What’s up guys.
It’s been an uneventful month for me due to being sick on and off. Last night was the first time I went out in like 3 weeks. Anyways, I went out with my friends to a popular college bar that is right in our area, within walking distance. I personally don’t like this bar but my new group of friends that I hang out with love the place, so I have been trying to make the best of it for quick easy lays since my apartment is close. Also, the one kid is decent with girls and we all pretty much want to meet and get laid so it keeps the agenda straight forward for the night. And let me tell you, I was really trying to get laid this night.
A little back story before I talk about the night at the bar. I planned a date with this girl off tinder that was supposed to be this coming Monday. I remember her saying that she was going to be going out Saturday night for her friends going away party (moving to another state). Well what do you know… It ends up being the bar we go to that night.
We post up at the dartboard in the back of the bar, and right in the corner I notice a group of people, and within the group… it’s the girl I’m supposed to see on Monday! I try not to make eye contact because I didn’t want to approach her out of the blue like that, she was sitting in the corner so it would have been hard to talk anyways, not to mention the awkward moment of how she knows me in front of all her friends(guy/girl mix). And I honestly felt a little awkward myself. Fast-forward a little bit, and throughout the night I'm seeing some other familiar faces. A girl I was also talking to on Tinder but didn't give me her number, and also this girl from my favorite mexican restaurant right across the street who I’ve been wanting to make a move on, and lastly, this girl me and my friend were talking to when I was last at the bar before I got sick. She was with her friends and they were actually about to head to a dance club so I didn’t put in much work with that group. All-in-all, I couldn’t believe all these girls were at the bar. It was messing with my head.
We didn’t play darts too long before we decided to head back to the front of the bar. Eventually the girl comes and sits at the bar with her friend… right in front of me and my friends. It didn’t take me long to mull it over, and before long, I make my way to the bar and get right next to her on the left side. Now, my approach wasn’t too calibrated, once I get to the bar, I interrupt her and her friend and just say..”Hey, are you XXX?”. She seems excited and a little sketched out at the same time. I tell her I saw her at the back of the bar and thought it was her since I’m good with faces. We exchange some quick banter and i tell her this must be the pre-cursor to our Monday meet-up. She then introduces me to her friend, I extend my hand for quick pleasantries, and continue to hold her hand for another 10 seconds while we talk. I do that shit all the time when i meet girls at the bar, I don’t even think they notice they are still holding your hand, it’s really funny and makes it more intimate. Anyways, she starts up with a series of questions like its an interview. I end up calling her out on it. It was fun to reverse it since usually its the guy in interview mode. She lightened up after this and let me and her friend continue talking.
After this I pretty much just chill with this girl at the bar and talk until I eventually take her home. Her friend came over some time later and said she was leaving and asked if she was ok and all that. AKA are you staying here with him or leaving with us. She said she was going to stay… ohh yeah girl, I know what you’re looking for tonight
We then start talking about her other friend that is still at the bar as well, but is on verge to leave with the guy she is talking to. They are at the end of the bar to the left of us. She starts making fun of his hair and says her friend is looking for a rebound and is going to be leaving with that guy tonight. Like 5 mins later her friend comes over with the dude and they chat for a minute. The dude is just chillin in the back and I gave him a head nod like yeah bro get it son!!
I’ve been talking to this girl for probably 30-40 mins by now, maybe longer and its closing in on 2 AM. I proceed to close out my tab and tell her I'm going to grab my coat and then we will take off. She complies and I walk over to grab my coat. This girl has a real quirky up-beat personality so its pretty easy to keep the banter going as we walk back to my apt. Once we got back, I told her to get comfortable while I went to the bathroom. Then once I got back to the living room she does the same. Once on the coach, I just throw on some random television show and basically start escalating. Even before I met this girl I could tell she was looking for some dick. So I didn’t waste no time and simply gave her what she wanted. This girl was older than me (30) and was a fun roll in the hay.
