LR the worst LR ever....a valentine tragedy

[Ree]

The worst LR ever...a valentines tragedy 

Met a girl called fresha
One of the flyest girls I have gotten in a while
She initiated sex talk...so. Pulled
(...she commented that I have earrings....and i will have to prove I am not gay...)
Pulled ....all the way from Nakuru...
..I used that...valentines comes once an year vibe.
To give myself scarcity and boyfreind disqualify....I told her I was traveling out of the country after valentines
(THIS MIGHT Or MIGHT NOT HAVE BEEN A BIG MISTAKE)

   We met,she had already heavily invested just by coming all the way to nairobi.
Took her to my place.
Kissed her,carried her to my bed.... undressed her..and then...lmr struck.....i could not get passed the underwear.
...I now fully realize what chase was align about milestones.....
Some girls resist kissing you...but once you kiss her..the deal is done.....for some more slutty girls...a kiss is just like a handshake .....and boy was this girl a slut.
..I knew this because..she had no qualms about me touching her in the bus...
.......plus she was the one who initiated sex in our conversation....anyway
I absolutely could not get that underwear off....
She told me she was on her periods....and true enough she had a pad....
I started grinding on her....sucking on her nipples....
Man this was one of the few girls who grinding on her didn't make her moan and grind back and lose her rational mind....
......anyway....pulked out my secret weopon....my pointing finger.....americans call it index finger..which is a travesty ....the finger next to your thumb should only ever be referred to as pointing finger.....
......man I fingered that pussy...started getting gasps....
She closed her legs and ran to the bathroom...

An epiphany struck me....she was self concious of the smell....And generally nastiness of the situation...
She kept telling me how disgusting it was ....I don't think it was disgusting for her.....I think she thought it would disgust me...I told her....how I love the smell of rank pussy.....
  I Told her how I love fucking girls on their peez...
...this must have put her mind to ease
 I got back to fingering
    My fingers didn't have blood...she must have been on day one....plus she was wet enough to drown a giraffe...
I pushed down .her big tight ass granny pants and stuck my dick in.....
....her pants elastic was strangling my dick my nigga....I was trying to get in enough pumps to get her horny enough to take out that underwear....then 
SHE STARTED CRYING
...not moaning with joy....crying...
Man....
My Heart may be black....my Heart may be cold....and my heart may be small and wrinkled like a raisin....but..I still have a heart....amigo
   
so in a move that no doubt impressed chase...while simultaneously dissapointing roosh....I pulled my dick out.

....the girl flops on her side...curls into a ball and continues crying.
My dick shrinks (just like a dick to run away when shit hits the fan)
....I ask the girl...what's up?
..she tells me that she is so unlucky?
.....I'm wondering...unlucky..how?
.she says...her ex cheated on her....she tells me her other ex went to Dubai and just when she has found the perfect man to marry. (read Ree )......the man now says he too is leaving the country....
Man...so much for boyfreind disqualifications.
.....she says life is so unfair to her....she starts some self pitying story...saying how she is nice,...she knows how to cook and clean.....her mother taught her how to be a good wife....yet men just hurt her..she says she has never hurt anyone..it s just men who always seek her out with no other intention than just hurting her for a laugh.
......damn......it was real Heart wrenching stuff....,real heart breaking stuff..
....I was know just comforting her....
This may be irrelevant but I also caught a glimpse of how women think....
.....she dated the Dubai guy.....they fucked....for some inexplicable reason she started ignoring the Dubai guy.....(it wasn't bad sex..because she says the Dubai guy...was her best sex...yet....( a record I could have easily smashed had she let me smash....but I digress.....))...after being ignored....the Dubai guy gave up.....and months later left Kenya for dubai.......now once the Dubai guy left....the girl stared regretting.....this needs some more advanced seducers t explain..but  i too have had girls who. Fucked.....they ignored me.....I quit trying....then they got mad that I quit trying,......

....anyway back to the seduction.....I just felt suddenly very tired emotionally.
My emotional reserves have recently been very low due to a past oneitis.....
Anyway...I don't know wether I used a good tactic....on the wrong girl..or maybe that " am about to travel " line is just a bad tactic
.......most of my seductions...I disqualify myself ...but the girl usually still carries some hope .
I think saying I am about to travel is an extraordinarily harsh disqualified because there is no hope for a future romance.....that coupled with the fact that this girl had been just recently left by a man traveling....plus the period...
Plus
I think she wanted a boyfriend to hold hands with and take selfies with and let everyone know what a fantastic valentines shes having....
I think I just got such a curve ball.....
Goal line technology says technically this is a lay....but
Man....a few pumps....feels more like a waste of time...man
    I don't know what any of you guys would have done differently ...

 

[TheEcho]

That was hilarious...then sad. Maybe have the travel situation be much more of a maybe, than a certain. I actually haven't dabbled in disqualifying, I'm just always pushing forward and playful (and I'd like girls to come back around more often than not early on; I don't see much point going through everything to just have sex once). Ey, you got it in, and this gives you a new perspective to come at things with.

Best of luck man!

-Josh

 

[Ree]

Now that you mention it the answer seem so obvious....I should have it be a maybe not a certainty....thanks..point taken

 

[skin_man]

I actually haven't dabbled in disqualifying, I'm just always pushing forward and playful (and I'd like girls to come back around more often than not early on;

-Josh

Adding to this, the behavior after should show what you want. If you had used maybe, from her perspective, you might have seemed less scarce. I think you did right by sounding certain instead of a maybe.

Your focus however could be on treating her a bit more warmly. Cuddle some more, fuck again to cement the coital union you both had, tell her you won't promise anything but you actually like her a lot.

How do you see that work for you..

 

[Seppuku]

Hey Ree,

I can't help to relate to our other thread here.

To me, going on a date on Valentines day sends the wrong message. You need extra BF disqualification to compensate. Here it seems that the "will be leaving soon" was not enough. She was already seeing herself in BF/GF paradise. Even if you push the date a few days later in the week, girls will try it to frame it into a "late Valentines with your special someone".

How about trying to use V day to establish a chase frame? Again see my post in the link above. Girls are masters at doing just that, why not using it on them. By the way, my bet is, that's what she was trying to do with her Dubai guy when she started "ignoring" him. Make him chase her more to establish a stronger dominance on the relationship... and attach herself the guy in beta mode. Except it didn't worked out exactly as planned (she made him run away instead).

Life is tough for her LOL - but at the same time if she's a little good looking, just think of all the beta guys that she must have kept in distant orbit and oneitis over the years. We guys should have no shame in playing the "man's game" because girls are definitely playing the "girls game" and they are good at it.

Apart from that, congrats for all the good job you are doing on these boards, especially in the LR department ;-)

Cheers,
Seppuku