hi guys. this is just a collection of my thoughts. it's pretty much train of thought. i've started recording my inner monologues so this is more or less a transcription. nothing new here but i wanted to give at least a little something back. girlschase and the pickuppodcast are the two best resources for men trying to improve themselves.
i've learned a hell of a lot from girlschase, especially chase's older stuff, and that combined with my increasing maturity has served me well. wish i'd known this stuff ten years ago, i feel like i could conquer the world. guys in their 20s or maybe even younger, you have the world at your fucking feet, brothers! go get em,
anyway, onto some things i've learned:
You is what you is
you are what you think you are. You can be anything you want to be and you are what you do. So if you're a guy who sits at home all day reading the newspapers or whatever, that's who you are. Picking up girls, you could still do it, sure. But if you're a guy who goes out and talks to girls, picks up girls dates girls, fucks girls, then that's who you are. No matter who you were before. You are that guy.
I had a crisis of conscience before, until I became it. until I became that guy. It's actually easy, you are whatever you believe you are. You are what you do every day. You can be whoever you want to be - all you have to do is believe. This is such a simple concept that I feel stupid even saying it out loud. I can't believe I didn't figure it out sooner, or have someone point it out to me when I was younger.
And it's okay to be many different people at once. I love to surprise people, with my job, with the way I look. With showing different sides of my personality.
In fact I use this as a tool, it's my way of communicating discretion, at the same time as giving a girl permission to show me her naughty side. I stole something from krauser about my mum thinks I'm a good boy but I can be a hungry wolf but I expand on it. I say something like 'we all have different sides, and we can choose to hide some aspects of ourselves, and choose when and to who we show other sides'
Everybody always says oh you're such a gentleman … and later they say wow I thought you were a gentleman! this blows people's fucking minds I swear to god. So it's ok to have all these things going on. You don't need to doubt or worry about it you can be a guy who plays WoW and you can be a smooth talking lady's man at the same time, its ok.
be real
be honest. State your intentions clearly. Don't fucking lie to impress chicks. I had two virgins last weekend. Why? Both of them came directly for me to take their virginity. Why? Because I 'm fucking honest, because I didn't bullshit them, I gave them no lines or anything, I told them exactly what I wanted. told them I 'm not gonna have a relationship with you, i'm not gonna be your boyfriend, I'm not gonna marry you. But I promise you that I'll never lie to you, and I won't hurt you.
one of them kept saying why are you so ______? why are you so charming? Why are you so cocky? Or confident Why are you so sure of yourself? I just said I don't know. And she loves it. She says you're so bla bla bla and I say I'm just an ordinary guy, I'm just a normal guy. which is true, I'm not special In any way. I'm not particularly successful, or rich or anything else, but I'm fucking real. and I'm honest, and ordinary guys like that are quite rare. And that's especially mind blowing to a girl because 'hey, I'm just an ordinary guy' you say that to a girl with a twinkle in your eye and a smile on your face after you've just tied her up, blindfolded her and fucked her on your balcony …. I'm just an ordinary guy this blows peoples' minds
it goes back to the thing about being whatever you want to be as well because people are constantly surprised by me. I get it all the time, “oh you're such a gentleman” and then later “you're not the gentleman I thought you were”
when in doubt, escalate
the first virgin I mentioned, I had my scooter impounded on my way to meet her. The fact that this didn't get me down, I just took it in my stride, was a great boon to me, it was something I probably couldn't have done a while back.
On the date, my original plan was coffee and a walk in the park, to a drink in the bar, and my plan was to then go grocery shopping and back to my place to cook. But because I didn't have my bike, taking taxis everywhere would have been a pain in the ass. So I'm not even an hour into the date, I was done, I had nothing. She looked bored, looked fidgety. I'd already suggested shopping and cooking but it was kinda early; I was literally trying to stretch it out. I had nothing. I don't know why. So my solution: let's just go straight to my place then. If we're hungry later we can order some pizza. Job done
assume attraction
that's actually gold. I literally believe that every single woman I see or talk to wants to fuck me. I absolutely believe it. It helps that I am a charming, handsome and incredibly sexy man. And I am a man, not a boy. But... I literally believe that. I know it. I go on dates knowing that I'm gonna fuck the girl at the end of the date. I know it. There's not one doubt in my mind. If I'm on a date with her, she's coming back to my place. If she's coming back to my place, we're gonna fuck. No question. This has changed my life actually, assume attraction. It means you can do without any lines, any bullshit. go on a date, let her talk, you know she wants to fuck you so you let it happen, make it happen.
