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Lex

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Got a few question ?

Thx you smith for the article it helped me
Lex

but i got a few question ?

Sometime i approach a girl we'll talk a little bit I will ask what she doing at the mall and she'll say that she is just waiting for some friends ill continue to talk try to get her number or not ( mostly not at my level ) ill continue to walk in the mall to find other girl to approach but ill see the girl i approach from away minute later who actually by her own with no friends My question: If a girl say this excuse do you text her after that or it is just a waste of time ?

How do you push the interaction ? Many time ill approach a girl shell respond warmly than ill say she seem like in a rush? she'll say that yes shes in a rush or that she have to meet some friends and ill just say ok have a good time and eject

To all player outside
Lex
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers

Lex

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First Time to the club...Wow

So me and my friends decide to go to a club cuz we knew one girl who could put us on gest list .So we are there fisrt time i see that many girl dressed up with fine ass!!!So we are in there and...AA came like a tornedo and hit the tree of us...we stay there for an akward 30 minutes without talking to anyone...Sad!!! i try to dance behind girl but is was SO AKWARD!!!. We went to another part of the club where there is latino music...SO MANY CHICS OMG...girl with fat ass my weakness =). I decide to be a man and take my ball SO i see a girl sithing by herself I sit down and ask her if she wanted to dance she said no thx you with a smile ask her another girl if she wanted to dance she said she was with her boyfriends (who was actually behind me OUPS)she give me a kiss on the cheek ( IDK why??)gave me a hug and we split...OUCH!!! no just kidding ive seen worst in day game the vibe was off but you have to be prepared this is how we play the game So i did one last one approach and it was the good one : good looking babe with amazing tities and a more amazing ass saw her a few time she looked at me some time so i see she is dancing with her friends ( ya i know kinda pussy of myself...) i wait...she's finished ask her if she want to dance she say u dance? im like ya for sure took her hand go to the dance floor and we wine...THIS MOMENT MADE ME BELIEVE THAT EVERYTHING ON THIS SITE IS POSSIBLE...My head was on her rack its was so amazing...my hands was in her ass it felt so good we wine for 10 minutes it was 10 minutes in heaven but like anything in life it always come to an end..I ask her her name ( I cant believe taht im dancing with a fine bitch like that without even knowing her name it felt so good)she give it to me but the smell of her breath was so disgusting!!! she talk to me sometime but i couldnt understand what she say(music too loud) after 10 minutes in heaven my angel with bad breath went to smoke i left her my friends came to me and we leave the club.

My Tought

-BODY LANGUAGE IS THE KEY MY FRIENDS...it is the only think that matter your body need to talk for you and MOVE FAST...i finally understand
- GET MY FUCKING FUNDAMENTALS IN CHECK
- I LOVE THIS...BUT the competion is high many douchebags!!!
-BE fUCKING A MAN AND BE AGGRESSIVE
- dont say do you want to dance just grab her fucking arm and say let go dance
- I WANT TO HAVE A MAKOUT SESSION

Could i get some advice im going friday again with more friends could i get a guide or a link to someting ?

Go get'em
Lex
 

Smith

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Sometime i approach a girl we'll talk a little bit I will ask what she doing at the mall and she'll say that she is just waiting for some friends ill continue to talk try to get her number or not ( mostly not at my level ) ill continue to walk in the mall to find other girl to approach but ill see the girl i approach from away minute later who actually by her own with no friends My question: If a girl say this excuse do you text her after that or it is just a waste of time ?
Sometimes, girls shop separately then they meet up lol so her friends might be lurking around.

How do you push the interaction ? Many time ill approach a girl shell respond warmly than ill say she seem like in a rush? she'll say that yes shes in a rush or that she have to meet some friends and ill just say ok have a good time and eject

Is she still walking away after you opened her? If yes, then she's genuinely in a rush, then there's nothing you can do really. You can walk with her then ask for her number in the end.
If she stayed after you opened, then asking her if she's in a rush is just shooting yourself in the foot lol I've done this before, but I stopped doing it. Just put yourself in her shoes, if a stranger asked you if you're in a rush, then you would most likely say yes to avoid having a possible awkward conversation with him. (unless she's attracted to you already of course)
 

Lex

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thx you very much Smith always glad to se when you respond to one of my post so thx you friend
Lex

I think that I was just overthinking and i should like chase said I should always assume attraction

Lex
 

Lex

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First Street Approach...finally did it

today was my first street approach...It didnt go super well i just approach her she was scared when i pre-approach her...after i try to use the warm smile whil delivering my opener it did work because she was at smiling with all her teeth...but tell me she had a boyrfriends i say no problem and let her go...Not my most impressive approach but still glad to have did one

How do you keep a good vibe when you face many rejection in a row ?

Lex
 

Lex

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Depressed

today did one appraoch the girl respond warmly to my direct approach but i did the same mistake again i said she seem like in a rush and she said yes... i let her go eventought i think i could have take her number...i feel depressive...dont know why...i know that to learn game you have to work hard but some time... i feel like it is out of reach...and it scared me...Im not at piece with myself now... i dont know for you but...i got some self-image problem...people will five me compliments say that i look good and buff...but idk when i go out i watch myself and feel dissapointed with who i am... Ive made a lot of progress..but i feel like im missing so much thing about myself...I walk around and ill see girl who will give me eye contact but... i never had girl who will look at me and smile or anything like that before i got talk to them...when i approach girl they smile and laugh...Maybe i need to get a very very warm edge... to tone down my intimading physique...when i enter a place i got notice because im tall and imposing...black girl will give plenty of eye contact but they are not the kind of girl im attracted...white girl it depend...some will give eye contact some will be shy and some will not...maybe im not aware of girl watching me out cuz one time i was with my mom on a bus and there was a girl sitting in front of me... my mom tell me after we got out of the bus that the girl was checking me out hard but i could have swear that the girl didnt to watch me... dont know maybe it just me...

