Hello,
Precedence:
A level of disappointments in the chat because we could not get this chick because she was too shy. Another was drunk and moving, and one was a chaos scene.
Diagnosis: A Story of Zac. Making Peace with Our Disappointments
Recently, i met a group of guys whom i have never met before, for football (soccer). While i was playing the game, and i have not play the game for years, a guy noted to me that "i am playing too much". and i smell a little resentment if not a lot of it as time pass. He feels that i could have been so much more.
Over the years, i have been receiving this variation of comments, online and offline, including members from Girlschase
"Zac, you are playing too much."
"Zac, you are complacent."
"Zac, you didn't pull the trigger."
Now, before i apologize sincerely to anyone who i have hurt, both online and offline. i like to elaborate.
For this football game, i didn't know the place. i didn't know the people. i didn't know the pace of the game they play. i didn't know anything. i also did not have my football shoes halfway thru and had to wear a runners shoe to play the next hour.
I didn't have the brain image.
My subordinate, although he was a regular member there, had an image. 'Potential' of Zac is something better, and greater.
For the girls whom i missed out on and i still missed on them everyday. I didn't know where you stand. I didn't know what you feel about me. I didn't realize that me looking like shit actually means something to you. Actually i kinda know. i always know, even though we were in an office or job interview or you were selling me something and you are smitten. I knew. I just needed to force the image out. i did thru teasing, trolling or to be blunt honest, i coward.
i didn't have the brain image.
My girls, did had an image. 'Potential' of Zac being something better and greater.
Now, what's the lesson here, Zac?
i have seen our members here, getting disappointed by females, because they gave out an image, 'potential'. A potential that she and you can get together, and that you are disappointed.
It is important to understand that while she may give image 'potential', she does not realize that she is giving that signal (image).
1)She has to recognize the image she is sending
2)She must be able to see how to get there (the next one)
Example:
You can use any freshnfit video on why Men don't like their women to go to clubs, and see the girls reaction. The girls personally do not realize that they are giving that signal (image) to other man that they want to get pounded, even if they do not.
But what's in it for you?
Often times, you yourself do not realize that you too are giving out signals (image) that makes girls smitten. To you, You are having a bad day. You dressed terribly. But she doesn't see it that way. So, You don't have the brain image. You also cannot jump from the image because you don't know what image you are standing on.
She only sees your image as 'the guy'.
So... Try to reference this post from time to time, realize that girls give out 'image' that looks 'potential' (to something tangible aka sex), and they may actually not want sex.
Also, she needed to see how she can move from her current image to the next one.
Credits to Chase, for this video
p.s: i sincerely apologize if I ever gave image 'potential' by accident or not. If you realize after reading this post, sometimes the equipment (football shoes) isn't there. Sometimes you have a bad day. Sometimes the situation doesn't help.
this is the tragic story of Men and Women. Two brain images always bypass each other.
z@c+
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