The importance of logistics
This is absolutely key. If logistics aren't tight you're not getting fucked, it's as simple as that. So keep it simple, stupid.
All you have to do is plan simple dates near where you live, and then do it. If you don't have a place to live by yourself you gotta improvise, of course. It's not that difficult to bang girls in a park after the sun goes down, I mean I still do that for fun anyway.
I read a lot of krauser. And krauser's the man, no doubt. If you don't know him go visit his website, you can read his journey from beginning to where he's at now. It's very interesting and humorous and informative and insightful. But if you read it you'll notice that a lot of the times, logistics have been his enemy. He does live in London of course, which probably is shitty for logistics but sometimes when I'm reading I'm thinking why the fuck are you taking taxis and night buses with girls, why are you going to three or four different bars ... you could do it all in an hour. He knows better than I do of course … but, yeah, logistics.
I'm hardcore but I'm a perfect gentleman. I'm filthy but I'll make them a cup of tea or breakfast in the morning, if there's time. i treat girls like my dirty little fuckslaves but it comes from a place of sharing and love. i'm never mean or nasty. I hold the door open for girls. I'll turn on the shower for them, make sure the water's a good temperature, wash their back, get them a toothbrush. All of these little things … but at the same time I'm filthy, I'm a filthy animal. And women look at me like … in astonishment that they can't believe this guy that they've found.
p.s. just another couple of lines i started to use
does that bother you? i say this a lot. a girl asks do you wanna fuck me? i say does that bother you? haha i mean who's gonna say yes to that? i literally tell girls, yeah, i wanna put my dick deep inside you. does that bother you? nobody's answering no.
you might change your mind
this makes you bullet-proof. get no for an answer? reply: well, i'll ask you again later, you might change your mind. you absolutely cannot be rejected if you say this.
"coffee, monday afternoon"
"no"
"well, i'll ask you again later, you might change your mind."
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"do you like men with beards?"
"no"
"well, i'll ask you again later, you might change your mind."
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"what do you like about foreign men?"
"I don't like foreign men"
"well, you might change your mind"
i've learned a hell of a lot from girlschase, especially chase's older stuff, and that combined with my increasing maturity has served me well. wish i'd known this stuff ten years ago, i feel like i could conquer the world. guys in their 20s or maybe even younger, you have the world at your fucking feet, brothers! go get em,
anyway, onto some things i've learned:
You is what you is
you are what you think you are. You can be anything you want to be and you are what you do. So if you're a guy who sits at home all day reading the newspapers or whatever, that's who you are. Picking up girls, you could still do it, sure. But if you're a guy who goes out and talks to girls, picks up girls dates girls, fucks girls, then that's who you are. No matter who you were before. You are that guy.
I had a crisis of conscience before, until I became it. until I became that guy. It's actually easy, you are whatever you believe you are. You are what you do every day. You can be whoever you want to be - all you have to do is believe. This is such a simple concept that I feel stupid even saying it out loud. I can't believe I didn't figure it out sooner, or have someone point it out to me when I was younger.
And it's okay to be many different people at once. I love to surprise people, with my job, with the way I look. With showing different sides of my personality.
In fact I use this as a tool, it's my way of communicating discretion, at the same time as giving a girl permission to show me her naughty side. I stole something from krauser about my mum thinks I'm a good boy but I can be a hungry wolf but I expand on it. I say something like 'we all have different sides, and we can choose to hide some aspects of ourselves, and choose when and to who we show other sides'
Everybody always says oh you're such a gentleman … and later they say wow I thought you were a gentleman! this blows people's fucking minds I swear to god. So it's ok to have all these things going on. You don't need to doubt or worry about it you can be a guy who plays WoW and you can be a smooth talking lady's man at the same time, its ok.
be real
be honest. State your intentions clearly. Don't fucking lie to impress chicks. I had two virgins last weekend. Why? Both of them came directly for me to take their virginity. Why? Because I 'm fucking honest, because I didn't bullshit them, I gave them no lines or anything, I told them exactly what I wanted. told them I 'm not gonna have a relationship with you, i'm not gonna be your boyfriend, I'm not gonna marry you. But I promise you that I'll never lie to you, and I won't hurt you.
