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Hey Guys!
I went out last night with the possible end goal of getting a number, but doing so as quickly as I could manage to flex my pickup muscles a bit and test how much I've improved the past semester. So here's how that went:
Thursdays in a college town. AYCD night. Anatman and I head out to the local bar that we frequent. it is wall to wall PACKED. we suffer through the seemingly never ending line to get drinks, make conversation with those we know in the process and then quickly become immersed in a game of doubles pool with one of the employees who works there and his friend (both male). Midway through the game I spot this group of girls at the head of the table. they are making chatter amongst themselves and looking around. I happen to catch one of them as they are looking our way out of my peripheral so I turn and meet her gaze, hold it for a second, smile, very quickly give her body the once over, and then turn back to the game as if nothing had just happened. She's cute, girl next door cute this night anyway. I wait until I have a turn where the cue ball is at the head of the table and seize my opportunity. I lean over to one of the guys playing on the other team. He has been commenting on Anatman and his partner multiple times as they both get distracted during this game with social endeavors, at one point even at the same time. I lean toward him and say and say:
I walk over, her back is turned away from me in her circle. I lightly touch her on the hip, enough as if I was going to move past her but don't and lean around enough to be able to see most of the group and say
She reaches to take the cue, but I pull back.
I hand her the cue, and of course she misses. As soon as she does, I let her know it, and bring the rest of her circle back in.
Time to swicth topics for a bit and give the friends something to do
She pulls out her phone explaining it might be dead. There's a cord attached to it, I comment on this, she shows me some backup charger she has in her purse which the phone is plugged into. I ask to see it and she pulls it out. I hit the home button on her phone real quick and it turns on. So, not dead. lol. I say wow that's pretty slick and hand it back.
I extend my hand out and I exchange pleasantries with the rest of the friend group, and then tell them it was nice to meet them and go back to playing the game as they walk away to refill their drinks. My hope in this last minute bit was to gain friend approval and show a bit of good guy standards, since I made her take my number in front of them (because girls doing this kind of stuff in front of their friends always seems to be a thing, always worried about what the friends will think or say). her text read as "Alyssa Lastname, Best pool player ever!"
I texted her today with: Hey Alyssa! It was great to meet you last night and talk pool. I'll be out of town this weekend but we should play a couple games next week or weekend and relax a bit before finals.
I'll post updates when I get them!
- The Marksman
I went out last night with the possible end goal of getting a number, but doing so as quickly as I could manage to flex my pickup muscles a bit and test how much I've improved the past semester. So here's how that went:
Thursdays in a college town. AYCD night. Anatman and I head out to the local bar that we frequent. it is wall to wall PACKED. we suffer through the seemingly never ending line to get drinks, make conversation with those we know in the process and then quickly become immersed in a game of doubles pool with one of the employees who works there and his friend (both male). Midway through the game I spot this group of girls at the head of the table. they are making chatter amongst themselves and looking around. I happen to catch one of them as they are looking our way out of my peripheral so I turn and meet her gaze, hold it for a second, smile, very quickly give her body the once over, and then turn back to the game as if nothing had just happened. She's cute, girl next door cute this night anyway. I wait until I have a turn where the cue ball is at the head of the table and seize my opportunity. I lean over to one of the guys playing on the other team. He has been commenting on Anatman and his partner multiple times as they both get distracted during this game with social endeavors, at one point even at the same time. I lean toward him and say and say:
Me: You feeling young tonight? (he already told me he's about 30)
Him: yeah why?
Me: Want to do something spontaneous?
Him: I suppose? ha why?
Me: Follow me, come in when I bring you in, and follow my lead.
Him: Ha alright
I walk over, her back is turned away from me in her circle. I lightly touch her on the hip, enough as if I was going to move past her but don't and lean around enough to be able to see most of the group and say
Me: I don't mean to interrupt, but I need to be exactly where you all happen to be standing (coy smile), do you mind if I move you all for a brief second so I can shoot? You can have this part of the room back when I'm done haha.
Alyssa (the girl I had decided to open from the beginning): Haha as long as you don't mess up.
Me: hahaha well luckily I won't because you're going to make the shot for me
Alyssa: Are you serious?! haha
Me: (handing her the cue) Do look like I'm kidding? (another coy smile)
She reaches to take the cue, but I pull back.
Me: Whoa actually hold on, how good are you?
Alyssa: I'm pretty good actually
Me: So I should trust you? You're not gonna disappoint me are you?
Alyssa: hahaha no! You can trust me.
I hand her the cue, and of course she misses. As soon as she does, I let her know it, and bring the rest of her circle back in.
Me: WOOOOOOOWWWWWWW are you for real? I trusted you hahaha
Alyssa: It's not my fault! I've been drinking hahahahaha ( at this point she runs her hand down my arm while making the apology, when she hits my hand, I hold hers).
Me: (turning to her friends) Can you believe this girl?
Friend 1: What? haha
Me: Ok she's not paying attention haha what about you? Can you believe I trusted her with this game? It's probably not her because she didn't know we had money on it. (at this point I let go of her hand, I only wanted her friends to see my intentions so they knew I wouldn't be hitting on all of them and they would be much more apt to let me have a discussion with all of them, and by letting go, my hope was to show them that I can draw bounds and not push things)
Friend 1: Heyyy! hahaha mean
Alyssa: I told him I've been drinking! haha
Friend 2: Hahaha she did warn you.
Me: That's fair I suppose, even though she told me she had been drinking AFTER the fact haha.
Time to swicth topics for a bit and give the friends something to do
Me: Oh excuse me I've been rude, have you all met Jake? (I signal to him and he joins, they all shake hands and exchange names, while they do this and as he makes small talk I seize my moment)
Me: You'll have to make this game up to me since I just lost a bet on it haha.
Alyssa: Oh really?
Me: Really, take my number, I'll text you the next time I'm here and we'll play a few games when you haven't been drinking enough to mess up your game haha
She pulls out her phone explaining it might be dead. There's a cord attached to it, I comment on this, she shows me some backup charger she has in her purse which the phone is plugged into. I ask to see it and she pulls it out. I hit the home button on her phone real quick and it turns on. So, not dead. lol. I say wow that's pretty slick and hand it back.
Me: 314
Alyssa: What? lol
Me: That's my area code lol
Alyssa: Oh yeah right haha You should take my number why am I taking yours?
Me: because my phone is in my pocket, yours is in your hand, and this isn't about you hahaha
Alyssa: hahahaha fineeee (she says this coyly and very full of smiles while giving eyes)
Me: Shoot me your last name and we can set something up this week, sound good?
Alyssa: Sure!
Me: By the way I didn't get the rest of your names!
I extend my hand out and I exchange pleasantries with the rest of the friend group, and then tell them it was nice to meet them and go back to playing the game as they walk away to refill their drinks. My hope in this last minute bit was to gain friend approval and show a bit of good guy standards, since I made her take my number in front of them (because girls doing this kind of stuff in front of their friends always seems to be a thing, always worried about what the friends will think or say). her text read as "Alyssa Lastname, Best pool player ever!"
I texted her today with: Hey Alyssa! It was great to meet you last night and talk pool. I'll be out of town this weekend but we should play a couple games next week or weekend and relax a bit before finals.
I'll post updates when I get them!
- The Marksman