The way I see Women

[Avalanche]

All my life I've been trying to learn how to be a man. I've learned a lot by now, but I have so much doubt, confusion about this one thing. I read Chase's article of being edgy recently. That's the kind of personality I must have, considering my ambition/goal/ mission. That's exactly what I need to be. And in the article he says, for the edgy man, women aren't a big deal and he simply doesn't give a shit about them. But that's exactly my problem. I myself, care too much about them. I do think they're silly and cute. But at the same time, I'm quite empathetic towards them. Sure my mission is my priority, but women are kinda big deal to me too. I think they all are amazing human beings and its men's responsibility to take care of those fragile ones. I know that kinda bull**** aint edgy. So What do you guys think I should do? Should I meet a psychiatrist?

 

[Zoro]

And in the article he says, for the edgy man, women aren't a big deal and he simply doesn't give a shit about them.

I would say its not that the man doesn't care for women, its that he has bigger fish to fry than worrying about women as much as most men do.

Ideally, this guy has lots of options and gets laid, so he doesn't worry about women in that way,

and he "doesn't give a shit about them" means more that he has his own priorities and if that a woman doesn't agree or align well with those, he has no issue with sending her out the door.

He may still care for and be a lover of what women are.

"I think they all are amazing human beings and its men's responsibility to take care of those fragile ones."

I find myself taking care of the women in my life that agree and align well with my goals in life. Its almost like they become a boon to my success by being supportive, understanding, and leaving their drama at home. It becomes a comfortable masculine feminine dynamic in a exciting way for both parties. She gets a man she trusts has high standards, an exciting life, and options, and he gets a woman who is submissive, supportive, and horny.

I think the number one thing is having your priorities over women, and having no tolerance for women that conflict with those priorities.

 

[Drck]

A good way to see it that girls are also adults. She is say 20 or 30 years old, she is still cute/silly/sexy girl, but she is not a child. There are plenty of jobs out there, so respect her as an adult who is fully capable of living on her own, who is fully capable of making her own decisions, who is fully capable of choosing partner she wants. It is simply just respect, respecting another adult. Don't get sucked up into those feelings that she is a weak creature that needs to be constantly protected...

Once you respect them, there is no need to be a White Knight, Savior, Protector... Why? You learn to live independently, and she should also be able to live independently. Then you go from there, there is no need to be co-dependent on each other...

Also, a simple way to "be edgy" is simply being motivated to achieve something. You got things to do in life, you have goals, you are actively trying to accomplish things... Learn to be clear in what you want, that will clear up all of your confusions. For example, you want to achive extra college education - so you go for it. You decide, and you actively do it. So what is there to be confused about? That will give you plenty of edge