one of them kept saying why are you so ______? why are you so charming? Why are you so cocky? Or confident Why are you so sure of yourself? I just said I don't know. And she loves it. She says you're so bla bla bla and I say I'm just an ordinary guy, I'm just a normal guy. which is true, I'm not special In any way. I'm not particularly successful, or rich or anything else, but I'm fucking real. and I'm honest, and ordinary guys like that are quite rare. And that's especially mind blowing to a girl because 'hey, I'm just an ordinary guy' you say that to a girl with a twinkle in your eye and a smile on your face after you've just tied her up, blindfolded her and fucked her on your balcony …. I'm just an ordinary guy this blows peoples' minds
it goes back to the thing about being whatever you want to be as well because people are constantly surprised by me. I get it all the time, “oh you're such a gentleman” and then later “you're not the gentleman I thought you were”
when in doubt, escalate
the first virgin I mentioned, I had my scooter impounded on my way to meet her. The fact that this didn't get me down, I just took it in my stride, was a great boon to me, it was something I probably couldn't have done a while back.
On the date, my original plan was coffee and a walk in the park, to a drink in the bar, and my plan was to then go grocery shopping and back to my place to cook. But because I didn't have my bike, taking taxis everywhere would have been a pain in the ass. So I'm not even an hour into the date, I was done, I had nothing. She looked bored, looked fidgety. I'd already suggested shopping and cooking but it was kinda early; I was literally trying to stretch it out. I had nothing. I don't know why. So my solution: let's just go straight to my place then. If we're hungry later we can order some pizza. Job done
assume attraction
that's actually gold. I literally believe that every single woman I see or talk to wants to fuck me. I absolutely believe it. It helps that I am a charming, handsome and incredibly sexy man. And I am a man, not a boy. But... I literally believe that. I know it. I go on dates knowing that I'm gonna fuck the girl at the end of the date. I know it. There's not one doubt in my mind. If I'm on a date with her, she's coming back to my place. If she's coming back to my place, we're gonna fuck. No question. This has changed my life actually, assume attraction. It means you can do without any lines, any bullshit. go on a date, let her talk, you know she wants to fuck you so you let it happen, make it happen.
The importance of logistics
This is absolutely key. If logistics aren't tight you're not getting fucked, it's as simple as that. So keep it simple, stupid.
All you have to do is plan simple dates near where you live, and then do it. If you don't have a place to live by yourself you gotta improvise, of course. It's not that difficult to bang girls in a park after the sun goes down, I mean I still do that for fun anyway.
I read a lot of krauser. And krauser's the man, no doubt. If you don't know him go visit his website, you can read his journey from beginning to where he's at now. It's very interesting and humorous and informative and insightful. But if you read it you'll notice that a lot of the times, logistics have been his enemy. He does live in London of course, which probably is shitty for logistics but sometimes when I'm reading I'm thinking why the fuck are you taking taxis and night buses with girls, why are you going to three or four different bars ... you could do it all in an hour. He knows better than I do of course … but, yeah, logistics.
I'm hardcore but I'm a perfect gentleman. I'm filthy but I'll make them a cup of tea or breakfast in the morning, if there's time. i treat girls like my dirty little fuckslaves but it comes from a place of sharing and love. i'm never mean or nasty. I hold the door open for girls. I'll turn on the shower for them, make sure the water's a good temperature, wash their back, get them a toothbrush. All of these little things … but at the same time I'm filthy, I'm a filthy animal. And women look at me like … in astonishment that they can't believe this guy that they've found.
p.s. just another couple of lines i started to use
does that bother you? i say this a lot. a girl asks do you wanna fuck me? i say does that bother you? haha i mean who's gonna say yes to that? i literally tell girls, yeah, i wanna put my dick deep inside you. does that bother you? nobody's answering no.
you might change your mind
this makes you bullet-proof. get no for an answer? reply: well, i'll ask you again later, you might change your mind. you absolutely cannot be rejected if you say this.
"coffee, monday afternoon"
"no"
"well, i'll ask you again later, you might change your mind."
---------------
"do you like men with beards?"
"no"
"well, i'll ask you again later, you might change your mind."
------------------------
"what do you like about foreign men?"
"I don't like foreign men"
"well, you might change your mind"
