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Slay,
To a certain degree, dominance and overpowering a woman causes a high sense of arousal for both parties: it's the ultimate form of her submitting to you and the ultimate form of you dominating her. It's what she wants and what you want at a primal level.
All of that being said, most of the "primal" urges a man has occur when he is not using his rational mind. When you're in the actual act of sex, you're not thinking too much about what's good/bad for her and good/bad for you, but you can bet that things like "breaking her pelvis" are going to leave a pretty bad taste in both your mouth and her mouth once the sex is over and your rational minds kick back in. It's not too fun to suddenly realize you have a broken pelvis after a few minutes of intense pleasure -- you'll suddenly wish that you hadn't had that experience.
Like everything in seduction, there's a "middle-ground" area that satisfies both parties without long-lasting damage (emotional or physical) inflicted as a result. You can do things like choke, squeeze, slap, and bite a girl and have her enjoy it immensely... with some restraint of course. She doesn't want to end up in the hospital afterward -- that's only going to leave her fearing rough sex in the future.
As long as you exercise some restraint in your actions and realize that, while she loves being dominated and submitting to a dominant man, she is also a (likely slender) fragile human being. You want to be at least subconsciously aware of what actions can cause potential serious injury while still allowing her (and yourself) to explore some of the more rough, pleasurable aspects that dominant sex has to offer.
- Franco
To a certain degree, dominance and overpowering a woman causes a high sense of arousal for both parties: it's the ultimate form of her submitting to you and the ultimate form of you dominating her. It's what she wants and what you want at a primal level.
All of that being said, most of the "primal" urges a man has occur when he is not using his rational mind. When you're in the actual act of sex, you're not thinking too much about what's good/bad for her and good/bad for you, but you can bet that things like "breaking her pelvis" are going to leave a pretty bad taste in both your mouth and her mouth once the sex is over and your rational minds kick back in. It's not too fun to suddenly realize you have a broken pelvis after a few minutes of intense pleasure -- you'll suddenly wish that you hadn't had that experience.
Like everything in seduction, there's a "middle-ground" area that satisfies both parties without long-lasting damage (emotional or physical) inflicted as a result. You can do things like choke, squeeze, slap, and bite a girl and have her enjoy it immensely... with some restraint of course. She doesn't want to end up in the hospital afterward -- that's only going to leave her fearing rough sex in the future.
As long as you exercise some restraint in your actions and realize that, while she loves being dominated and submitting to a dominant man, she is also a (likely slender) fragile human being. You want to be at least subconsciously aware of what actions can cause potential serious injury while still allowing her (and yourself) to explore some of the more rough, pleasurable aspects that dominant sex has to offer.
- Franco
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Franco, thanks for your response.
Slay's original post really opens up life the Pandora's box type of perceptions that i carry around at times too. Lol.
Slay's original post really opens up life the Pandora's box type of perceptions that i carry around at times too. Lol.