Before I found this site, I was someone who had gone from a cynical bullying phase that ended up pushing people away, into a phase you could easily call spineless. I was friendless, let just about anybody order me around and affect my mood, and chased after the approval of others. I also, was what you'd call your average nice guy.. Everything the media and comedy movies teach people to be. I would set my eyes one a single girl, invest my emotions, time, and sometimes money into her, hoping blindly that somehow I could get her to see the good in me and make all the moves when she realized my goodness. In my mind, I had the mindset of passively showing value and waiting for girls to come to me. I followed the popular advice of "just being yourself."
Because of this, I got friend-zoned by every single girl I felt attracted to. This led to me going through phases where I'd go do a ton of self-destructive things.. you can name just about any destructive habit a depressed person would be into, and you can be sure that I did them. My self-esteem was rock bottom at that point, and I began to feel as if I was just born to sing the blues.
I was greatly disappointing with my results because I had just lost a ton of weight within the last summer by taking drastic measures I wouldn't recommend now. I thought I had uncovered the silver bullet to my romance life, but despite looking better, I was still not being taken seriously, I was still being friend-zoned, and I was still the approval seeking jester. Once I'd had enough of disappointment, I began looking for other quick fixes to my solution.. I looked online for silver bullets in how to seduce women, or how to read their minds.. I even looked into how to hypnotize them into liking me.
Then I found GirlsChase. The material was remarkably in depth, resourceful, and put in an easy way to understand. After reading just a few of Chase's articles, I knew I had found a gold mine. I knew this would be the site that would help me through all my problems and began to make as many changes as I could.. Over time, these changes became natural, and I would seek new ones.
Over time, I became more confident and socially adept. I began to see the world in a much better light than ever before, and was able to shed my previous bitterness and cynicism.. Hell, my writing even improved with so much exposure to Chase's style.
Now the same kids that used to pay me no attention and take me as a joke treat me with the kind of respect I yearned for for so long. I've gone from a loner with no voice to one of the top influences in my grade. People I don't know even treat me with more respect and see me as in a light they never would have 3 years ago. Quite recently, I blew away two managers when they interviewed me for a job because I ended up learning more about them than they did me.
By focusing my aim at getting better with girls, I inadvertently got better at life as well. This site didn't just save me from a non romantic life, it saved me from mediocrity in all aspects of my life. I am lucky for stumbling onto this site, and grateful beyond words for the material it exposed me to.