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Cro-Magnon Man
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To elaborate on the title which, I know for a fact, caught your attention ;) : if she is very into you, you don't have to play any game with her. You do you, and she does her.

That's what happened when my fellow student, Juliet, finally got on a date with me.

Quick note: I had at first decided to not post this lay as everything happened so naturally, and I didn't really learn anything besides "have a good time". I decided to post it nonetheless. Maybe it can be some sort of inspiration anyway.

Background
Met her Spring last year at some class where I complimented her on her beuatiful smile. We also shared some classes in Autumn where we didn't talk that much, but it was clear to me that something was possible. I just didn't move things forward. We matched on Tinder, also in Autumn, and I decided to give it another shot. She grabbed my number (bad move, she took a week to text me). We were supposed to meet for coffee, but I got sick and told her we had to postpone. Once I was back on my game, she didn't respond to my text asking for a new date

She got back to me a few weeks ago, and due to our busy schedules we managed to set up a lunch date last Monday. The restaurant was 10 minutes away from my place with bus, and I had planed to pull her the same day.

The date
- So we both met at the exact time we agreed upon.
- We talked and ordered our food.
- During the whole time we switched between serious talk and teasing each other. We probably did 50 % of the talking each.
- At one point she jokingly threatened to leave me, to which I answered "Feel free ;)". She acted "offended" in that cute and silly way #girls :)
- We deep dived each other about our university choices and childhoods. She was curious about my history with my martial art in particular. I shared the most important parts.
- She framed me as the impressive guy, and herself as the one who had to impress me.
- I am used to explain myself, but she said to me I didn't owe her any explanation at all when I did it.
- Not much touching happen, but it did happen a little
- At one point, she told me I could just leave anytime because she had nothing else to do the whole day. Replied that I was going to get some tea afterwards anyway, and that I knew the best place, only 10 minutes away with bus. She said she was down
- When we decided to get out of there, almost 3 hours had passed. We hadn't even eaten up
- She paid

Getting to my place
We didn't make it to the bus I had in mind, and the next would arrive in 20 minutes. I decided to take another bus to a store with luxury chocolate to not let the pace die down. From the store we could take yet another bus to my place. She just followed my lead with a girly-offended comment: "It's not like I have a choice!" (I know, my dear :)) I paid for busses and chocolate.

Back at my place
- I showed her around, and she immediately noticed my cups from previous tournaments I attended. I told her the story about each one before making some tea.
- I put on some music from my sexy playlist, and we sat on my bed drinking tea and eating chocolate.
- After ingesting them, I put my hand on her neck and wave my hand up and down her gorgeous hair - I told her it was gorgeous and so soft. She told me to not stop. I mean, how could I make myself stop?
- While talking she slowly reciprocrated my touches... with her shoulder and hip.
- She told me I was hard to impress, like my standards were beyond the universe. I sensed I had to up my attainability a little, and qualified her on something that didn't really matter. She was glad she finally managed to impress me.
- At one point I just put the right side of my face next to the left side of her face and just keep it there for like 10-15 seconds. When I separated our faces, we said one sentence each before she gave me "I Want You"-eyes. Our lips met halfway a second later.

Escalating to sex
The kisses were intense. I couldn't get enough of it. I had had a good time with her so far and didn't see any need to have sex with her. But I wanted her. I don't remember when I last had this kind of wanting another person.

I took her shirt off. Shortly after, this conversation happened:

Her: I really, really want you, but I just can't tonight
Me: *continue kissing her for a minute or so*
Her: Seriously, I can't, but I really want to
Me: What's the matter?
Her: Well.. it's "that time"
Me: Yeah?
Her: Yeah..
Me: .. So what? *said with a smile and in tonality which says "it doesn't really matter"*
Her: .. wow, for real? *she needed a second to digest what I just said* you're so cool

And we escalated further. When all our clothes were off, I asked her if she had done anything like it (she had), and if she wanted to hit the showers instead (she wanted to). We got some towels and condoms and entered the shower. We warmed up again in the shower, this time more intense as we both knew we wanted each other and didn't want to waste any more time. I took her from behind while spanking her ass and pulling her hair for some time. I eventually lost my hard on and pulled it out to just make out with her. She asked if I was going to get my condom off, I said no. I wanted to turn her more on. Now she kept saying stuff like "you're so hot/attractive", and I just said "You're the sexy one here". Ready for round 2. From behind again until I couldn't more. I took my condom off.

Her: What do you want me to do now?
Me: Get on your knees

She gave me head. Later when I'm close to cum

Her: Where do you want to cum?
Me: On your chest

And I shot my biggest load I could ever remember right there. She blowed me one last time after I had cum to make me completely relaxed. Can't remember the last time I was this relaxed.