It’s been an uneventful month for me due to being sick on and off. Last night was the first time I went out in like 3 weeks. Anyways, I went out with my friends to a popular college bar that is right in our area, within walking distance. I personally don’t like this bar but my new group of friends that I hang out with love the place, so I have been trying to make the best of it for quick easy lays since my apartment is close. Also, the one kid is decent with girls and we all pretty much want to meet and get laid so it keeps the agenda straight forward for the night. And let me tell you, I was really trying to get laid this night.
A little back story before I talk about the night at the bar. I planned a date with this girl off tinder that was supposed to be this coming Monday. I remember her saying that she was going to be going out Saturday night for her friends going away party (moving to another state). Well what do you know… It ends up being the bar we go to that night.
We post up at the dartboard in the back of the bar, and right in the corner I notice a group of people, and within the group… it’s the girl I’m supposed to see on Monday! I try not to make eye contact because I didn’t want to approach her out of the blue like that, she was sitting in the corner so it would have been hard to talk anyways, not to mention the awkward moment of how she knows me in front of all her friends(guy/girl mix). And I honestly felt a little awkward myself. Fast-forward a little bit, and throughout the night I'm seeing some other familiar faces. A girl I was also talking to on Tinder but didn't give me her number, and also this girl from my favorite mexican restaurant right across the street who I’ve been wanting to make a move on, and lastly, this girl me and my friend were talking to when I was last at the bar before I got sick. She was with her friends and they were actually about to head to a dance club so I didn’t put in much work with that group. All-in-all, I couldn’t believe all these girls were at the bar. It was messing with my head.
We didn’t play darts too long before we decided to head back to the front of the bar. Eventually the girl comes and sits at the bar with her friend… right in front of me and my friends. It didn’t take me long to mull it over, and before long, I make my way to the bar and get right next to her on the left side. Now, my approach wasn’t too calibrated, once I get to the bar, I interrupt her and her friend and just say..”Hey, are you XXX?”. She seems excited and a little sketched out at the same time. I tell her I saw her at the back of the bar and thought it was her since I’m good with faces. We exchange some quick banter and i tell her this must be the pre-cursor to our Monday meet-up. She then introduces me to her friend, I extend my hand for quick pleasantries, and continue to hold her hand for another 10 seconds while we talk. I do that shit all the time when i meet girls at the bar, I don’t even think they notice they are still holding your hand, it’s really funny and makes it more intimate. Anyways, she starts up with a series of questions like its an interview. I end up calling her out on it. It was fun to reverse it since usually its the guy in interview mode. She lightened up after this and let me and her friend continue talking.
After this I pretty much just chill with this girl at the bar and talk until I eventually take her home. Her friend came over some time later and said she was leaving and asked if she was ok and all that. AKA are you staying here with him or leaving with us. She said she was going to stay… ohh yeah girl, I know what you’re looking for tonight
We then start talking about her other friend that is still at the bar as well, but is on verge to leave with the guy she is talking to. They are at the end of the bar to the left of us. She starts making fun of his hair and says her friend is looking for a rebound and is going to be leaving with that guy tonight. Like 5 mins later her friend comes over with the dude and they chat for a minute. The dude is just chillin in the back and I gave him a head nod like yeah bro get it son!!I’ve been talking to this girl for probably 30-40 mins by now, maybe longer and its closing in on 2 AM. I proceed to close out my tab and tell her I'm going to grab my coat and then we will take off. She complies and I walk over to grab my coat. This girl has a real quirky up-beat personality so its pretty easy to keep the banter going as we walk back to my apt. Once we got back, I told her to get comfortable while I went to the bathroom. Then once I got back to the living room she does the same. Once on the coach, I just throw on some random television show and basically start escalating. Even before I met this girl I could tell she was looking for some dick. So I didn’t waste no time and simply gave her what she wanted. This girl was older than me (30) and was a fun roll in the hay.
