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I've been annoyed at situations with the approaches I have been getting and being able to hook them and fizzle out. Girls who've approached me are more direct than an approach invitation was more subtle.
Not kissing my own ass or self-sensationalize. It's frustrating when they come up, opening you, even buying you drinks sometimes, gives little compliance, making the situation even more difficult. if is an ugly hoe I don't care, these that come are pretty/hawt. I remember somewhere that when a girl approaches you she feels that she gave away the frame and tries to grab it back, but can't seem to find it now. I understand is degrees of attention whoring, there must be a way to pull them since there's interest.
Below are examples of what happened during the time and how it got me to close on occasions
Attention whores need dick too, ALSO I would put every girl to be an attention whore to some extent, some are just better at the game than others.
infield 1:
I was wearing my peacock jacket at a festival, smoking a cigarette, in front of me 10 meters away I see this beautiful black hair, I FELT she eyed me with her peripheral. within 10 minutes, I gazed over a couple of times she noticed, the girl have eyes in the back of their head. she came over asking for a cigarette I was way too in my head, I didn't understand what she said, she gesture for a cigarette
"yea 5 dollars"
(joke didn't land)
she took the cigarette, lingered said something AGAIN I didn't understand she just went off. she shared it with her friend, who had cigarettes, FML. For this girl being from a social frame of more conservative background, I should have opted for the number since SNL/SDL is mostly not going to happen anyways.
infield 2:
I was at the bar, trying to get a drink waiting to get the attention of the bartender, of course, hoes have priority. this sexy dress girl came up
girl: "Asia?! Europe!? (trying to guess my race)" *she had those skanky sexy look
me: "No, I'm not"
then I told her in a bantering way
"don't cut me, I'm waiting"
Then she playful pushes me and teased me with her ass, I grabbed her ass a couple of times. too much Kino makes her excited and over validated. She buys me a drink "What do you want?" wouldn't isolate THEN my mistake was following her back to her friend where I received a death stare while she was teasing me with her ass/attention. then when I fractionated she got pulled away by the fatty. 4 girl groups wouldn't isolate. Fatass hound/less attractive friend: "SHE NOT INTERESTED!!!!"
infield 3:
was standing around with my cigarette, she came up to me
girl: "Do you know where my friends are?! the bunch of blondes blah blah blah"
me: "Yeah we could talk outside is a bit loud in here"
I grabbed her hand and pulled her outside, that's too fast of an escalation, I mishandled this one.
"bitch who the fuck are you ?!" (in my mind)
infield 4, which is a much lighter one
"Hey, do you have a lighter?!
while her friend gives distance for our interaction, I got too excited playing the "give me your number or you can't use it" banter, then the frame changed. no longer have the chase frame advantage with her. 3 girl group. Got the number, of course being night game it doesn't work.
Infield 5: "This place is closed, you can't stand under my umbrella bar"
long story short^, this girl buys me a drink
"yeah sure.... what do you want?"
while the fatty friend gives the death stare, different city, same fucking shit worldwide.
How do you make the comfort level high enough for the girl to stay with you when the fatty goes to use the bathroom? I got the fatty onboard at this point but was my girl that wouldn't stay, felt like she would be a bad friend or some shit.
At times when I moved too fast, is because, in the back of my mind, I feel like people randomly invite themselves into my conversation, or I sense she was a fertile/ovulating girl, especially pre-hook stage, a bunch of retards who feeling themselves comes damage potential hook. if you are locked in verbally/ physically is less likely to happen BUT I still see stupid fucking shit some people do.
*remedy for this is not to break circle and stare them down, not engaging them. You have no friend infield, usually.
2 girl set is too annoying, if I escalate the other one gets jealous, and sometimes, I point it out and she even admits it, making it as a joke as to how her emotions change in half a second. other times don't even need sexual attention they just need to be talked to, otherwise she would stand there being just FAT, ROFL. this is when a wing is so helpful.
Thanks @Teevster for the recommendations for the dance floor! I've been upping my dance floor moves and lock-ins, attention-grabbing tactics. I need to calibrate better to not use heavy escalation in front of their friends, my dumb ass did when we were dancing a couple of times. ASD kicked in fast, from
"Wow where did you learn this?!" to "Ah no no I need to go" Right away the friend says "She's not interested" like the she PREPARED to just say that shit after dancing for awhile LMFAO
Most approaches are at festivals or night venues, I've got day game ones too. asking where Starbucks is or some Qs about random crap.
I have a theory about that dealing with being approached not working for me quiet well when I put into perspective where the few veterans I witnessed where I'm not as good reading their level of interest, calibration is off and having enough tactics to regenerate intrigue, being in low momentum. group dynamic are fun, but difficult at times to deal with.
A couple of examples of fails and closes
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(never got a reply after the first call and interaction, after she soft close for a meeting)
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(SNL, solo)
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(I was a rebound fling/valentine)
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(social proof)
Where are the examples of you being approached and closing? How do you guys capitalize on the girl approaching?
Not kissing my own ass or self-sensationalize. It's frustrating when they come up, opening you, even buying you drinks sometimes, gives little compliance, making the situation even more difficult. if is an ugly hoe I don't care, these that come are pretty/hawt. I remember somewhere that when a girl approaches you she feels that she gave away the frame and tries to grab it back, but can't seem to find it now. I understand is degrees of attention whoring, there must be a way to pull them since there's interest.
