It just worked.
That was, until about 3 years ago. What changed? Maybe it was just me. Maybe I just got older. Maybe it was any number of other things. But at the end of the day, I now come back to drawing board, seemingly back to square zero, asking the same question I asked a decade ago, when my lay count was less than three:
"How do I get a freaking date with a cute girl, get her to like me, have sex with me, and date me?"
And now, nothing seems to work
It doesn't help that I look around and suddenly half the women I see are married or single mothers. I'm constantly asking myself, "Did I miss the boat?" And I'm feeling more and more pressure to just bite the bullet and lock down something lest I wind up alone for the next 30 years.
.I feel like I need another paradigm shift. Another eye-opening revelation like the one this site first offered. Maybe I'm in the failing minority, and my position isn't relevant to the bigger picture. But I doubt it.
This is Zac. I am still here (2009. Reading articles). This child saw the world change in 3 times.
And he is not even 35 years old.
Biting the bullet you may.
Let me shed some light.
Your issue here isn't only pickup but aligning everything that is in your life
. And it just so happens that you are shedding pickup from your life, because it is no longer something that can be incorporated in your life.
But you believe in Girlschase. It had something. Something different from other pickup companies. You believe it had things that transcends beyond pickup.
Now.. You cannot blame Girlschase for this. Nor i don't think that you plan to blame it. Hell, i did even blame Girlschase. Because i expect it to be my dad per se. Because it had something more.
We, Humanity, in my opinion are just in a limbo position, stuck between what has always work (traditionalism), that is now broken, and the idea of liberalism, what's next.
Ask me for an example. It is everywhere.
- First world females and blatant hypocrisy
- Muslims needing to convince Christians that Islam is the true religion
And so on. Too many.
The next phase of humanity will be very crucial. I need Chase and Girlschase, to keep pumping his knowledge, because he doesn't realize it that this small nuance that he knows, is what builds the bridges of society in the next phase of humanity.
At least this is what i believe. I am writing this post. This is what i have seen. It is undeniable. The patterns are too 'in my face'. But this is a pickup forum.
I can't help you beyond pickup because this is not just a pickup issue. And that this is actually your whole life. Our whole life. And that asking someone else to write down your life, is just unfair.
But this is where humanity, is.
If the universe permits/Insyaallah/God willing.. my platform will be up and running well late this year, where i also help people address this questions. It be like a complement to Girlschase, a counter balance, yet its own platform of content.
Man is only Human. Men is also an Ideal.
z@c+ (Quran 2:30)