"The Small Town Dynamic Theory" and if it affects you.

[Talmadge]

Hey guys, hope it's going well!

So today I wanted to hear from everyone, on what they think about this thing I call "The Small Town Dynamic Theory". Fancy right? It really isn't. You see, I grew up in a small town of approximately 8000+ people, so with that came stiff competition. I was by no means a natural, and I was even an extremely late bloomer to the dating game throughout High School. This website turned things around for me in miraculous ways that I could give you a list for (but you're not here for that). Anyways, when transistioning from a small community to a college city, I realized sheer numbers were a big part of dating.

Keep in mind, by the last 2 years, I had practically transformed my appearance and improved my fundamentals. I began to notice the difference I had with women in this town who I had no connections with at first. In a smaller city, where everyone knew each other, a lot of my dating was through Social Circles, and it was TOUGH due to factors like: reuptation, backgrounds, social status (A trait highly valued there), etc...

When I moved, it was like a clean slate to establish myself as whatever kind of person I wanted people to see me as. And that proved to be powerful. I want to ask you guys if you all have had any similar experiences and noticed that moving to a bigger town (or a different one for that matter) have had positive changes to your game.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Went through a similar thing here. Grew up in a smaller city in Kansas (small town by some measures) which had a very clannish mentality among the people. Was an outcast most of high school and lost virginity by nailing some emo chick with a very wild side to her. Ended up not getting much action outside of that and went off to college. College was also in a pretty small town so if you didn't establish yourself on campus as the big man you struggled, plus I had to invest a lot of time in my academics. Ended up struggling for most of college.

Moved to a big city after graduation, developed a don't give a fuck type of mentality and attitude, had sex with around 15 different women and got into some relationships. Visited my old town to see family and see how classmates are doing. My status has gone through the roof there but hot girls are hard to find so I don't really give a shit. Had one girl from my high school class who was above average looking but works as a bar maid hitting on me, same girl that used to laugh at me when I was a teenager.

What I have found through my experience is that even though it limits you by stopping you from being a natural, you develop more of a motivation to do well in other places.