Post-coital
We got back to my room, and the music was still running. We half-ass cuddled while changing to some new songs and made an insider-joke about one of them. When time was up, I followed her to the bus stop and waited 5 minutes with her until her bus showed up. We agreed to meet again very soon once she returned from visiting family :)

After thoughts
- Nothing much to say honestly. Setting up this date took a long time, but it was worth it.
- The date itself took too long, almost 3 hours. But again, it was worth it. I had only plans in the evening, so lunch was not a bad idea.
- I only talked about things I wanted to talk about, and things I didn't want to talk about, I either changed topic or told her "not something I'd like to share right now" and moved on
- Instead of waiting for the bus in 20 minutes, I managed to find a way to not let the flow die.
- It was first when we began to have sex I understood how much she is attracted to me. She had already given me clues during the date (the way she framed me and herself).
- She simply followed my leadership and was also focusing on my pleasure during the sex.

Besides the date and lay it self, I love to see how my mindset has changed for the better. Thanks to GC, I am beginning to become the most attractive version of myself person-wise. I am more positive, open-minded, carefree, more hard-working in general etc. I feel like I am also giving more social value to people whom I think deserve it.

Feedback is welcome! And thanks for reading :)
 

Hue

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Sounds like you've internalized a lot of what's taught on GC, solid job man!

Hueman
 

Mystique

Cro-Magnon Man
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Hey a-jay,

Good thing you posted this lay report. You started by saying you just did what came naturally to you, but as I kept on reading I saw a guy using some well applied techniques. This means you've internalised a lot of the things thought in GC and so it came out naturally and there was just a strong mutual connection so too much calculating or techniques were not required. Chase once said that the most fulfilling lays for him are the ones where either the girl was really attracted to him from the beginning or one where she was not attracted at all and he still slept with her. Yours is the former. Do you plan on seeing her more often?
 
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Lover

Cro-Magnon Man
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Hey guys, you're right on the technical side of things. A lot of what I did, I would not have done if I didn't look for sites like GC. I would probably not even be aware that some women wanted fast sex besides one night stands. But like 6-7 years ago when I was 17, I had the mindset of a lover because I had passions in life. I was so distracted by them that I rarely saw girls as important in my life. When I did talk to a girl, a lot of teasing, flirting and touching were going on per instinct, and I wasn't trying to impress them. I lost my passions later and let my masculine self be tamed by my surroundings. Suddenly talking to people in general was a very hard deal for me. Girls seem harder to get anywhere with. I had become a nice guy with no passion in life.

Now that I'm slowly finding the suppressed lover inside me and bringing him out in the open, AND with my understanding of female psychology in the mating game, I simply don't see what I do to get a girl to bed as " well applied techniques". And that's where you, Mystique, is absolutely right; not much calculation was going on. I was simply adapting to the girl's level of energy and comfort while being my best self. Maybe that is a technique by itself? Or maybe I'm fooling myself, not sure which :)

@Mystique, as for her seeing her again: yes, I texted her just before writing this post, asking for a new meetup. My plan is to see if she's right as a future gf. I'm in doubt at this point, so I'll keep dating her and see how it turns out.
 

Mystique

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a-jay wrote:Hey guys, you're right on the technical side of things.
A lot of what I did, I would not have done if I didn't
look for sites like GC. I would probably not even be
aware that some women wanted fast sex besides one
night stands. But like 6-7 years ago when I was 17, I
had the mindset of a lover because I had passions in
life. I was so distracted by them that I rarely saw girls
as important in my life. When I did talk to a girl, a lot
of teasing, flirting and touching were going on per
instinct , and I wasn't trying to impress them. I lost my
passions later and let my masculine self be tamed by
my surroundings. Suddenly talking to people in
general was a very hard deal for me. Girls seem
harder to get anywhere with. I had become a nice guy
with no passion in life.
Now that I'm slowly finding the suppressed lover
inside me and bringing him out in the open, AND with
my understanding of female psychology in the mating
game, I simply don't see what I do to get a girl to bed
as " well applied techniques". And that's where you,
Mystique, is absolutely right; not much calculation was
going on. I was simply adapting to the girl's level of
energy and comfort while being my best self. Maybe
that is a technique by itself? Or maybe I'm fooling
myself, not sure which :)
@Mystique, as for her seeing her again: yes, I texted
her just before writing this post, asking for a new
meetup. My plan is to see if she's right as a future gf.
I'm in doubt at this point, so I'll keep dating her and
see how it turns out.
Awesome stuff man, I totally understand you. Keep on grindin'.
 
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