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It takes me some time here, to finish this up, still doing though.
I find it very funny with girls. On one hand, there is this "PUA is wrong", "Are you picking up girls, and how do i know?" "You cheating!!!" and then on the other hand this girls want every man to be that uber sexy, dominant, warmth, rich, fill with social circles, hobbies and most of all, himself.
Basically, Girls more or less, operate from a "contrast system". She needs to think you a fucker and She needs to think you God or Prince Charming or any angel from above, some authority figure. That's just how women are. How do Feminist operate? They operate the same way. They got hurt, which probably can be right or wrong from the guy's part. They carry that burden, they make a political barrage and make that "men are bad" and all guys dicks should be chop off. More or less here, it is still operating from a "contrast system".
So Women operate from a "contrast system" on any subject. She's on either extremes, and Women also want a "finished product". That illusion-nary guy who is complete.
It's funny when a guy like Ashley Cole (as example) cheats on Cheryl Cole, and most guys (often whiteknights) will say "he is stupid" and "he is such a loser". The thing is, nobody knows if Cole is bored with her. It is the same thing with women, whom today, half of them flakes a lot and also half of them cheat on their boyfriend and husbands. They want that popular guy or some cool guy who plays a guitar and had a few girls with him because he happens to!
How society works is that they want you to be successful and then they don't like you. Like women, they want you to be "this and that", and then they get bored, they cheat or they got cheated. After that, Religion superiority and Moral Superiority starts coming out of nowhere. You might also wonder where did those things come out from. It's not related at all, and it wasn't brought up until shit happens. One must wonder why.
So how do you even solve such things? Do you even quarrel with women over this? The answer is no. Because you not here to solve anybody's this problem until he or she needs to realize what their obstacle is". and yea you rewarding "bad" behaviour, too.
Women needs to realize that it is important for them to get even pay.
Women needs to realize that it is important for them to get chances equally.
Women needs to realize that the argument to ask men to give birth before entering National service or conscription and using gender in business has gone wrong. It is not related. People are realizing this, It's the same thing with religion and how it's used as political gain. Don't involve irrelevant things!
I see a society (individuals) in the upcoming future where men have to drag women to hell and show them this is not going anywhere. In a sense, most women will like because it is contrasting to be drag to "hell" and then back to earth. IT is lust afterall. But it will be a waste of time for men and women to entangle in what i see is utilizing personal view as a gain rather than settle it in an amicably manner. Because all i see is that everything is personal and not rather the economic or productivity of a city or a country.
Until women realize they are chasing after something that is illusion-nary, (even many guys too unfortunately. Chasing girls who are supposed to be perfect, in a sense) that is looking for a guy who is "complete" and they operating from a "contrast system" and that men is operating from their personal view, too, that is not giving women equal opportunity to achieve what they want to achieve, and women are lack, and supposed to stay at home.
Until then, we still have this, Because Women thinks everything is "Sex and the City" roller coasters, drama, and Men thinks Women are not equal in terms of political and money opportunities, seeing them as "maids" and housework and all that domestication chores is an absolute must for women. (although if women do not do major parts of domestication, i don't prefer her personally, that is if i am married.)
Every women and men have the right to be offered equal opportunity, but i guess selfishness. We all personally want to be "somebody" even if it means putting your views that is not relevant in the system (school, laws, religion, organizations, philanthropy, yada yada....)
Zac