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Space Monkey
space monkey
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Anyone tried it?

To plan a full date-night, and ask to meet beforehand for a informational meet. I'm in a scenario where I was, by pure chance, wing-manned into meeting a cute girl who lives very close-by. Her friend introduced me as "what she was looking for" and we went from there.

Fast forward since then, we've texted preliminary plans. She's given me her schedule. Since I'm a little rusty and she's more reserved, I've decided an informational date would be best. But for now:

Should I schedule the date to just be informational, seated outside our house, then arrange the next - or schedule it as a proper drinks date - and message her before for an informational meet?

It might seem a small difference, but I'm challenging myself to make dating feel less planned/ fun for the girls I meet. For first dates, not seen a lot about switching up the order like this. Worth it?
 

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Cro-Magnon Man
Cro-Magnon Man
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Grab a coffee and walk around a park/ open space/ riverside/lakeside. 30-45 minutes tops. Main goal is to see if she is worth a longer evening date. It is to build comfort, and it makes the second date easier to have at your place.
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake
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