Below are examples of what happened during the time and how it got me to close on occasions
Attention whores need dick too, ALSO I would put every girl to be an attention whore to some extent, some are just better at the game than others.
infield 1:
I was wearing my peacock jacket at a festival, smoking a cigarette, in front of me 10 meters away I see this beautiful black hair, I FELT she eyed me with her peripheral. within 10 minutes, I gazed over a couple of times she noticed, the girl have eyes in the back of their head. she came over asking for a cigarette I was way too in my head, I didn't understand what she said, she gesture for a cigarette
"yea 5 dollars"
(joke didn't land)
she took the cigarette, lingered said something AGAIN I didn't understand she just went off. she shared it with her friend, who had cigarettes, FML. For this girl being from a social frame of more conservative background, I should have opted for the number since SNL/SDL is mostly not going to happen anyways.
infield 2:
I was at the bar, trying to get a drink waiting to get the attention of the bartender, of course, hoes have priority. this sexy dress girl came up
girl: "Asia?! Europe!? (trying to guess my race)" *she had those skanky sexy look
me: "No, I'm not"
then I told her in a bantering way
"don't cut me, I'm waiting"
Then she playful pushes me and teased me with her ass, I grabbed her ass a couple of times. too much Kino makes her excited and over validated. She buys me a drink "What do you want?" wouldn't isolate THEN my mistake was following her back to her friend where I received a death stare while she was teasing me with her ass/attention. then when I fractionated she got pulled away by the fatty. 4 girl groups wouldn't isolate. Fatass hound/less attractive friend: "SHE NOT INTERESTED!!!!"
infield 3:
was standing around with my cigarette, she came up to me
girl: "Do you know where my friends are?! the bunch of blondes blah blah blah"
me: "Yeah we could talk outside is a bit loud in here"
I grabbed her hand and pulled her outside, that's too fast of an escalation, I mishandled this one.
"bitch who the fuck are you ?!" (in my mind)
infield 4, which is a much lighter one
"Hey, do you have a lighter?!
while her friend gives distance for our interaction, I got too excited playing the "give me your number or you can't use it" banter, then the frame changed. no longer have the chase frame advantage with her. 3 girl group. Got the number, of course being night game it doesn't work.
Infield 5: "This place is closed, you can't stand under my umbrella bar"
long story short^, this girl buys me a drink
"yeah sure.... what do you want?"
while the fatty friend gives the death stare, different city, same fucking shit worldwide.
How do you make the comfort level high enough for the girl to stay with you when the fatty goes to use the bathroom? I got the fatty onboard at this point but was my girl that wouldn't stay, felt like she would be a bad friend or some shit.
At times when I moved too fast, is because, in the back of my mind, I feel like people randomly invite themselves into my conversation, or I sense she was a fertile/ovulating girl, especially pre-hook stage, a bunch of retards who feeling themselves comes damage potential hook. if you are locked in verbally/ physically is less likely to happen BUT I still see stupid fucking shit some people do.
*remedy for this is not to break circle and stare them down, not engaging them. You have no friend infield, usually.
2 girl set is too annoying, if I escalate the other one gets jealous, and sometimes, I point it out and she even admits it, making it as a joke as to how her emotions change in half a second. other times don't even need sexual attention they just need to be talked to, otherwise she would stand there being just FAT, ROFL. this is when a wing is so helpful.
Thanks @Teevster for the recommendations for the dance floor! I've been upping my dance floor moves and lock-ins, attention-grabbing tactics. I need to calibrate better to not use heavy escalation in front of their friends, my dumb ass did when we were dancing a couple of times. ASD kicked in fast, from
"Wow where did you learn this?!" to "Ah no no I need to go" Right away the friend says "She's not interested" like the she PREPARED to just say that shit after dancing for awhile LMFAO
Most approaches are at festivals or night venues, I've got day game ones too. asking where Starbucks is or some Qs about random crap.
I have a theory about that dealing with being approached not working for me quiet well when I put into perspective where the few veterans I witnessed where I'm not as good reading their level of interest, calibration is off and having enough tactics to regenerate intrigue, being in low momentum. group dynamic are fun, but difficult at times to deal with.
A couple of examples of fails and closes
FU - slide me that number HELP***
hey guys, last week when I got approached. So I was sitting at this café shop, wearing an attention-grabbing jacket, of course with good facial hygiene and decent hairstyle A group of women in their 30s, which I didn't care to even peek with my peripheral, I overheard some Latin language...
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LR - Oui oui oui, pardon pardon
I was in low momentum with a horrible sleep schedule, sleeping when the sun is up and playing/working when the sun goes down. Dealt with a bit of approach anxiety recently and wanted to not drink so much. I had to find some way to hack my endorphins because on one outing I see like maybe 3 girls...
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FU - easiest pull
went out with 1 of my wing and saw my old wing on the way to the loud club I dread going to I ran into an old wing who's a promoter with 2 girls with him, said our hi's parted ways, and ran into each other again after looping around to get cash. this time one of the girls from his group stated...
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FU - Doubles pulling streak Solo
long weekend 7/2/22 So this first pull of the duo was when I opened them initially during closing in front of the exit of the club when I was trying to pull this little blondie from a big mix group, I picked her up like a little barbie doll, spun around. Social proof/pre-selection and getting...
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FR++ - "lets get some drinks before you end your adventure of having my dick inside of you :)"
after promoting, I went back into the club trying out the silent approach with a girl who backed up into me on the dance floor, didn't work. suddenly out of nowhere, this girl grabs and pushes me onto the wall in front of the DJ, has to be one of the most aggressive girls by far. it was 2...
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Where are the examples of you being approached and closing? How do you guys capitalize on the girl approaching?
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