The newbie needs some help

[Dream]

Hey everyone,


I am Very new to the whole idea of going out and approaching new women.
I read the entire criteria of the newbie assignment and it really is going to challenge me.
I am both really excited and nervous for it at the same time.

On one of the sections of the newbie assignment it talks about going up to random girls and blatantly telling them there cute and asking them if they are single. My question is how on earth do you do this with out coming off as a creep. wouldnt a girl find A random stranger they have never met coming up to them and saying that , slightly creepy ?

Thanks guys

 

[HalfGuard]

It really is a matter of how you do it , if you already have tight fundamentals or at least decent ones and you approach her in a really cool , confident way you will come of as that a cool confident man on the other hand if you have poor fundamentals and you seem insecure when you go a give her a compliment you will come up as creepy.
Imagine it yourself if two girls approach you one is the hottest girl on earth with a killer attitude and the other is an ugly girl dressed like a grandma and looking like she is going to die after talking to you and they each tell you that you are handsome , exactly the same compliment , how would you perceive them ? Obviously not in the same way
So first of all you should work in you fundamentals and secondly the objective of the newbie assignment is to get you comfortable with approaching girls , so at first you are likely to come a little creepy but after some times of doing it you will see that you are not going to die , and you will be more confident science and you will have better results in your next approaches , besides remember that they are just random girls , who cares of a girl you might never see again thinks you are creepy
I hope this helps and good luck
-Hg

 

[NarrowJ]

Recommended reading:

* https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-not-be-creepy-guy

* viewtopic.php?f=6&t=411

 

[Dream]

Thanks for the tips guys!

That actaully makes a lot of sense, never thought of it that way

So when you are referring to the fundamentals of this stuff what exactly are you getting at. The walk, the talk, the style or all 3 ?

And Those articles were great an really gave me a better understanding
Thanks again

 

[HalfGuard]

That´s right , those are your fundamentals but there are more than that and they can always be refined , they are :
-posture
-walk
-eye contact
-voice
-movement speed
-social power
-fashion fundamentals
-conversation skills
I would suggets to buy chase´s ebook , there you´ll find them in detail and how you can improve them

 

[Dream]

Oh Okay I understand, I think your right,getting chases Ebook would probably be the best route to go
Thanks again

 

[josephjo]

Hey Dream,

I see that you have this perception that just calling a girl cute or asking a girl if she's single may come off as creepy. That misconception is one made by society because when we think of guys flirting with girls in the daytime all we can think about is the old perverts who hoot and holla at women who need a Viagra just to get an erection. This being so because NO GUYS do any direct approaches in the daytime. 99.9% of guys do not go direct on girls in the daytime therefore the thought of doing this is "weird" or "creepy" because it is an alien idea to us. Let me tell you though, it's not. Women love compliments and men who are straight forward and cuts the bullshit. Every woman I approached in the daytime, even the ones who rejected me, left with a smile because I made their day with a compliment (some actually said "you made my day"). What comes off creepy is the follow up to the compliment whether you are completely awkward or you can't take a rejection and persist too far. When you are first starting, do not worry about this, most likely your problem will be ejecting from a set too early and not coming off as creepy. So go out, be a man and state your intentions with a women and it will be an refreshing breeze for her.

 

[Dream]

That entire thing was really helpful! thanks so much!