The "Passionate" Kiss

[Franco]

Kissing is a hard aspect to write on; there are definitely fundamentals that can be learned to improve your technique, but what really drives women wild is if you know how psychologically get them excited to be kissing you in the first place. This all depends on the mood, the setting, and the build-up to the kiss.

My main reason for writing this is that I would love to contribute a killer method for landing the first kiss and making a girl melt in your arms. I currently have a 100% success rate with this method when applicable (knock on wood), and it really ties in all three of the elements that are listed in Chase's article How to Kiss a Girl Like No One's Ever Kissed Her Before. These three elements are romance, spontaneity, and sexuality. The only drawback to this method is that it is somewhat situational, but I highly suggest everyone here try it if they haven't already. Here it is:

• 1. Get her back to your place and have her "get comfortable" on your couch (or other comfortable two-person seating situation). This shouldn't be too hard to do if you have been following the methods listed on this blog by moving faster with her and getting her alone.
  
  2. Ask her what she would like to drink. This is a key element to setting up this situation. It does not matter what she decides to drink as long as you can pour her something to hold and sip on -- this even includes a glass of water. You'll have a higher success rate of her ending up with a drink if you ask her, "What would you like to drink?" followed by listing the options rather than asking her, "Do you want something to drink?" The first question already assumes that she wants something, and getting a drink for the two of you helps create the sentiment that she will stay for awhile.
  
  3. OPTIONAL: After you hand her the drink, put your arm around her as you sit down. This is not required, but I can't stress enough how much EASIER it is to make a girl feel comfortable if you can get her close to you before you even think about going in for the kiss -- or even sitting down for that matter.
  
  4. The grand finale... follow these steps to the dot. Whether you are watching a movie or just talking, wait for a moment when you both have your drinks in your hand and the mood feels "comfortable" (don't wait too long though... this should be within 5-10 minutes of you sitting down). When you're ready, reach over and set your drink down on the nearest table and, immediately after, reach for her drink and set it on the table. This should be done at a 'relaxed' speed. Don't look rushed, but don't hesitate either. Right after you have set her drink on the table, pull your face up next to hers while simultaneously grabbing her chin softly with your thumb (below her lips) and next two fingers (under her chin), tilt it towards your lips, and watch as her eyes magically begin to shut while you place a romantic, spontaneous, and sexy kiss right on her lips.

The amount of confidence you display by creating the anticipation and suspense of taking the drink out her hand will leave her in a state of excited bewilderment -- which is exactly the way you want her to be before you plant your lips on hers. This method has been extremely effective for me, and it is the kind of kiss that a girl dreams about at night. If you're anything like me, you'll want to be the guy in that dream.

Happy kissin'!

- Franco

 

[Humay]

Thanks for the post Franco. This is great you should consider writing blogs on GC once in a while

 

[ChalupaBatman]

I found this very helpful. May want to sticky this.

 

[Dunking Style]

Great piece! Thanks for sharing Franco

I have a couple of questions though.
"Put your arm around her as you sit down"
Like around her? And do you keep it there?
If so..where should the hand rest?

Thanks in advance!

 

[Franco]

Hey DS,

I have a couple of questions though.
"Put your arm around her as you sit down"
Like around her? And do you keep it there?
If so..where should the hand rest?

Yes, I usually just put my arm around the back of her neck (like something you would see in a teen movie where the kid puts his arm around a girl in the movie theater). But don't put any emphasis on the action -- as a matter of fact, it helps to be talking about something completely unrelated when you do it. It should feel natural. If she snuggles in a bit after she notices you did it, that's a really good sign that she feels very comfortable with you.

As far as the hand, I wouldn't think too much about it. It can rest on her shoulder or on the side of her arm. Make sure your full attention continues to be on her though, not the placement of your hand. =)

- Franco

 

[Marty]

I can't believe what a cool idea this is. So simple to remember, too!

Smart move to link to it in your recent post, Franco Can't wait to try!

 

[PinotNoir]

Love it. I have to try this now!

It's like something out of a movie or from a book.