There's Something About You.

[Glitch]

I've got an interesting question regarding current girls, past girls and social circle girls, past and present.

While conversing it has lead to thoughts about people and then to discussing what we thought about one another. A frequent occurence has lead to (not just applying to girls either):

There's something about you.

However after 3/4 years of conscious thought I STILL to this day do not understand what makes me that way and is it just part of 'inner game'. Or even why people think of me this way. This has been said with teachers as far back as primary/secondary school as my insight was very mature for my age, before the sexual side developed. Is it the drive and determination of my desire to learn that is being 'felt'?

On a second note is there anyway I can identify or utilise this. Is it just the by-product of my development GC related/otherwise or is it just the nature of approaching?

Still figuring it out and wondering if I can utilise this even further, if anyone more experienced can help me come to some sort of consensus it would be appreciated,

Glitch

 

[Godsninja]

Is that what everyone always tells you?
Sounds like a good thing, maybe its your eyes haha.
Something that is never a bad idea is to record yourself while doing cold approaches, that way you will see things from outside which you didn't realize while in the moment.

G

 

[Glitch]

described it as classic scorpio eyes.

With regards to recording maybe tricky as I don't have anyone with the same mentality. I don't really do the laddy type people and most of the guys are more into gaming, computing and animation.

I'll see what it is as eye contact is probably part of it.

Thanks G. Any further thoughts would be appreciated if you or others think of them,

Glitch

 

[Godsninja]

I just had the thought of maybe it's something your doing that you shouldn't be doing because it doesn't match with the rest of you, or something your not doing that you should be, like something you did before, but you thought was wrong.

Kind of abstract I know, it's just that lots of guys including myself get caught up into thinking one way, and covering ourselves with something who we aren't, which is twice the blow, for results, and for our self-confidence.

 

[Glitch]

Ah my phone cut off some of my previous post.

It has been working very well for me and it's something that I abuse. My certain vibe and reserved/mysterious style does get women intrigued, so I just have to move in and move fast whilst interest is peaked. I do admit when it comes subtle interest I can still miss it unless I actively look for it. (Something to work on)

It's met with good connotations, I'm not really too sure what it is so I'm kind of curious about it and was wondering if any members had an idea about it. Might be due to the fundementals built from a combination of adapting successful experiments, my own style/attitudes and material learnt from GC; the overall fundementals/framing may give off a certain vibe.

So the conclusions is there is nothing negative or any actions that come across as unatural or go against my personal style. Might be an inner fire type thing? As I do admit I am an extremely driven and intense (all or nothing type?) person, but I do understand not many people can handle such extremes so it is 'contained' with my reserved person. So may be they 'sense' the passion and intensity that is hidden? I wouldn't say it's anger or aggression more of a hunger or strive to learn and compete, knowledge, sports, in all areas of life.

When you mentioned eye contact it is most likely enforcing the unknown vibe as it has been said by women that my eyes are one of my best assets. Been described as piercing, see into your soul eyes. Or as I mentioned before classic scorpio eyes.

I've been experimenting with differing signals with eye contact and apparently they can give off, playfullness, edge, fire. The reactions from girls it seems like it can even signal various signals at once, which again I don't consciously know how to do. One girl who I approached said she was intrigued/interested but was unsure if she had 'permission' to approach.

I can come across as appear hostile/commanding; a lot of people even though they are older seem to have a need to ask for permission as I come across as experience/knowledgeable. The older girls at Uni commonly act more girly and to me it's a stark difference to their normal personality when not around me.
This currently occurs in my Uni studies, even though I find them intelligent people themselves and am not arrogant enough to place myself as best of the best in the class.

Currently play, quips come in to balance this edge.

Thanks a lot for the help G if you think of other things or have any more thoughts on about eye contact then I'd be happy to listen,

Glitch

 

[Godsninja]

Oh, sounds like a seriously positive thing. I thought it was something bad !

It sounds like you need to start challenging yourself, cuz you're clearly on the ball.

One word of advice though is to not stop self improvement (or w.e. you call it) because just because you on the high note now, doesn't mean you will always be. I saw a presentation about this from a guy named Joshua P. and he talked about it as like a roller coaster effect, and how people usually go through life that that, only working on themselves when they are at the bottom.

Your low probably ain't as bad since as you say you got the fire, but be humble. If you're older, you might know what I'm talking about.

Set a goal, your dream, and dart towards it.

G

 

[Glitch]

Thanks for the advice G,

Yea I'll keep that in mind even though I never like to get lazy. My parents didn't have the easiest life and I can only do these amazing things because of them so I damn well ain't gonna waste it!

I can definitely relate to the roller coaster effect, as I've been through a fair share of things even before 20 which led me to just live life how you want it and go after the things only you want.

I'll keep being humble but sometimes can't help just getting excited for some reason. I've began to manage and reflect on some personal matter that went on over my 2 years in college that really racked me up. Now I can just accept it happened and take another route to the destination I want to get to.

March towards your goal through fire and storm, when you finally see the beauty of your achievement march through fire and storm so that you see many more.

Glitch