on my phone, doing my thing overhearing their convo, and my god, it was such a redpilled conversation. One of the girls who just got to campus talked about hooking up with a different guy every single night, most of the girls that are part of the athletic team are seeing(sexually) multiple guys at the same time, one girl was called a good girl because she was only hooking up with one guy at a time(this isn't really mindblowing, but every other girl there is tbh). I read the GC articles, and most women have a median partner count of three, but these girls are 100% way past that, I hope most college girls are not like that. I'm in between not caring and thinking it's too much, tbh with these particular girls I don't care what kinds of sexual activity they do, I just need to know that all girls are not like this, if I take on a romantic partner, I preferrably do not want her fucking three different guys at the same time while she is getting to know me. Maybe I seem a bit of a prude, if I don't take a girl on as long term wifey material, I'm fine and somewhat prefer if the girl is a bit of a whore, and will continue to make connections with these girls. I'm just not sure how to set something up in the daytime with these girls, they all already have enough dick, they don't need anymore. Maybe if I see them in nighttime, who knows. These gilrs are also cute af, with me being neighbors with two of them on that athletic team.

 

[Dark_Stallion]

Made another approach at the grocery store today, walked around trying to find watermelon and other fruits, went up to this girl as I was scanning the section for fruits, and asked her "Do you know where the watermelons are?"

She pointed to some, but I told her I meant cut watermelon, then quickly transitioned into the item she was holding(some spinach) and asked "wow I see you're trying to eat healthy, on a diet I guess?" which she laughed at, was receptive to the tease.

Asked her what to cook since we are at a grocery store, she gave me some advice, then I told her I needed a few more items because I was going out tonight, and asked her if she was going out tonight, and she said she doesn't really go out(beautiful, doesn't go out, there are good girls that exist after hearing the earlier conversation listed above this one, wasn't ready to make her my wife, but was a good blueprint based on small data, just good to know that these girls exist if anything). I teased her further about her being super healthy and clean, that she probably has one cheat meal a week, which is half a cookie(thanks lush teases, also don't know exactly where in the convo I made this remark).

Asked her what she likes to do, she mentioned something about her bf, and her going to her bf's house, after this I made some small talk but she was also in a rush, no need to escalate any point of the convo after this, so I just said thanks finally and went my way.

Solid approach, girl seemed interested in the convo, but the fact that she had a bf means she probably would not have been interested in anything further. Easy good approach though for me.

 

[Dark_Stallion]

Hey guys, writing about my date with one girl from daygame today, no lay, makeout or any kind of sexual contact, but tbh I think I made a good call leaving everything for date 2.

We had planned to meet up over the next few days, eventually I made the plan to chill at my apartment lounge and just have us get to know each other(a free date where she comes to me, and I don't have to pay) which is already great compliance.

We greet each other with a hug, and we quickly get into how our nights were the previous night. I ask her if she met any "interesting people" by that I more so meant cute guys did not want to say that so early in the interaction and kill the vibe. Also I checked for logistics early on, she only had an hour so I knew that I probably shouldn't go for the lay on this date.

Near the beginning of the interaction, I make a joke that I was thinking of who I thought was cuter between her and her dog, I said her dog but I said I almost thought of her and went to pet of her, I told her it was a joke right after which we both laughed at.

Around 15-20 minutes in, I moved her inside to a couch(public one) where we sat right next to each other and we could touch each other a bit more.

I showed her pictures of some of my abroad travels, since she was very curious, especially Amsterdam. I said I would show her pictures of the prostitutes of Red Light District, with the workers in action, she said "nooo I don't want to see all that" I ignored went 3,2,1 and showed her a picture of tulip fields, told her I was joking, used that to segway into a mini convo about how paying for sex feels unnatural, that 2 people who feel a connection and desire should have sex, not have it be transactional like that.

Used light touch here and there, she reciprocated touch, not that much though.

Also went on a mini tirade about how I dislike judgementalism, and said that people in other countries are not really judgemental, she said it was the same for her other countries.

After this, she opened up about how in her country, its normal to grind and twerk on guys, how she used to make out with people a few years ago, but she needs to get to know the person's personality because she thinks it's gross making out with a random person, she told me to watch a movie, I said I can put it on my TV for the both of us to watch some other time, which she agreed to, a bit nervous though. She also opened up about how she doesn't want a bf, she just wants to enjoy her life, I related to her saying "yeah I don't like when a girl and a guy meet for the first time and they're assessing each other for a long term relationship already, like they should just be trying to feel out vibes" which she agreed to also threw out that she and I were feeling out vibes which she agreed to.

Unfortunately, her roommate called her with a freak accident that happened to her(nothing serious, but needed someone to help her) so she was super apologetic, I told her I understood, but that it felt like we could have spent the rest of the day together, which she strongly agreed to.

Walked her out and walked with her a bit, we both shared what we thought of each other(all positive), eventually gave her a hug and greeted her goodbye, but on the walk back, we were already making future plans, feeling out days when we would be free.

She was really easy to talk to, and really sweet, good energy, and I think if I run a good date plan next time, I should be able to progress to intimacy. Don't really have to play any provider role since she doesn't want that, I just need to pull to my apartment, although she is comfortable with coming to my apartment lounge, and was fairly compliant throughout the whole interaction.

I think this date went really good, I texted her a nice to see you, had fun text she hasn't responded, she said she was really bad at texting, understood me double texting her, and actually said I should if she doesn't respond, although it's only been a couple hours and her roommate had an accident.

 

[Dark_Stallion]

Also one more tidbit was that she said she really appreciated that I approached her, wishes more guys would approach, says I should approach more women, going to take that as courage to approach women in the daytime, she said I could have simply opened her neo direct(I think ur cute, what's your number) not sure if I 100% believe that, but building a mini connection and rapport can definitely help me, as well as testing for small compliance in a daygame approach.