Trying to find my way
Lex
 

Lex

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Second night out

saturday went out with my friends to the club...the beginning of the evening wasnt fun the bouncer of the first club we went didnt want us to enter the club because it was to late and because there was too many guy. So we bounce to an other club is it is awful there is like one girl for 12 guy we stay a little bit the music the music is good then we bounce to an other club and this is where to night begun. The club is packed with pretty girl...I didnt went out with the intention of getting laid i wanted to have a great time.So im there and ordering drink with my buddies when i feel a girl rubbing her ass on back like she didnt know i was ( yeah sure...) turn myself say : love your outfit lets go dance. we dance it is fun we hold hand has we dance was pretty good. we part away i see my friends we sing to the music and dance just having a good time with the boys...then i search the club for another girl with who ill like to dance. 3 girl reject me be only because my opening was weak... as the night go im getting pretty drunk it is really funny i never drink usually... i see another girl say the exact same line she say yeah ok we dance but the music is not the best to dance we dance but id dont the feel the sexual tension that i usually have when i dance...i some point the music change to some latin music the girl ask me with a smile if I know how to dance bachatta i say show me and ill follow you but im so drunk that i cant fellow her movement it is 3AM so the club closed . As we are outside a decide to make my first night street appraoch and it doesnt go well but im drunk...I tap her on the shoulder from the front side and she doesnt even respond...so i say fuck it...i take my friends and we go back to our place.

Few question

How to makeout with a girl on the dancefloor? i know chase dont recommend it but i really want it
How can u make any conversation went you have to scream to be understand?
When a girl is dancing by your side pretty hard is it an appraoch invitation ? or just girl having fun
 

Lex

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Approach at the mall

today went out with my wingman to approach some girl it was a great day i lack persistance but ill write the 3 most important interaction i had.

1.Cute french girl with a fat ass
So this was my first appraoch of the day pretty short but it was a warmed up i guess

Me: i saw you walking by and tough u were cute and i had to come talk to you my name is Lex? ( i have a smile)( hand shake )
her: thx you (she had a big smile on her face) ( she shake my hand)
Me: so tell me what bring you to the mall today ?
her:ahah well im just here to get a plan for a new cellphone
me: oh well im not going to keep you longer ( i touch on the arm as i said that )(why the fuck did i said this she was so receptive OMG i hate myself)
her: it was a pleasure meeting you
Me: same here

I dont know why i did this she was so warm honestly even if im a newbie i think that i could have take her to an insta-date...oh god... i realize i that i talk way to fast when i open

2.cute latina girl
ok this interaction was pretty short to but her body language was a little bit disturbing

Me: i saw you walking by and tough u were cute and i had to come talk to you my name is Lex? ( i have a smile)( hand shake )
her: thx you (she had a big smile on her face) ( she shake my hand)
Me: you have a tan of what nationality are you ?
her: aha im from Peru
Me : oh well thx you ill let go
her: oh ok nice to meet you

ok i fucked up hard idk why i just froze...danm it like for real it get on my nerve
for her body language well...she had an open mouth smile (the kind of one where you see her teeth) but at the same time her leg were crossed in front of her but her chest and face was facing me...so when you appraoch a girl from the side i do you do to bring them to face directly or it is something that shell do by her own when she feel comfortable.

3.Italian girl with a fat ass
OMG THAT GIRL GOT DAT ASS ahahaha this is my longest interaction but it wasnt smooth cuz the girl only speak english and well...english is the language im the most comfortable with it goes like that

Me: i saw you walking by and tough u were cute and i had to come talk to you my name is Lex? ( i have a smile)( hand shake )
her: srry my french isnt good
Me:i repeat myself in english
her:thx you (she had a big smile on her face) ( she shake my hand)
Me:so tell me what are you doing at the mall?
her: oh i just finish working
me: you worked in the mall ?
her: no i work in a day care( i didnt here what she said...)
Me: what is that ?a clothe store?
her :no i day care...are u from here ?
me: OH A DAY CARE!! with children...i tought you worked in a clothe store called day care... ahaha im so stupid...( why did i said that im stupid?? IDK and i dont care )
her: yess exaclty ahaha u are not stupid
Me: so that why you look so tired
her:aahaah
Me: its gonna sound random but you have an amazing smile
Her: thx you with wide open mouth
me: tell me how many children are you in charge?
her: uhh in my class i have...blablablbabla
me: i really dont know how you do cuz i have a little brothers and a little sister even if they are family it is pretty hard (deliver with a smile )
her:ahaha someday it can be pretty hard
Me: Why did you choose to become that ?
her: Well blablablabla...
me: ah okk that great you want children ?
her:ahah everybody asked me that umm... i want kid but not now i dont feel ready
Me: well i leave my friends to came to talk ahah but id really liked to talk to you again i could take your number ?
her: i have a boyfriends...im srry
Me: oh well its okay i still gave you the compliments ahaha nice to meet you

OK her body language was weird..IDK how to explain it but she was putting her weight foward and backward like when your kid and your parents say dont move but you just to go away so like your weight on differents leg...during this conversation there was some awkward pause...i went blank sometime maybe 2 time during the convo

To all player out there what are your tough and advice? what do have i have to changed?
Lex
 
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