Cool and safe (and fun) transition that could escalate to more serious sex talk. The hardest part is always around "getting into" the conversation about sex.
I have a variation of this. Truth been told, I used to live next to a lame couple. Guy total chode, living with a cute innocent looking redhead. The guy, based on his vibe despised me (because of the sex noise from my flat - but since they were tenants they could not say or do shit about it) and the girl would give me major signs of interests, especially after a pull where she could hear my girl scream loud.
However when they had sex, which was always around 8-9 pm and VERY short lasting, the girl would make a mellow... ahhhaaAAAhhhAAAAHhh sound. Like weird shit - did not sound like an orgasm.
So i used to tell girl about this couple, being very descriptive about them being lame. I also made sure they had sex between 8-9 (sharp) and that it never lasted more than 10 minutes.
Me: I have this weirdest neighbor ever.... yet they make me laught.
Her: How come?
Me: Well not only do they fuck always somewhere between 8-9 pm.... which is lame because it makes sense kind of a routine.... I mean think about it it, would you like a guy come and tell you (now with a sarcastic voice) "hey baby, it is now 8.30, you know what it is time for! love making yeaaaahhh".
Girls laughs a bit.
Me: it just makes sex into a routine... not just a pure act of uncontrolled lust. I say no to routine sex. Fuck that.
Her: hell yeah!
Me: Cheers!
Her: Cheers!
If we have a drink we cheer.
What did we do already? We introduced the subject of sex. We build some light rapport - especially sexual rapport on being against routine sex, and you communicated that you are not that guy, and that you know it is lame.
So far so good.
Me: but there is one more thing that strikes me.... it only lasts for 10 minutes or less. I could not believe it, and call me weird if you want to, but last night i counted 8 min 34 seconds. That's short. I mean sex feels so good.. at least in my opinion. Why not make it last longer... preferably till you are both destroyed from pleasure (I really like this suggestion of being destroyed from pleasure... just sounds cool).
Her: I agree!
You communicate that you don't want short sex - sexual prizing
You sub-communicate that you may not be a quick cummer - good.
Or that you at least do what you can to not come fast! Which frames you as better than most men already).
PS: I have gambits to sub-communicate that I last forever which I can deliver if needed be (and I can share it if there is some interest)
Me: But it gets even weirder.... like that sound she makes when she "cums" (make the "inverted commas" gesture with your fingers).
Her: How what sounds does she make...
Me: it is weird... it is like.... a prolonged "aaahhahhahahahaHHHaaahahhha".
Her: Haha she is faking
Me: I am pretty sure of it, at least the sound intrigued me because I have never heard such from a woman I have been with before!
Humor, fun, rapport! all good stuff here!
But more importantly is that part of me saying I have never heard such sound before. This sub-communicates that women actually orgasm with me and that I am aware of faking - i.e. not a total retard in bed (and most likely experienced).
But let's get to the REALLY JUICY PART.
Me: I mean to me, they would make rather different sounds (curiosity bait)
Her: What would does be like (intrigued - invested)
Me: I do not know, I feel like it would be more like a overly loud and uncontrolled animistic sounds - sound she would not do in public, nor even be aware of being cable to do, but that's ok! (why not chime in some comfort while you are at it - some non-judgemental frames "it is ok"). It is like a real expression of her inner beast getting out. I feel like whenever women orgasm, they come closer to their nature. They liberated themselves and let go, and let lust and passion take control over their body.... in that... exact.... moment (whoever is into hypnosis can break this down)
Her: yeah....
Me: Now! there are other forms that take place too, which I call the muted form.
Her: Yeah?
Me: Yes, they will basically do the same as above, however they will mute it either by covering their mouth while screaming (demonstrate with your hands) or.... maybe they will bite their wrist or arm.... which I find particularly cute! (demonstrate as well)... and lastly... my favourite one... covering their face with a pillow (demonstrate with an imaginary pillow).
Her: haha so true!
Me: Now which one are you?
Her: -answer-
If she is not willing to answer this, you know you have more compliance work to do. If she does answer, she is either very liberated (good - which allows you for heavier sex talk with little ASD, however FSC is still a thing) or it means she is simply "down to fuck" (either in general, or for you specifically - both good obviously).
Many good things taking place here:
- Sexual prizing - you communicate even further that you have given women strong orgasms (as a result of conveying this through your experiences with how women orgasm)
- You may make her visual having such orgasm with you
- Very likely you will make her think back of the time she had an orgasm (i.e. she will think "ah how did I express my orgasms?"). an anchor may therefore be triggered.
- A bit fun and captivating conversation
- Compliance test.
This is my variation of this. Hope you guys like it.
Best,
